TAY '16: The Saga Continues

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One of my potnas married a chick he used to drop me off at to smash and give me some of her dads weed.
 
Met the daughter of a really close family friend at a wedding yesterday

Shorty is cute, funny, and a little thick. I don't usually go for older (she's 27, I'm 24), but worth a try

Her family was ragging on her for still being single -- typical Asian families 
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Yall ever really dig a chick one of ya boys smashed? He didn't wife up & wouldn't care if u did. I don't think I could do it.

Never been my style. I don't even look a chicks direction if one of my homies smashed unless she's a set out for the team and even then no type of relationship could ever be formed. I wouldn't even want to know her real name. Too close with my homeboys and too many woman out here.

We do occasionally compare our chicks nudes like Pokémon cards though :lol it'll be like 5-6 of us all giddy in a circle with our phones out
 
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Met the daughter of a really close family friend at a wedding yesterday

Shorty is cute, funny, and a little thick. I don't usually go for older (she's 27, I'm 24), but worth a try

Her family was ragging on her for still being single -- typical Asian families 
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usually people dont say "older" if its just a 3 year difference

especially since shes 27

"older" to me is beyond 32 for your age
 
Maybe y'all might know what to do.
My boy and me have been tight for years. I'm his newborn sons godfather .
Fast forward to two weeks ago he calls me at 3am saying that while he was sleeping his girl went through his phone and caught him talking about some dirt he did .
She went through his snapchat which apperently leaves the convos you have ppl saved something he was talking to some chick he smashed while his girl was 5 months pregnant . The convo was circumstantial at best no solid evidence so I told him to deny deny deny till further Notice .
His dumbass admits it from the jump ( strike number 1 :{ ) his baby moms seeks out the girl he had smashed and spoke to her.
He had me reach out to her before and told her to play her role and play along ( strike number two ) which backfired. Ol girl sang like a bird.

When we first found out she was Preggo I told dude put yourself on child support now to avoid any complications down the road (they work together at the same place and make good $) she already got a kid from her previous dude and screwing dude over with child support / visitation rights so I know she's grimey.
Dude hits me up everyday saying he wants to leave that he's miserable and she's mentally unstable now . Checking dudes tolls , dude has to have his location turned on in his iPhone he stopped to feed his son the other day and she was blowing up his phone asking why he wasn't moving . Dude can't go out to hang out with us anymore (mind it's usually a group of 4 of us that go grab a bite to eat. No alcohol / women are involved ) once a week. Son can't even play Xbox in his own house.
This ***** has me to sick to my stomach.
Idk how should I approach this situation ?
I keep telling ol dude . ***** not getting any better it's gonna get worse so ride out, but he ain't listening. He's my boy but I'm tired of sounding like a broken record and him not listening.

Would it be scumbagish if I cut this ***** off ?
I know I'm in the outside looking and don't have a kid so I can't relate. Maybe niketalkers who do can chime in .
 
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I feel bad for your boy but at the same time he did this to himself and it's his own fault so he gotta live with the consequences
 
Dude.....

We all brothers and we all we got out here

If the tables were turned homie would be riding for you

Child support is the new prison system real talk :{ :{

Fam is spooked but you need to tell him to man up, calm the **** down so he can think clearly.

And he need to lose that hot pocket phone he got
 
Maybe y'all might know what to do.
My boy and me have been tight for years. I'm his newborn sons godfather .
Fast forward to two weeks ago he calls me at 3am saying that while he was sleeping his girl went through his phone and caught him talking about some dirt he did .
She went through his snapchat which apperently leaves the convos you have ppl saved something he was talking to some chick he smashed while his girl was 5 months pregnant . The convo was circumstantial at best no solid evidence so I told him to deny deny deny till further Notice .
His dumbass admits it from the jump ( strike number 1 :{ ) his baby moms seeks out the girl he had smashed and spoke to her.
He had me reach out to her before and told her to play her role and play along ( strike number two ) which backfired. Ol girl sang like a bird.

When we first found out she was Preggo I told dude put yourself on child support now to avoid any complications down the road (they work together at the same place and make good $) she already got a kid from her previous dude and screwing dude over with child support / visitation rights so I know she's grimey.
Dude hits me up everyday saying he wants to leave that he's miserable and she's mentally unstable now . Checking dudes tolls , dude has to have his location turned on in his iPhone he stopped to feed his son the other day and she was blowing up his phone asking why he wasn't moving . Dude can't go out to hang out with us anymore (mind it's usually a group of 4 of us that go grab a bite to eat. No alcohol / women are involved ) once a week. Son can't even play Xbox in his own house.
This ***** has me to sick to my stomach.
Idk how should I approach this situation ?
I keep telling ol dude . ***** not getting any better it's gonna get worse so ride out, but he ain't listening. He's my boy but I'm tired of sounding like a broken record and him not listening.

Would it be scumbagish if I cut this ***** off ?
I know I'm in the outside looking and don't have a kid so I can't relate. Maybe niketalkers who do can chime in .

You gotta be there for him through every step fam, real talk. That's a situation I wouldn't wish on anyone but I'm all too familiar with seeing it happen with some of my boys first hand. What you need to tell him advise wise is to man up, real ****. A woman doesn't own you because she has your child. If child support is the only thing he has to fear than welcome to the real world. Fam is making good money and shorty knows this and wants to mess with him psychologically but it's not healthy for him at all to submit to this broad. If she wants to play the "let's get the courts involved" game then he has to play it right back and be ready for whatever because at the end of the day it's for the benefit of his child. The thing is though, is that her having a mental leash on homie combined with him getting caught cheating is gonna allow her to step out and inevitably do her thing somewhere else. Him trying to prevent the split is only leading to it. He needs to sit down and lay down the law with her and what's their status going forward and take the reigns back in the relationship. There isn't a woman on this planet who doesn't want to be a whole unit with the child of their father, especially a new born. She'll come around, if she doesn't at least he can say he tried.

But be there for him bruh, he'll need your support now more than ever.
 
Mans did it to himself.

He a grown *** adult, I can't feel bad for him.

He knew what he was doing, cheating on your woman while she's pregnant with your child is some real scumbag **** too. Of course she's going to lose her mind and turn into a detective, that's a violation of trust on different levels.

Why would you choose () over maybe messing up your entire parental situation with your child?


He just gotta be a man, leave her, lawyer up and deal with child support because the situation he's in would drive anyone crazy.
 
Yikes. If he was "happy" before everything came to light and he wants to resurrect that relationship he needs to sac up and talk to ol girl and make amends. Ol girl is pissed about the lying and she will need to retrust him and that may not be simple and may not be a quick fix. And you help by reminding him of what he truly wants. I wouldn't say cut him off but you can't try to pull him out of her current comfort zone. If she put him on a set schedule or routine, y'all bein his homeboys gotta keep the raggin' down to a minimum and help him see how important it is for him to take this seriously.

If he is truly done, tell him to dead it and get ready for the hammer to come down cause it's gon get ugly before it gets prettier.
 
Stories like that make me want a vasectomy ASAP
Really?
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Why would you need one if you're not dumb enough to cheat on your baby moms while she's pregnant and leave a bunch of evidence.

But yea, vasectomy.
Oh yeah, I mean, there's so much he did wrong here. Just saying that if you're shooting blanks you can't get trapped. I'm not feeling sorry for the guy (he played himself)- if he hadn't cheated that would've avoid the situation entirely.

I was just thinking for myself, knowing that I hate condoms but don't fully trust women who claim they are on the pill unless I've known them a long time... 
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Reminds me of this story:
https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/274495936.html?lang=en&cc=us

(never gets old)
 
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Stories like that make me want a vasectomy ASAP
Really? :lol


Why would you need one if you're not dumb enough to cheat on your baby moms while she's pregnant and leave a bunch of evidence.


But yea, vasectomy.
Oh yeah, I mean, there's so much he did wrong here. Just saying that if you're shooting blanks you can't get trapped. I'm not feeling sorry for the guy (he played himself)- if he hadn't cheated that would've avoid the situation entirely.

I was just thinking for myself, knowing that I hate condoms but don't fully trust women who claim they are on the pill unless I've known them a long time... 8o


Reminds me of this story:
https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/274495936.html?lang=en&cc=us
(never gets old)

That story is a classic :lol :hat
 
Oh yeah, I mean, there's so much he did wrong here. Just saying that if you're shooting blanks you can't get trapped. I'm not feeling sorry for the guy (he played himself)- if he hadn't cheated that would've avoid the situation entirely.

I was just thinking for myself, knowing that I hate condoms but don't fully trust women who claim they are on the pill unless I've known them a long time... 8o


Reminds me of this story:
https://www.craigslist.org/about/best/sea/274495936.html?lang=en&cc=us
(never gets old)
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Which NTer did this? :rollin
 
Haven't been on Facebook in a long time. Logged in and saw some beautiful women on my feed and inbox from like 2008. I ignored a lot of them in favor for the obvious thotty's that peaked early in college.

To my young ***** out there..... Don't sleep on the quiet, slim, shy joints that ain't blossom yet. You have them then....you have them forever :lol

Just a word of advice for the day.
 
Haven't been on Facebook in a long time. Logged in and saw some beautiful women on my feed and inbox from like 2008. I ignored a lot of them in favor for the obvious thotty's that peaked early in college.

To my young ***** out there..... Don't sleep on the quiet, slim, shy joints that ain't blossom yet. You have them then....you have them forever :lol

Just a word of advice for the day.

how old are u wavy? i'm only in my mid 20s but this right here is real af
 
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