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Call her and ask when is she free this week to get together
TAY '16: The Saga Continues
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Starting salsa lessons this week. The quest for fluid hips begins
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Yo snap chat everything!
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Maybe give it a day before this, you're already coming across too eager. Go about your day man, you don't know her.
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Just broke up with my girl of 4+ years, were friends for a solid 3 years prior to us getting together. Chemistry has just been off for a while. Tried addressing it but nothing was working. She also took a job in another state 7-8 months ago so long distance didn't help either.
We hit a snag in the relationship and before it became toxic I decided it was best to end it. It was the perfect breakup word to Seinfeld. No crying, cursing, just reflection and some jokes. She had been feeling the same way but thought she could do something on her end to change it. That's when I felt like a real **** and just knew it was time to call it off. Who knows what the future holds. I told her I see her as a wife and mom but I knew it wasn't going to happen between us if we kept on like this. It would have been even worse if I moved down there with her and it being just us.
To other NTers that may be in a similar situation, there is no convenient time to break up. Just follow your heart/gut. (Full disclaimer: I talked to damn near all my friends, even God, and flipped coins
). There is some regret creeping in because I know what she has to offer in the long run. But if you aren't having fun building up to it then whats the point?
We hit a snag in the relationship and before it became toxic I decided it was best to end it. It was the perfect breakup word to Seinfeld. No crying, cursing, just reflection and some jokes. She had been feeling the same way but thought she could do something on her end to change it. That's when I felt like a real **** and just knew it was time to call it off. Who knows what the future holds. I told her I see her as a wife and mom but I knew it wasn't going to happen between us if we kept on like this. It would have been even worse if I moved down there with her and it being just us.
To other NTers that may be in a similar situation, there is no convenient time to break up. Just follow your heart/gut. (Full disclaimer: I talked to damn near all my friends, even God, and flipped coins
). There is some regret creeping in because I know what she has to offer in the long run. But if you aren't having fun building up to it then whats the point?
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^went through something fairly similar not that long ago, even down to the (sort of) mutual parting of ways. Still have feelings for her, still care about her, but we're both too young to accept settling into a stagnant/declining relationship. And I said the same thing man, no point in sticking with something that is clearly not working at our age/life situation.
Glad it worked out for you, being single might be a little weird for you at first, but it gets much better real quick
EDIT: haven't been home for a weekend in over a month, how's DC been with the nicer weather? Looking fwd to this summer
Heard our group got 3 girl interns, might test the integrity of my work rule 
Glad it worked out for you, being single might be a little weird for you at first, but it gets much better real quick
EDIT: haven't been home for a weekend in over a month, how's DC been with the nicer weather? Looking fwd to this summer
Heard our group got 3 girl interns, might test the integrity of my work rule
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So my ex (Legally Wife) came through the day trying to work things out, basically saying we should work things out.
Current girl came through at the same time. Basically Jerry Springer came to my house.
Anyway, everyone is telling me that I should go counseling and work things out with my Wife (granted we been separated for awhile)
And that I owe it to my vows to at least try to work things out.
I feel bad for everybody because I know I'll hurt somebody, I could possibly just end up alone.
My current girls ofcourse continued to hold me down, and wants me to stay with her.
I need some words of advice, I sure could use it.
If you want to know more about the situation and more details... PM me!
I don't want to put it out in the open.
Current girl came through at the same time.
Basically Jerry Springer came to my house.Anyway, everyone is telling me that I should go counseling and work things out with my Wife (granted we been separated for awhile)
And that I owe it to my vows to at least try to work things out.
I feel bad for everybody because I know I'll hurt somebody, I could possibly just end up alone.
My current girls ofcourse continued to hold me down, and wants me to stay with her.
I need some words of advice, I sure could use it.
If you want to know more about the situation and more details... PM me!
I don't want to put it out in the open.
ogmcmxcii
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how sway?
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nah you don't, either stay or go.
prob should divorce her, since you already technically cheated 25x past year or whatever
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Do you have kids?So my ex (Legally Wife) came through the day trying to work things out, basically saying we should work things out.
Current girl came through at the same time.Basically Jerry Springer came to my house.
Anyway, everyone is telling me that I should go counseling and work things out with my Wife (granted we been separated for awhile)
And that I owe it to my vows to at least try to work things out.
I feel bad for everybody because I know I'll hurt somebody, I could possibly just end up alone.
My current girls ofcourse continued to hold me down, and wants me to stay with her.
I need some words of advice, I sure could use it.
If you want to know more about the situation and more details... PM me!
I don't want to put it out in the open.
If not, just go through with the divorce. You already know what you wanna do; you're just looking for confirmation.
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Cot damn, these ****** making life decisions for this man in one fell swoop.
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Off topic. What do you guys use for after shave? I was using tea tree oil... starting to get bumps on my neck again
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I use Vivant Skin Care facial products....they work marvelously on my skin and I don't suffer from razor bumps to boot (I am very susceptible to those )
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Words are appreciated
When you beating it and get that stride then she start saying all types of nasty ish questioning your manhood
That's when you tell yourself I'm about to be a father
When you beating it and get that stride then she start saying all types of nasty ish questioning your manhood
That's when you tell yourself I'm about to be a father
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Where do yall get those products from
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This removes bumps and keeps your face clean. Just wash your face and apply it after. Good for your skin, hair, face etc.
]Amazon product ASIN B0105T6QXK
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BEVEL!!!!
Idk what you're shaving with but TRUST ME WHEN I TELL YOU, Bevel is the top shaving system made for course and curly hair, and sensitive skin.
GetBevel.com
And they sell it at select targets
I've been using bevel for about 6 months now and I have nothing but success stories. It's a single blade razor, comes with priming oil, shaving cream, and a after shave balm. That's all you need. I occasionally dab some tendskin/skintight after I shave, but that's optional.
Bevel is the best thing that I've done for my skin since switching to Dudu Osum Black soap.
I even shave my jewels with bevel
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I just use clippers and rubbing alcohol...
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A steady routine of cleansing and exfoliating keeps that to a minimum. I shave with clippers though.
ogmcmxcii
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I shaved my jewels last night and damn 
Felt like the Zohan afterwards
No fap getting me right again [emoji]128170[/emoji][emoji]127997[/emoji][emoji]128588[/emoji][emoji]127997[/emoji]
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