- 23,082
- 8,730
still takes attraction to even get you interested in wanting to talk to them.i can understand preferring the physical first encounter... but
the thing with that is you're basically going fishing.... its based primarily off looks.... and if there's 20 attractive women in reaching distance, which one you go for?
at least online you can see some of their personality (ie: the things they tweet/caption, the kind of pictures they take of their day to day, etc etc) .. little things like that say a lot about a person... if your IG, for example, is all selfies and you have to turn around to show your *** in every pic ... im not interested ... yes, i've judged you...
again, i think physical interaction has become a lost past time and more ppl are socially awkward than ever before so im all for it .... just pointing out the good things online meeting has to offer
I'm huge on the personality and physical interaction. but if her profile pic is a teddy bear. i'll think to myself. oh a girl who doesn't care and is interesting. but as i search through her profile im like ok cool cool cool... but if I finally see her picture and im not into her physically im not going to complete the deal no matter how cool i think she is.
Like I said in my other post met a girl who had everything i looked for. but was not attracted to her so I never pursued.
Looks aren't everything but its a huge part.
but yes online dating spreads your range out far. you may be in new york and find the perfect chick in Seattle.
as far as tinder and other apps. you still have to like the girls pictures then wait for them to like yours back in order to even talk to them.
only bad thing about that.