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[pepper]

Do you ever take the first approach

Sorry guys, If i clog up this thread rn but it's just because i'm a really late bloomer
Like in high school, i used to have 0, in some cases negative, girls 
And now that i'm in college, I've changed myself up a bit
Groomed, dressed better, been hitting the gym,
and more and more girls just seem to look at me
but i don't know how to approach since that concept is really foreign to me
Plus i have mad anxiety issues
Thanks

And for those wondering, I went to the dentist today
and got my tooth filled

I'm not afraid to approach someone I'm interested in. Ain't nothing to it but to do it.
Confidence, a subtle approach. I need your NT brethren to chime in on this as well. I know what I want as a female...but I can't teach you how to blossom in to your manhood

 

[ill steelo]

Need to know what yall think..

Im out here in Georgia and I Met this Chick who is madd cute Korean/White & Black. We started talking everytime she came to my table. Chick is madd cool going to school and working at Hooters in the mean time (school during the day & work at night). I tell shorty im out here for a few days only for work and she ask me when i go back home and then mentions shes off thursday and friday before I can even reply. Long story short I then make my move into getting her digits in doing so she ask me if I can hold a conversation. Easy peasy she laughs and writes it down on my receipt. I Text her to say what up and she'll respond but not enough that we can carry a conversation. I want to bag this chick but dont want to come across too thirsty..plus im only here until friday. How should i play this out NT brethren?

She asked you when you were leaving & then told you what days she was free thursday & friday before you could say anything.

Invite her out thursday. Do drinks.

 

[suberzat1]

Need to know what yall think..

Im out here in Georgia and I Met this Chick who is madd cute Korean/White & Black. We started talking everytime she came to my table. Chick is madd cool going to school and working at Hooters in the mean time (school during the day & work at night). I tell shorty im out here for a few days only for work and she ask me when i go back home and then mentions shes off thursday and friday before I can even reply. Long story short I then make my move into getting her digits in doing so she ask me if I can hold a conversation. Easy peasy she laughs and writes it down on my receipt. I Text her to say what up and she'll respond but not enough that we can carry a conversation. I want to bag this chick but dont want to come across too thirsty..plus im only here until friday. How should i play this out NT brethren?

You only there until Friday dont know if you should care if you come off thirsty. Seems like you just want the yambs and not a relationship plus she works at Hooters. Just dont give her the usually ATL swag and you should be fine.

 

[suberzat1]

 
Do you ever take the first approach

Sorry guys, If i clog up this thread rn but it's just because i'm a really late bloomer

Like in high school, i used to have 0, in some cases negative, girls 

And now that i'm in college, I've changed myself up a bit

Groomed, dressed better, been hitting the gym,

and more and more girls just seem to look at me

but i don't know how to approach since that concept is really foreign to me

Plus i have mad anxiety issues

Thanks

And for those wondering, I went to the dentist today

and got my tooth filled

Like I told @SurgeV1  you need to just get out there and live that college life. Too much goes on for you to miss out on yambs. Do stay on campus?

Back to this Drake-Draft Day

 

[ddh1122]

Need to know what yall think..

Im out here in Georgia and I Met this Chick who is madd cute Korean/White & Black. We started talking everytime she came to my table. Chick is madd cool going to school and working at Hooters in the mean time (school during the day & work at night). I tell shorty im out here for a few days only for work and she ask me when i go back home and then mentions shes off thursday and friday before I can even reply. Long story short I then make my move into getting her digits in doing so she ask me if I can hold a conversation. Easy peasy she laughs and writes it down on my receipt. I Text her to say what up and she'll respond but not enough that we can carry a conversation. I want to bag this chick but dont want to come across too thirsty..plus im only here until friday. How should i play this out NT brethren?

Pick up that phone and call her. She knows as well as you know, what you want. You're only there until Friday so you have nothing to lose. Set up a date out for drinks like dude said or do something different (she might not wanna go out for drinks cause she's around it all the time working at Hooters, idk. Just a thought). Plus, she kept coming back to your table = +1. She knows you're only there until Friday and took the initiative to say she's off Thursday AND Friday = +1. Then she makes a joke + gives you the number = +1. You already sealed the deal in my opinion. It's easy breezy from here out. 

 

[nikeairon]

Need to know what yall think..

Im out here in Georgia and I Met this Chick who is madd cute Korean/White & Black. We started talking everytime she came to my table. Chick is madd cool going to school and working at Hooters in the mean time (school during the day & work at night). I tell shorty im out here for a few days only for work and she ask me when i go back home and then mentions shes off thursday and friday before I can even reply. Long story short I then make my move into getting her digits in doing so she ask me if I can hold a conversation. Easy peasy she laughs and writes it down on my receipt. I Text her to say what up and she'll respond but not enough that we can carry a conversation. I want to bag this chick but dont want to come across too thirsty..plus im only here until friday. How should i play this out NT brethren?

Keep Calm and Get Yambs my friend.

 

[ballinsam23]

^^needs to be put on a shirt ASAP

 

[patentboy23]

Need help fambily. Chilled with this chick, Monica, and brought her back to the crib. She wouldn't give up the yambs whatsoever although she was all on me, as well as her other homegirl,"Reggie" when we were all out together the past weekend; basically Reggie and Monica both thought I was into their other friend, Raffi. So I hit up Reggie and she won't even give me a chance. EDIT: I'm just trying to tell her that she was my #1 option but act disinterested. If it weren't for that, then I wouldn't even went after her girl. How do I repair this?

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

 

[ddh1122]

Need help fambily. Chilled with this chick, Monica, and brought her back to the crib. She wouldn't give up the yambs whatsoever although she was all on me, as well as her other homegirl,"Reggie" when we were all out together the past weekend; basically Reggie and Monica both thought I was into their other friend, Raffi. So I hit up Reggie and she won't even give me a chance. How can I get out this semi-friendzone and smash her down?

"You going out with Monica was not misread. It is a fact, and there is no undoing that" 

 

[Retto]

Ohh ****

 

[Chiron]

Need help fambily. Chilled with this chick, Monica, and brought her back to the crib. She wouldn't give up the yambs whatsoever although she was all on me, as well as her other homegirl,"Reggie" when we were all out together the past weekend; basically Reggie and Monica both thought I was into their other friend, Raffi. So I hit up Reggie and she won't even give me a chance. How can I get out this semi-friendzone and smash her down?

The only way I see this working out is to get Monica to give her the green light. Reggie isn't going to betray her friend on purpose.

It's a long shot.
if you press Monica with the "did you have any intention of moving forward yada yada because I think you're very pretty and we might've connected but since you really aren't interested you should tell Reggie its okay to try to see if we'd work out.  She said we can't talk because you were interested."

Scenario 1: Monica gets territorial and doesn't want to see her friend with the trophy so she hits you with the  "I really do like you.. yada yada" You get the yambs from monica as originally planned.

Scenario 2: Monica gives Reggie the green light. You go in.

Scenario 3: They won't let go of the other raffi girl. You try to explain that its ancient history now, and you get a 20% chance that one of them gets gamed in

 

[andretti]

Looks like you're In a jam homie

 

[ballinsam23]

yea i cant think of anyway you can get what you want from that situation.

maybe down the line though

 

[suberzat1]

Long story short(dont think this need the full story) fellas but im chilling in my chairman office getting stuff together for graduation.
-There a chick in there with me.
-She grabs my **** while the chairman not looking and give me that looked.
-I finished up with the chairman then get her number.

I was looking at those tit ol biggies so I may see what's up off GP.

 

[patentboy23]

I know she feels some typa way but nothing happened between me and Monica and if it doesn't work out between me and her then why can't Reggie give me a shot. Looks like Scenario 2 is the only way I'm in :x I purposely flirted with them all that one night to throw them all off on my true feelings and they're not even mad about the Raffi thing. Reggie was the one I was really after all along. I even called her, before I made plans with Monica, but she didn't pick up/ respond to my texts so I moved on to the next. Am I wrong for that? I wouldn't even have pursued Monica possibly if Reggie wasn't acting iffy. I'm thinking about just telling her that and seeing what happens?

The only way I see this working out is to get Monica to give her the green light. Reggie isn't going to betray her friend on purpose.
It's a long shot.

if you press Monica with the "did you have any intention of moving forward yada yada because I think you're very pretty and we might've connected but since you really aren't interested you should tell Reggie its okay to try to see if we'd work out.  She said we can't talk because you were interested."

Scenario 1: Monica gets territorial and doesn't want to see her friend with the trophy so she hits you with the  "I really do like you.. yada yada" You get the yambs from monica as originally planned.

Scenario 2: Monica gives Reggie the green light. You go in.

Scenario 3: They won't let go of the other raffi girl. You try to explain that its ancient history now, and you get a 20% chance that one of them gets gamed in

 

[awwsome]

The way I've gotten with groups of friends is just by being blatant. I'll smash the first one but make sure to let them know its nothing serious, then go out and drink with all of them. It's inevitable that the topic of sex comes up and women ain't good at keeping good D a secret. As long as you are able to keep things amicable with the first one, you're in. Plus idk about the females you're involved with but in my experience a lot of groups of female friends don't have a problem ******* but not dating the same guy.

 

[akademikgenius]

Update on hooters girl.

So I text shorty that we should hang out tomorrow. 2 hours go by and she reply with "We can see! I have class then work" and my reaction to the text

I havent texted her back yet but now i know she playing games. Like how are you gonna tell me you're off and then ALL OF A SUDDEN you have school and then work.

 

[Coromanti]

Update on hooters girl.

So I text shorty that we should hang out tomorrow. 2 hours go by and she reply with "We can see! I have class then work" and my reaction to the text

I havent texted her back yet but now i know she playing games. Like how are you gonna tell me you're off and then ALL OF A SUDDEN you have school and then work.

Delete dat numba

 

[htownshoefiend]

 
Delete dat numba

 

[ddh1122]

Update on hooters girl.

So I text shorty that we should hang out tomorrow. 2 hours go by and she reply with "We can see! I have class then work" and my reaction to the text

I havent texted her back yet but now i know she playing games. Like how are you gonna tell me you're off and then ALL OF A SUDDEN you have school and then work.

You should've called instead of texting. But yep, don't respond back to her and just look at her as deaded unless she responds back with a confirmation. 

 

[gameover2]

Yo PatentBoy

That's what playing games got you

 

[spizike231]

So u cheated on ur gf or is that the same girl?

I get girls left and right because of two things; my confidence and being witty. Said this a million times in the thread.

Nah that story about the girl who gave me dome was before my current girl. One of those nights / stories that stuck with me.

Confidence is something that a lot of guys struggle to get down. They either come up short and come off as fake, or do too much and become cocky.

 

[ddh1122]

Listening to this Iggy interview on the breakfast club and she just said something that I never even thought about before

 Angela: Does that concern you just knowing that there's a high probability? Do you think about that?

Iggy: What, people cheating on you?

Angela: Yeah and like girls approaching him (Talking about Nick Young and possibly cheating)

Iggy: Um, I think if you're ever gonna date anybody with any kind of status, then there's gonna be girls that, yeah, wanna do that and there's a high probability of that. And also, if you have your own status, there's girls that wanna smash just because of who you're smashing. Even if you're just pretty and you don't have anything, girls want to. When I was younger my homeboys would be like, "come walk around the mall with us cause then chicks just wanna talk to us cause they wonder if you're smashing and they just wanna know". 

Made me think. I guess that is true. I never heard of that before, but I'm sure it goes on. I just never experienced it first hand or heard of anyone relating experiences so I was oblivious to it

 

[lpheat22]

It's the same thing as having a good looking girl as your wing woman or when you have a girl and you're randomly getting hit up by girls left and right. Some girls want to know what it is about you that makes this girl like you.

 

[solefood229]

What she said is true, chicks wanna smash you when they see you with a chick that looks better than them. Just to say you smashed, when you was dating so and so.


My homegirl is lesbian, but we kick it time to time, I ran into a girl who curved the **** outta me during the summer one day in the mall with my homegirl, I swear that same night I'm getting "hey stranger" text from Shorty.

with women it's a competition thing, unless she's your girl, have a couple of chicks on the roster, and mention they *****, when chicks know the D ain't sitting dormant they put in work for your attention and affection.

Even if you ain't got other ******* lie like you do lol, I promise it works