Just seen my girl HEATED for the first time
Quick backstory, my ex who had me blocked on her phone for a couple years texted me really late about a month ago saying she was with my homie. Homie texts me after says he was just with my ex, says she broke up with her bf, she still has feelings for me, thinks it could work between us in the future if I grew up a little. In my mind, I would never ever give her another chance at a relationship because she screwed me over. I never responded to her text message to me.
A mutual friend of my ex texts me today and says, "Yo...... So totally random but Sarah (my ex) is here and wants to hang out...." I said, "Ok what were you guys thinking?" She said, "Want to meet for happy hour?"
I didn't respond.
I take a screenshot of convo and show my girl and ask if it would be ok with her (me thinking it'd be completely harmless and it would be great to show up in front of my ex and have her see me flourishing and know she ruined her chances). My girl completely freaks out on me. She's really upset bros.
I called my sister and she's like it's your first fight, won't always be a honeymoon, she'll get over it, I don't think you did anything wrong it's not like you went and did it without asking, etc...
What y'all think? I know it'll be ok just trying to rememdy the situation as best as possible