TAY '16: The Saga Continues

[iamdef]

Hall pass???

Permission slip for new yambs

 

[ogmcmxcii]

Permission slip for new yambs

She real. But real G'z don't need permission

 

[sooperhooper]

Social media has these girls' heads GONE. It just serves as proof that girls don't like what's real, they what an augmented reality that boosts their ego, that's why so many of them LOOOOVE snapchat. The filters slim/lighten their face, gives them these enchanting crowns or animal faces, then people flood them with attention.

This chick I've been hanging with is always on her phone, messaging, scrolling through social media, posing for a selfie etc. I told her I don't like it, she's gotten better, but still on it.

According to her, she has an active social life and "she thinks it's rude to not reply to her family/friends promptly." Then she finishes with, "expecting a girl to not be on the phone is unrealistic." Girl be quiet.

I need a girl with a basic/no phone.

 

[ogmcmxcii]

^ In 2016 man I wish but **** it it's the times we are in.

 

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The older I get my tolerance for foolishness just dwindles by the day. Would've ended that convo with ya momma was unrealistic for not taking you on her face.

No time for fuggin around in 2016

 

[iamdef]

Social media has these girls' heads GONE. It just serves as proof that girls don't like what's real, they what an augmented reality that boosts their ego, that's why so many of them LOOOOVE snapchat. The filters slim/lighten their face, gives them these enchanting crowns or animal faces, then people flood them with attention.

This chick I've been hanging with is always on her phone, messaging, scrolling through social media, posing for a selfie etc. I told her I don't like it, she's gotten better, but still on it.

According to her, she has an active social life and "she thinks it's rude to not reply to her family/friends promptly." Then she finishes with, "expecting a girl to not be on the phone is unrealistic." Girl be quiet.

I need a girl with a basic/no phone.

Only time I can dig that if they get legit bread from it. Not catching flights for that booty hustle neither. But a brand.

 

[iamdef]

She real. But real G'z don't need permission

I'm cool with not being real

 

[ogmcmxcii]

The older I get my tolerance for foolishness just dwindles by the day. Would've ended that convo with ya momma was unrealistic for not taking you on her face.

No time for fuggin around in 2016

Being 24 sucks man, you see the bs and struggle smh. For now I just want Company. These early 30 year olds don't give me no problems like females my age do. All I wanna do is chill at their crib, drink, share a nice cooked meal, have a chill smash sesh and bounce in the morning after breakfast [emoji]9996[/emoji][emoji]127998[/emoji]

 

[Kaleo15]

We were texting and she was telling me all the nasty stuff. When we together she honestly tells me shes gonna take her clothes off but not to touch her. I'm like whatever. After she strips I go in but she's really serious. I'm thinking it's a joke

I tried again and she's really srs on me not touching her. Bruh

Then she starts touching me.. Idk shes a special case man

Never had an issue where a chick would play like that after I already knocked it down. Once i smash it's like an open gate to the box after that

It better had been fiya with fireworks shooting out cause ol girl woulda got put out of her own apt with that bull. I woulda been dropped her



Homies coming to the city in Oct, wifey asked if I wanted a hall pass....been plotting

What are the conditions. Me and current girl already discussed terms & conditions. Not bad so far *knocks on wood*

Like I said earlier, went to a Hip Hop/Rave last weekend. Brought a girl home. Should've taken pics because they were passed out laying on eachother and I had to piss

 

[awwsome]

I'm cool off that hall pass stuff, slippery slope.

 

[T Lo Sweater]

Social media has these girls' heads GONE. It just serves as proof that girls don't like what's real, they what an augmented reality that boosts their ego, that's why so many of them LOOOOVE snapchat. The filters slim/lighten their face, gives them these enchanting crowns or animal faces, then people flood them with attention.

This chick I've been hanging with is always on her phone, messaging, scrolling through social media, posing for a selfie etc. I told her I don't like it, she's gotten better, but still on it.

According to her, she has an active social life and "she thinks it's rude to not reply to her family/friends promptly." Then she finishes with, "expecting a girl to not be on the phone is unrealistic." Girl be quiet.

I need a girl with a basic/no phone.

Amen man preach

Girls nowadays are quiiiiiick to give u the snap and the ig but are hesitant on the digits

My man was mad hyped cause he got this joints snap and ig. I'm like u needa calm down. Only get hype after u get the box

But of course he hits her up on snap and she doesn't reply. Typical ig/snap Byrd that only cares about her likes and how many ppl viewed her story

 

[tdogg2k]

I didn't read everything, but I do know what a Hall pass is and yall are def tripping.

Dudes tend to forget stuff like that isn't one sided. Then yall up in your feels when she uses one too.

as much as I wouldn't mind having a new woman every now and again, im much to selfish to share mine with any other dudes.

but if she allows it and you think there will be no problems, by all means u got it.

 

[awwsome]

Social media has affected relationships on both sides crazy.

Men especially if you have something to offer, have way more options because of IG/Tinder/all those other platform.

You good looking, getting some money and aren't a weirdo, you could easily be ******* a different woman every night if you wanted to by just using your phone. Granted that doesn't mean that it gets any easier to find a really special woman, unicorns stay unicorns.


For women, IG/SC especially has become one of the easiest ego boosts/self esteem tricks out there. Why even entertain a guy you have no real interest in? But if he just follows you and social to simp and give likes, he has use to you now. Also you can be petty and spy on all those women you "hate" and compare yourselves.

The women who are obsessed with social media tend to be the types who have a narcissistic streak or have low self esteem. Add on to the fact that it helps you live vicariously through celebrities and it's easy to see why certain women/men can't get enough.

 

[carver]

 
Forgot to post this update.

Hung out with 'new challenger' the other day. We click in too many ways. Like I really love to walk. Just a quirk of mine. She has it too. I'm not a really social guy. She's not a really social girl. She would rather walk around a bit, get wendy's, go to the crib, and chill, rather than get mad dressed up to go to the club or to a fancy restaurant. Same with me. She even replying to text messages much faster since I talked to her about it.

I'm just diggin the vibe right now. 

I felt the same way when I met my girl. She also didn't nag/complain a lot either and still doesn't.

The only glaring issue is my firm no-marriage stance.

we share the same stance ..I feel the same way about marriage and I think that's what ultimately ended my last relationship with my ex. I think she thought she could change me. I think my stance started getting to her which led to a lot of problems..most obvious was in the bedroom. Our sex life was great the first 4 years or so but her friends were getting married around her and I don't know if she started feeling the pressure or what. But she kept wanting to look at rings and showing me and I felt bad but I told her from the jump when we got serious I had no plans of ever getting married. Them problems led to other problems and we split up after 5 years and a kid. I don't know how I feel about that stance anymore she was someone I could have been happy spending the rest of my life with. And I couldn't ask for a better mother for my son.

 

[awwsome]

I didn't read everything, but I do know what a Hall pass is and yall are def tripping.

Dudes tend to forget stuff like that isn't one sided. Then yall up in your feels when she uses one too.

as much as I wouldn't mind having a new woman every now and again, im much to selfish to share mine with any other dudes.

but if she allows it and you think there will be no problems, by all means u got it.

Real talk right here.


Would never want my girl doing anything with another *****, if you believe the hall pass don't work both ways then......

 

[Kaleo15]

I didn't read everything, but I do know what a Hall pass is and yall are def tripping.

Dudes tend to forget stuff like that isn't one sided. Then yall up in your feels when she uses one too.

as much as I wouldn't mind having a new woman every now and again, im much to selfish to share mine with any other dudes.

but if she allows it and you think there will be no problems, by all means u got it.

Real talk right here.


Would never want my girl doing anything with another *****, if you believe the hall pass don't work both ways then......

Never said it doesn't.

But that's why it's important to establish boundaries. There are rules to it that each party must abide and respect.

Swinger life, hall passes... ect. is not for everybody. Most people aren't built for that.

 

[heliumclinton]

Swinger life, hall passes... ect. is not for everybody. Most people aren't built for that.

Sounds like an amazing relationship to me

 

[awwsome]

Never said it doesn't.

But that's why it's important to establish boundaries. There are rules to it that each party must abide and respect.

Swinger life, hall passes... ect. is not for everybody. Most people aren't built for that.

So you cool with your girl having sex with another man?

 

[flyny]

I'm cool off that hall pass stuff, slippery slope.

Facts y'all ****** is wilding

Sounds like an amazing relationship to me

You wilding

I ain't with that hall pass ****. That's definitely not one sided. You can't expect your girl to give you a pass, and she doesn't plan on doing the same. How you gonna feel when the girl you love tells you that she's about to go to Barringtons house to get piped down by him and his cousin from who just flew down from Kingston? Nah, B. Everybody catching bulletholes word to mommy

 

[iamdef]

What are the conditions. Me and current girl already discussed terms & conditions. Not bad so far *knocks on wood*

Like I said earlier, went to a Hip Hop/Rave last weekend. Brought a girl home. Should've taken pics because they were passed out laying on eachother and I had to piss

Haven't discussed it in full, I'll let y'all know

I'm cool off that hall pass stuff, slippery slope.

It can be but with people who know how to communicate it can also be very simple

I didn't read everything, but I do know what a Hall pass is and yall are def tripping.

Dudes tend to forget stuff like that isn't one sided. Then yall up in your feels when she uses one too.

as much as I wouldn't mind having a new woman every now and again, im much to selfish to share mine with any other dudes.

but if she allows it and you think there will be no problems, by all means u got it.

That's thing, that open relationship stuff isn't flatly defined, it's customized to your relationship. My wife into women and she'll more likely pick a chick before a dude. But that's why there's a discussion

Real talk right here.


Would never want my girl doing anything with another *****, if you believe the hall pass don't work both ways then......

If you think every relationship is the same then....


Y'all gotta let go of the concept that since guys would enjoy a new chicks they girl MUST want new dudes. It ain't like that every time. I know more women that want threesomes with either two other girls or just one guy than I do with two guys. But like I said it's a conversation that has to happen to understand whats what

 

[Kaleo15]

Never said it doesn't.

But that's why it's important to establish boundaries. There are rules to it that each party must abide and respect.

Swinger life, hall passes... ect. is not for everybody. Most people aren't built for that.

So you cool with your girl having sex with another man?

My current is Bi... she agreed that she only likes girls, her terms were that she was allowed to date girls outside our relationship.

My last last ex... she slept with 1 guy that I consented to... she didn't like it. But she was okay with me with other girls.

One thing you fellas need to understand is... woman is NOT like us guys, sex is a lot more meaningful to them... they don't go fantasizing the way us guys do (threesomes, sleeping with as much girls as possible, different girls different days... ect)

As the homie stated already, just because a girl is okay with they're man being with another girl does NOT mean it's because she wants to be with another man.

If that's the case.... then communicate. Communication is the key.

 

[T Lo Sweater]

Facts y'all ****** is wilding
You wilding

I ain't with that hall pass ****. That's definitely not one sided. You can't expect your girl to give you a pass, and she doesn't plan on doing the same. How you gonna feel when the girl you love tells you that she's about to go to Barringtons house to get piped down by him and his cousin from who just flew down from Kingston? Nah, B. Everybody catching bulletholes word to mommy

Idk man i feel like it could be a test too. Even if she brought it up or even said yeah it's cool

My boy got a text from this chick saying i like you. I never stopped liking you even tho it's been a couple of years since high school. He's like nah chill I got a girl (keep in mind his girls best friend was the one saying all that stuff)

So he tells his girl and she says congrats u passed the test

Could be happening here but under different circumstances

 

[iamdef]

It crossed my mind about it being a test and that why we gon have a serious sit down. My wife don't play them kind of games with me anymore. Taught her a long time ago I don't like them lil tests and I'll fail em just to piss her off. But I'm not gon go with anything unless I feel 100% confident about the end results. No trim is worth my marriage so if she hesistant a lil, I'm good.

 

[T Lo Sweater]

It crossed my mind about it being a test and that why we gon have a serious sit down. My wife don't play them kind of games with me anymore. Taught her a long time ago I don't like them lil tests and I'll fail em just to piss her off. But I'm not gon go with anything unless I feel 100% confident about the end results. No trim is worth my marriage so if she hesistant a lil, I'm good.

There u go. Props on letting her know about games being played

Def wish you Goodluck

 

[awwsome]

Haven't discussed it in full, I'll let y'all know
It can be but with people who know how to communicate it can also be very simple
That's thing, that open relationship stuff isn't flatly defined, it's customized to your relationship. My wife into women and she'll more likely pick a chick before a dude. But that's why there's a discussion
If you think every relationship is the same then....


Y'all gotta let go of the concept that since guys would enjoy a new chicks they girl MUST want new dudes. It ain't like that every time. I know more women that want threesomes with either two other girls or just one guy than I do with two guys. But like I said it's a conversation that has to happen to understand whats what

When did I say all relationships are the same?


Because I didn't, I'll ask you the same question.

I know about women and their fantasies, that's not what we talking about.


Are you cool with your girl having sex with another man?

If you are, like homie above then cool. I couldn't do it but different strokes for different folks.

If you aren't, then that whole situation sounds stupid to me.