TAY '16: The Saga Continues

[Kaleo15]

[COLOR=#red]iamDEF[/COLOR] read your PM bro.

 

[iamdef]

When did I say all relationships are the same?


Because I didn't, I'll ask you the same question.

I know about women and their fantasies, that's not what we talking about.


Are you cool with your girl having sex with another man?

If you are, like homie above then cool. I couldn't do it but different strokes for different folks.

If you aren't, then that whole situation sounds stupid to me.

Never said you said that, but to answer the question I'm not, but luckily for me I don't have to worry about that. So....

 

[Kaleo15]

Haven't discussed it in full, I'll let y'all know
It can be but with people who know how to communicate it can also be very simple
That's thing, that open relationship stuff isn't flatly defined, it's customized to your relationship. My wife into women and she'll more likely pick a chick before a dude. But that's why there's a discussion
If you think every relationship is the same then....


Y'all gotta let go of the concept that since guys would enjoy a new chicks they girl MUST want new dudes. It ain't like that every time. I know more women that want threesomes with either two other girls or just one guy than I do with two guys. But like I said it's a conversation that has to happen to understand whats what

When did I say all relationships are the same?


Because I didn't, I'll ask you the same question.

I know about women and their fantasies, that's not what we talking about.


Are you cool with your girl having sex with another man?

If you are, like homie above then cool. I couldn't do it but different strokes for different folks.

If you aren't, then that whole situation sounds stupid to me.

You are completely correct... which is why I PM'd dude. Pretty much asking what you just asked.

 

[tdogg2k]

If you think girls aint looking to get one off the same guys are....you may be a little mis informed (no shade)

They just arent as vocal with it. But there isnt a girl ive talked to who hasnt mentioned just having casual sex just to have it without catching feelings. I damn near know just as many girls as guys that can have a friend with benefit and think nothing of it. Hell i think majority of the dudes end up catching feelings as easily if not more after continuous coitus.


But with all that said im still not as cool with my girl wanting another girl on a solo tip away from me being involved. But again im selfish. I want to be all my girl "wants".
So i want no discussion of other partners outside a threesome.
(Which my girl has talked about not being down with unless were doing with girl and guy )


Plus isn't it a bit contradictory to be like... women are sneaky, women are cold blooded, women aint loyal... then turn around and be like they aint got the same mentality as guys when it comes to sex. I mean every woman is certainly different tho.

 

[iamdef]

If you think girls aint looking to get one off the same guys are....you may be a little mis informed (no shade)

They just arent as vocal with it. But there isnt a girl ive talked to who hasnt mentioned just having casual sex just to have it without catching feelings. I damn near know just as many girls as guys that can have a friend with benefit and think nothing of it. Hell i think majority of the dudes end up catching feelings as easily if not more after continuous coitus.


But with all that said im still not as cool with my girl wanting another girl on a solo tip away from me being involved. But again im selfish. I want to be all my girl "wants".
So i want no discussion of other partners outside a threesome.
(Which my girl has talked about not being down with unless were doing with girl and guy )


Plus isn't it a bit contradictory to be like... women are sneaky, women are cold blooded, women aint loyal... then turn around and be like they aint got the same mentality as guys when it comes to sex. I mean every woman is certainly different tho.

Don't get me wrong, I understand your point which is why a discussion is necessary. My wife has way more sexual experience than I do so our discussion will mostly be her telling me what she expects and what she wants and me deciding if it's something I can groove with

 

[BIG LEEMELONE]

If a chick is willing to take a hall pass from you, she probably would cheat on you anyway. Real ****. Either she's comfortable having more than one thang thang in her hoo-ha or she's not. There's basically two types of women from my experience, ones that **** around with multiple dudes at once or ones that jump from **** to **** in sequence.

We were texting and she was telling me all the nasty stuff. When we together she honestly tells me shes gonna take her clothes off but not to touch her. I'm like whatever. After she strips I go in but she's really serious. I'm thinking it's a joke

I tried again and she's really srs on me not touching her. Bruh

Then she starts touching me.. Idk shes a special case man

Never had an issue where a chick would play like that after I already knocked it down. Once i smash it's like an open gate to the box after that

Man I used to mess with this chick that made me take the p by force every time we got it in. She had some weird type of rape fetish I guess. It was cool the first time but damn. Had to exert so much energy to pin her down I hardly had anything left in the tank to get busy. There was another chick like that too and they were both Ghanian chicks so I dunno what's up with that.

 

[heliumclinton]

You wilding

I ain't with that hall pass ****. That's definitely not one sided. You can't expect your girl to give you a pass, and she doesn't plan on doing the same. How you gonna feel when the girl you love tells you that she's about to go to Barringtons house to get piped down by him and his cousin from who just flew down from Kingston? Nah, B. Everybody catching bulletholes word to mommy

Stop acting like there's one way to relationships b, if you find the right woman that fits your preferences it'll work out.

How does you smashing another woman automatically means your old lady gets another man? Nah that's not how it goes at all

and I keep telling y'all to get you a bi woman or a used to be lesbian and live happily ever after

 

[tdogg2k]

Stop acting like there's one way to relationships b, if you find the right woman that fits your preferences it'll work out.

How does you smashing another woman automatically means your old lady gets another man? Nah that's not how it goes at all

and I keep telling y'all to get you a bi woman or a used to be lesbian and live happily ever after

Whether man or woman, the point is most people don't want to share their mates. so thinking one individual can have a hall pass and the other person isn't even curious about having one their selves is naive.
wanting to have a threesome is a completely different thing.

but to think someone is goign to let you do something and they not be curious or want it too is crazy.

unless you were a virgin before and they just feel bad you dont have experience I dont see this being a thing .

 

[Bruce Banner]

Guess chicks get offended when I say I'm
Bringing a bottle of Henny over & chill . I'm done with dates .

 

[heliumclinton]

Whether man or woman, the point is most people don't want to share their mates. so thinking one individual can have a hall pass and the other person isn't even curious about having one their selves is naive.
wanting to have a threesome is a completely different thing.

but to think someone is goign to let you do something and they not be curious or want it too is crazy.

unless you were a virgin before and they just feel bad you dont have experience I dont see this being a thing .

Well of course if grown adults have a serious dialogue I'm sure the other person will talk about possibly doing it too. My lady and I had that talk a long time ago. I straight up asked "so what's up you trying get D down by another dude?". Her response was "I've thought about it but I really don't think I could have another dude in me while I'm in love with you. If I ever tell you I don't love you then I got probably got some new D" I respect it and I believe her

It's real life folks and it actually does happen. Women and men want different things in relationships which is why I'm not understanding the whole "if you do it she'll want to do it too" .. no not really they want different things.

 

[Kaleo15]

Whether man or woman, the point is most people don't want to share their mates. so thinking one individual can have a hall pass and the other person isn't even curious about having one their selves is naive.
wanting to have a threesome is a completely different thing.

but to think someone is goign to let you do something and they not be curious or want it too is crazy.

unless you were a virgin before and they just feel bad you dont have experience I dont see this being a thing .

Well of course if grown adults have a serious dialogue I'm sure the other person will talk about possibly doing it too. My lady and I had that talk a long time ago. I straight up asked "so what's up you trying get D down by another dude?". Her response was "I've thought about it but I really don't think I could have another dude in me while I'm in love with you. If I ever tell you I don't love you then I got probably got some new D" I respect it and I believe her

It's real life folks and it actually does happen. Women and men want different things in relationships which is why I'm not understanding the whole "if you do it she'll want to do it too" .. no not really they want different things.

Bro that's basically the same thing my girl said and previous exes said.

Basically they said it's good to think about and watch in p0rn... but to actually do it, they would feel degraded as a woman.

Us guys don't feel like that, we don't go "Oh I just slept with 2 girls at the same time... I feel less of a man, my Father would be ashamed of me"

But girls do. Simple as that. Don't know why you guys buy into the all girls are **** social media portrays.

 

[tdogg2k]

but aren't some of yall the same ones in here who have cheated or stepped out on a girl and felt instant regret...

men are more act first think later creatures than women.

but you can call me what you want, but if i have true love for my girl i will feel like an absolute scumbag if i stepped out on her.

me personally I could never ask for a hall pass if i was 100% completely in love with my girl.
only way i would ask is if i just wasn't all the way in... and even then i would just think it may be time to break up.

 

[Coromanti]

Facts y'all ****** is wilding
You wilding

I ain't with that hall pass ****. That's definitely not one sided. You can't expect your girl to give you a pass, and she doesn't plan on doing the same. How you gonna feel when the girl you love tells you that she's about to go to Barringtons house to get piped down by him and his cousin from who just flew down from Kingston? Nah, B. Everybody catching bulletholes word to mommy

Idk man i feel like it could be a test too. Even if she brought it up or even said yeah it's cool

My boy got a text from this chick saying i like you. I never stopped liking you even tho it's been a couple of years since high school. He's like nah chill I got a girl (keep in mind his girls best friend was the one saying all that stuff)

So he tells his girl and she says congrats u passed the test

Could be happening here but under different circumstances

AND HE STAYED WITH HER!?

Couldn't be me. Test me like that and I'm out. Yo plan that whole elaborate thing to test if I would cheat says a lot about her insecurity. If she doing that she probably tried to look through my phone, social media, etc. Like I dont need that life of surveillance and stress.

 

[23kidd]

that whole hallpass/swing life thing isnt for me. Sure getting more than 1 yamb is cool but i guess me growing up the way i did is the reason why im not with it.

either im single and getting yambs or in a relationship.Then again every couple is different and has their own preferences so who am i to judge



*kanyeshrug*

 

[willypete]

that whole hallpass/swing life thing isnt for me. Sure getting more than 1 yamb is cool but i guess me growing up the way i did is the reason why im not with it.

either im single and getting yambs or in a relationship.Then again every couple is different and has their own preferences so who am i to judge



*kanyeshrug*

This

 

[Kaleo15]

that whole hallpass/swing life thing isnt for me. Sure getting more than 1 yamb is cool but i guess me growing up the way i did is the reason why im not with it.

either im single and getting yambs or in a relationship.Then again every couple is different and has their own preferences so who am i to judge



*kanyeshrug*

This

I was also that too before.

But Chris Rock said it best... "Woman can never go back in lifetstyle, Men can never go back sexually"

Once we are exposed to a certain way, it's hard to ever go back.

 

[slighted]

 

 

Facts y'all ****** is wilding
You wilding

I ain't with that hall pass ****. That's definitely not one sided. You can't expect your girl to give you a pass, and she doesn't plan on doing the same. How you gonna feel when the girl you love tells you that she's about to go to Barringtons house to get piped down by him and his cousin from who just flew down from Kingston? Nah, B. Everybody catching bulletholes word to mommy

Idk man i feel like it could be a test too. Even if she brought it up or even said yeah it's cool

My boy got a text from this chick saying i like you. I never stopped liking you even tho it's been a couple of years since high school. He's like nah chill I got a girl (keep in mind his girls best friend was the one saying all that stuff)

So he tells his girl and she says congrats u passed the test

Could be happening here but under different circumstances

AND HE STAYED WITH HER!?

Couldn't be me. Test me like that and I'm out. Yo plan that whole elaborate thing to test if I would cheat says a lot about her insecurity. If she doing that she probably tried to look through my phone, social media, etc. Like I dont need that life of surveillance and stress.

Very true, that is super malicious and disrespectful to your partner. Either you trust each other or nah.

What would've happened if he blew up in her face and called her out? Would she have played the victim card, drum up some tears, etc.?

 

[Kaleo15]

 

 

Facts y'all ****** is wilding

You wilding


I ain't with that hall pass ****. That's definitely not one sided. You can't expect your girl to give you a pass, and she doesn't plan on doing the same. How you gonna feel when the girl you love tells you that she's about to go to Barringtons house to get piped down by him and his cousin from who just flew down from Kingston? Nah, B. Everybody catching bulletholes word to mommy

Idk man i feel like it could be a test too. Even if she brought it up or even said yeah it's cool


My boy got a text from this chick saying i like you. I never stopped liking you even tho it's been a couple of years since high school. He's like nah chill I got a girl (keep in mind his girls best friend was the one saying all that stuff)


So he tells his girl and she says congrats u passed the test


Could be happening here but under different circumstances

AND HE STAYED WITH HER!?


Couldn't be me. Test me like that and I'm out. Yo plan that whole elaborate thing to test if I would cheat says a lot about her insecurity. If she doing that she probably tried to look through my phone, social media, etc. Like I dont need that life of surveillance and stress.

Very true, that is super malicious and disrespectful to your partner. Either you trust each other or nah.

What would've happened if he blew up in her face and called her out? Would she have played the victim card, drum up some tears, etc.?

He should've told his boy to whip it out in front of his girl.. and see if she tells him what his homie did. And if she does, she passed the test!

 

[awwsome]

Very true, that is super malicious and disrespectful to your partner. Either you trust each other or nah.

What would've happened if he blew up in her face and called her out? Would she have played the victim card, drum up some tears, etc.?

Agreed, that's childish behavior that no adult couple should have any time/space for.

 

[T Lo Sweater]

AND HE STAYED WITH HER!?

Couldn't be me. Test me like that and I'm out. Yo plan that whole elaborate thing to test if I would cheat says a lot about her insecurity. If she doing that she probably tried to look through my phone, social media, etc. Like I dont need that life of surveillance and stress.

Yeah man he did. I mean he had 2 side pieces but still stayed wit her. I know for a fact id leave asap if a girl tested me like that. Shows she dont trust me

 

[oidreez]

Guess chicks get offended when I say I'm
Bringing a bottle of Henny over & chill . I'm done with dates .

what happened?

 

[23kidd]

Anyones PM available?


I need some personal advice

 

[tdogg2k]

pmed

 

[wavy daddy]

Anyones PM available?


I need some personal advice

Wudup

 

[Betonblck]

The older I get my tolerance for foolishness just dwindles by the day. Would've ended that convo with ya momma was unrealistic for not taking you on her face.

No time for fuggin around in 2016

Being 24 sucks man, you see the bs and struggle smh. For now I just want Company. These early 30 year olds don't give me no problems like females my age do. All I wanna do is chill at their crib, drink, share a nice cooked meal, have a chill smash sesh and bounce in the morning after breakfast [emoji]9996[/emoji][emoji]127998[/emoji]

Yea, most of the girls yall age are a damn headache. It's a whole lot of OD games and nonsense, and don't even bring up the word compromise,they never even heard of it.

I'll paraphrase Mike Singletary, I can't do it. I can't play with them.