TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

[301216baller]

Im sure he wanted to say female dog but profanity is blocked. We as males get mad when females dont know thier role in the relationship we gotta do our part also. Like mark said if you arent trying to get in a relationship with her than you have no say who she texts or when she texts them. If u felt some type of way you could have told her " hey next time wait till i leave to text him" but to storm out like a kid throwing a temper tantrum wasnt a good look.

lol thats the thing I didn't storm out out or throw a tempter tantrum lol...idk like that mark said respect me in my presence..but maybe im doin too much

 

[awwsome]

Idk how she disrespected you if you're just smashing and not her man.

You would have hit another girl back in her presence so why you in your feelings?

She gonna give that () to him now, hope you know.

 

[301216baller]

Idk how she disrespected you if you're just smashing and not her man.

You would have hit another girl back in her presence so why you in your feelings?

She gonna give that () to him now, hope you know.

It wasn't the fact she was talkin to fam it was that she tried rub it in my face then tried to kiss me right after..thats where I kinda got upset but...Yea your right I just like her too much & she more than likely will..it is what it is...but at the same time I feel I can prob still smash before the semester is out...if not oh well I have other chicks I mess with

 

[jay are]

I have this fwb who I hit weekly, i can hit anytime I want to. It just seem like I'm always the person initiating it tho.

Should I keep doing what im doing, or let her initiate it more.

 

[lamekilla]

yall think I overreacted in this situation...im chillin with this chick..a dude hits her phone she sends the message in my face saying yea I haven't talked to you in a while wassup..then she looks at me and says yea I haven't talked to him in a minute...then she tries to kiss me right after..I didn't make a scene but I told her I felt that was kinda foul and left her spot

I don't think you overreacted at all bruh. It's a respect thing. If y'all kickin it right then and there, why she entertaining other dudes? Like that text couldn't wait? Or she couldn't be more discreet about it? Even though y'all are Fwb she's gotta know you don't tolerate bull-ish. I think you did the right thing in leaving IMO

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

I have this fwb who I hit weekly, i can hit anytime I want to. It just seem like I'm always the person initiating it tho.

Should I keep doing what im doing, or let her initiate it more.

if you *******, you ******'. Who cares who initiates unless you tryna make this grow into something more. You obviously doing something right cuz you have all the access you want

 

[tdogg2k]

It wasn't the fact she was talkin to fam it was that she tried rub it in my face then tried to kiss me right after..thats where I kinda got upset but...Yea your right I just like her too much & she more than likely will..it is what it is...but at the same time I feel I can prob still smash before the semester is out...if not oh well I have other chicks I mess with

DEAD.............HER........
I went through the exact same thing and chick was my girlfriend. Relationship was established. And she still did that dumbs#! T to get a rise out of me. Its a trap to see how you respond more so since you guys arent established it was to see how you would react and if youd DTR (define the relationship) . But if she has to play games like that to do it then she isnt worth it fam.
That also means she got a bench lying in wait incase you mess up. And would be quick to hit that text butto. The second you do.

Men have benches also but it takes more work for us to hit a chick up out the blue. Men are more thisrty so if a chick is like yo come through dudes hurrying with the quickness for yambs

 

[truballa101]

Damn dude that is straight disrespect.
You should have just bounced for other reasons though. Don't let it show that you're salty.

Live and learn. At least she's not your girl doin that ****. Keep it pushin...

 

[yeezusdisciple]

a friend hit me with his perspective

he told me he assumes every girl a ***** until proven innocent

what do u guys think of thismindset?

 

[mugen81]

It's not about having other people on deck that used to bother me, it's the boundaries that are/were crossed or if you have me looking like a fool in the streets that got under my skin. I don't think anybody owes you anything but mutual respect and the truth are very important and shows your character..
Tell me that you got other dudes lined up, so I can make the decision if I want to continue down this road or not. That was highly disrespectful and I would have politely gotten up and left. Yeah that is not his girl but what is good for the goose should be good for the gander. Guaranteed if my man did the same thing, ol girl would have been all out of character asking " Who's that *****" and etc...
So I can't even be mad at brethren for feeling some type of way, for the simple fact it's obviously a "game" at this point, a battle of attrition to see who can break down who first or try to expose feelings.
My single days I wasn't having that dumb ****, I respect your situation and vice versa. I'm going to tell you the truth so if you see us out or your friends see us out, there's no need for the antics. I told you the truth in the beginning and we both play our roles and vice versa.
Always keep it 100 and say what you feel so these types of lame games(whether it's relationship, FWB, Jump-OFFS) whatever your case my be can't go a stray...
The biggest fear for anybody dealing with relationships or just yambs is the idea of looking like a fool..
The truth sets you free...
And if you feel that this person is about to be a liability or has caught feelings and it's not mutual, not saying it will be easy but break it to them in the most courtesy, adult way and move on, cleanly with no double meaning contacts...
Peace..

 

[BIG LEEMELONE]

Bruh they are **** buddies tho...I have had **** buddies where we explicitly talk about other people we are *******. There is no need for the saltiness. I wouldn't even be looking over her shoulder watching her text. If anything just calmly check her and keep it moving.

 

[tdogg2k]

Bruh they are **** buddies tho...I have had **** buddies where we explicitly talk about other people we are *******. There is no need for the saltiness. I wouldn't even be looking over her shoulder watching her text. If anything just calmly check her and keep it moving.

No disrespect to you but that's the craziest thing I've ever heard in my life.

you NEVER talk about who you f********* to another female. period.
and vice versa that's just pure disrespectful on both parts. like what you trying to prove. ?
Thats just stupid imo.

like after a session you are like.. Yo so the chick i was hitting last week does the same thing you do.......
What type of dumb **** is that.??

keep ya business to yourself period. don't let another girl know about your bench and what you do..
f buddies, fwb, friends none of that.

 

[BIG LEEMELONE]

Bruh....I don't know what type of rules you live by but it don't apply to me. I have learned so much from females just by having that kind of open communication. Schooling me on how to get more females and get what I want from them. If you never got game from a woman then you never got game, just honestly. I can see some of yall don't have close homegirls either. It's not disrespectful in the slightest. You will never know the type of game females run if you're not even able to talk about it. Gotta eliminate any and all types of jealousy/insecurity/ego. Chicks laying up with me while at the same time dating a guy they hope to marry, not giving him the p tho. Telling me they will still **** me when they're married. And these are church girls, classy chicks etc.

Keep your mind closed if you want and you'll never know how deep the game goes. It's ugly out here and nothing is what it seems

 

[suberzat1]

That may go on in your neck of the woods but others think differently 

 

[heliumclinton]

Bruh they are **** buddies tho...I have had **** buddies where we explicitly talk about other people we are *******. There is no need for the saltiness. I wouldn't even be looking over her shoulder watching her text. If anything just calmly check her and keep it moving.

No disrespect to you but that's the craziest thing I've ever heard in my life.

you NEVER talk about who you f********* to another female. period.
and vice versa that's just pure disrespectful on both parts. like what you trying to prove. ?
Thats just stupid imo.

like after a session you are like.. Yo so the chick i was hitting last week does the same thing you do.......
What type of dumb **** is that.??

keep ya business to yourself period. don't let another girl know about your bench and what you do..
f buddies, fwb, friends none of that.

I never explicitly talked about other people I was sleeping with, but I did let it be known. I mean if someone is sleeping with more than one person wouldn't you want the heads up for health reasons?

 

[BIG LEEMELONE]

Ok . I can't force you not to be naive. I used to watch too much tv and be gullible. All this **** is a facade, it is what it is. Ignorance is bliss I guess

suberzat1

 

[suberzat1]

.....touché

 

[niquefreak94]

a friend hit me with his perspective

he told me he assumes every girl a ***** until proven innocent

what do u guys think of thismindset?

That's incredibly childish. That's still pre-judging girls you don't know and will inevitable cloud his judgment.

The thing to do is to assume nothing. All types of people exist and you never know what kind of person a girl is until you get to know her.

If you know the signs then it's easy to tell if a girl is a ****, sometimes it's not, but most of the times it is.

 

[ddh1122]

Bruh....I don't know what type of rules you live by but it don't apply to me. I have learned so much from females just by having that kind of open communication. Schooling me on how to get more females and get what I want from them. If you never got game from a woman then you never got game, just honestly. I can see some of yall don't have close homegirls either. It's not disrespectful in the slightest. You will never know the type of game females run if you're not even able to talk about it. Gotta eliminate any and all types of jealousy/insecurity/ego. Chicks laying up with me while at the same time dating a guy they hope to marry, not giving him the p tho. Telling me they will still **** me when they're married. And these are church girls, classy chicks etc.

Keep your mind closed if you want and you'll never know how deep the game goes. It's ugly out here and nothing is what it seems

I knew this stuff went on but hearing you say it just made it sink in. Dang son.. Man 

 

[301216baller]

I let women know I have other females upfront....and leem is kinda right...I have a relationship with long distance fwb where at one point it started off with her lettin me do whenever while she was with her bf...she still tells me about the dudes she talks to from time to time..while buying me stuff n letting me do whatever to her when I'm in town...but in my situation yesterday I just felt disrespected that she tried to kiss me like I'm some type of sucka...i should of redirected her head n had her suck my d lolI still feel I did the right thing..it's been a day now n I haven't thought of a better way to handle it....Leem what would you have done?

 

[BIG LEEMELONE]

ddh1122 Man...I couldn't believe it at first. There was one I went to high school with. She was always a wholesome, good girl and carried herself with class. She's married now with kids. Couple months back she starts mentioning the words side piece. I dig a lil deeper and she tells me about how a couple of her girls have side pieces. They pick them up from work do their thing and the husband is none the wiser. She spoke without flinching, I sensed no guilt or concern in her voice.

She starts talking about how we should get a hotel, go on vacation and all that. I go along with it just to see if she's for real and she was dead serious. Coldest part is I went to elementary with her husband and she knows this. I never followed thru with her but so many stories like this I could tell. That's why I never let them gas me or give any of them priority over the other.

301216baller I would have done something like redirect her head like you said . I would have just been curious and asked about the guy. "what do you think he wants? *start rubbing her p* this?" and then proceed to clap them cheeks. she woulda been on your d to the max when she saw how you don't give a **** about dude. She just wanted you to check her really but you don't always have to be serious about it. "You rude! I can't believe you! *squeeze one of her bitties or pretend to choke her Never do that again! *clap the cheeks". Basically just set her straight without taking it personal

 

[mugen81]

A girl can not, ever, ever,EVER tell you how to get more girls, lol...
We are just going to have to agree to disagree on that one because women are the most competitive beings on the face of the earth...
They will literally fight and throw salt on the wounds of their best friends, lol...
We all have different view points, and this is a very healthy debate but for me keeping it 100 and let people know the truth...
I don't care if you are "friends", FWB, relationships, whatever the case or cause, don't have people out here looking a fool or don't flaunt it directly in their faces. "If I am spending time with you, the other girl is not on my mind until I leave"...
A paraphrased statement from the great Corey Holecomb..
Lol

 

[301216baller]

It's actually pretty ratchet out here...dude is right you have to eliminate all of your ego...my boy brought a chick to his crib he was diggin out at the time..he didn't smash that night they fell asleep..when he woke up she was smashing his roommate ...he was upset but never let it known n till this day he is cool as hell with the chick n roommate ...now that's way colder than my situation

 

[301216baller]

Lol man if I could turn back the hands of time leem I definitely would have done that..man wat you just said is so cold blooded I'm definitely taking that lol....feelings are a ***** though lol...but you live n learn..At the same time I feel where Mugen,Tdogg,n killa are coming from as well and I appreciate y'all helping me out Lol now that I understand I want to hit her up...naw I'll wait till she does..I was so mad yesterday i was supposed to chill with her on her bday this upcoming Saturday n I told her ill pass

 

[301216baller]

I did check her I told her that **** was foul but I obviously took it her personal since I left...n she knew she tried to play me cuz after she did it she started smiling