TAY: IT'S A MAN THING GINA

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Need some advice. new girl im talking to told me her ex texted her at 2 am for a bootycall,  but she answerd today (a few hours ago) and they have been talking. I told her i would stop talking to her (were exclusive now) if she were to hang out with him , last girl cheated on me so my guard is high. she goes off saying im pushing her to see him and if she does its my fault. Do i just end it now?

My mantra lately is, if a girl hasn't completely moved forward FROM her ex then she cannot completely move forward WITH you.
I would cut that off.
 
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Need some advice. new girl im talking to told me her ex texted her at 2 am for a bootycall,  but she answerd today (a few hours ago) and they have been talking. I told her i would stop talking to her (were exclusive now) if she were to hang out with him , last girl cheated on me so my guard is high. she goes off saying im pushing her to see him and if she does its my fault. Do i just end it now?
Let her go..
Don't ever tolerate someone talking to you like that. Look at what you just wrote..
"You are pushing me to be with him", if that is not manipulation at its finest, I don't know what else it could be.
Drive Slow Homie..
Stop trying to cuff these broads so soon after a break up. Get your house in order and Love Yourself.
You are making the same mistakes and you ain't eem know it.
Also, if you are feeling some type of way about your homies girl calling you, two ways to handle it.
Confront her in a reasonable, level headed manor- Ask why she called and was everything okay. But just realize she will hit your Homie with that work and it could strain your friendship due to what story she tells him.
Let It Go-Never answer her phone call unless your broham has been hurt or injured.
Never,Ever discuss their relationship with her.
Do not get pulled into that ish, that's how you become the shoulder to cry on and temptation occurs.
As for all this other tomfoolery on eating *** and contraception.
Been there done that but if you are in a monogamous relationship and don't like to pull out, this stuff is the ish...
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But it also can be combined with condoms, just as a back up plan..
If you are not ready for kids or baby Mommas or diseases, strap that **** up.
Let me breakdown somethings about pregnecy.
Lamaze Classes-$50-100 a session
Baby Locks-$26-50 per lock and installation(if you are super tired,stress from school and work)
Ultrasounds-$5-10 stacks( thank god we both have damn good insurance)
Doctor/Gyno visits-$1-5 stacks(copay drops them to $250)
Stroller-(of course the high end[emoji]128516[/emoji][emoji]128516[/emoji]) $150-300
Beds, formula, diapers, etc you don't even want to know.
Tryin to told you I love my wife and upcoming daughter but "Pop a molly I'm sweatin", **** is too real. Sold most of my shoes this year just to cover expenses and to have money in the bank.
Also taking off work is essential and baby books, ****** I could go on and on, if you are not ready, please protect your necks..
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One more thing before I attempt to sleep for this final tomorrow.
I have consistently preached self love.
Stop depending and centering youR life around ***** and women. We are all humans with flaws. To paraphrase..
""if you put your faith in man, you will be let down everytime".
Women are to compliment your life, not dictate it. I love my wife but I know she is human and can leave tomorrow. I learned that lesson well before her. All you can do is live in the moment and enjoy each other. Stop trying to date these instagram, dime thirst traps and look for like minded women that have your same moral code and values. Get out and travel, learn, explore new taste, find spirituality( not necessarily religion but find it), mentor, meditate, be proactive in your community. Continually placing ***** on a pedestal is a disservice not only to yourself but your future. Don't be afraid to start over. My wife can say slick **** at times but I recognize that and hit her with that work and things go back to normal. Hurt in any relationship is inevitable. It might not always be on a massive scale but the little things can add to big things. That is why communication is imperative. Also letting your spouse, jump off, whatever know you are not down with the disrespect will save you heartache, time and collateral damage to your self esteem and life.
Once again, enjoy your life, only one shot but be mindful and responsible to yourself first, family second, day ones third and women should come last UNTIL you meet a down one and that equation gets a little bit trickier to manage but if everybody loves you they will understand.
Once again, do not tolerate disrespect. Communicate your feelings and love yourself..
Okay back to your "self cleaning ovens" and #eatabootygang conversations[emoji]128516[/emoji][emoji]128516[/emoji][emoji]128516[/emoji]
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Need some advice. new girl im talking to told me her ex texted her at 2 am for a bootycall,  but she answerd today (a few hours ago) and they have been talking. I told her i would stop talking to her (were exclusive now) if she were to hang out with him , last girl cheated on me so my guard is high. she goes off saying im pushing her to see him and if she does its my fault. Do i just end it now?

Bro, keep hitting that while you build a new squad. She's a bird and now you know. Let her ex deal w dating her.
 
You ever went through a dry spell and you begin to see your life unraveling right before your very eyes?
I remember when I was going 2-3 days between smashing max then me and my ex broke up and I got to day 4 and I was like WTF! Had a great weekend after that tho lol
 
 
Need some advice. new girl im talking to told me her ex texted her at 2 am for a bootycall,  but she answerd today (a few hours ago) and they have been talking. I told her i would stop talking to her (were exclusive now) if she were to hang out with him , last girl cheated on me so my guard is high. she goes off saying im pushing her to see him and if she does its my fault. Do i just end it now?
Best thing would be to end it, tell her to do what she has to do, and when shes done playing these games give you a call and until then live your life.

anybody in here listen to the black phillip/beige phillip show, they drop tons of knowledge when it comes to these women, very insight full stuff
 
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I remember when I was going 2-3 days between smashing max then me and my ex broke up and I got to day 4 and I was like WTF! Had a great weekend after that tho lol
You think that's hard? try being in a relationship and going 3 weeks with nothing
 
Need some advice. new girl im talking to told me her ex texted her at 2 am for a bootycall,  but she answerd today (a few hours ago) and they have been talking. I told her i would stop talking to her (were exclusive now) if she were to hang out with him , last girl cheated on me so my guard is high. she goes off saying im pushing her to see him and if she does its my fault. Do i just end it now?

I read this and all I could think of was the hook from Chris Brown - Made Me (Remix).
 
Today's my day off. She's at work all day. Miss her already & we were just together last night. Think I'm becoming a simp :{
 
Today's my day off. She's at work all day. Miss her already & we were just together last night. Think I'm becoming a simp
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Bro weren't you just all in your feels about some other chick like a month ago that friendzoned you? 

You might be a stage 5 clinger. 
 
Need some advice. new girl im talking to told me her ex texted her at 2 am for a bootycall,  but she answerd today (a few hours ago) and they have been talking. I told her i would stop talking to her (were exclusive now) if she were to hang out with him , last girl cheated on me so my guard is high. she goes off saying im pushing her to see him and if she does its my fault. Do i just end it now?

Bro, keep hitting that while you build a new squad. She's a bird and now you know. Let her ex deal w dating her.

Bad idea. Just by him asking that, I doubt it's something he can handle correctly yet.
 
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So I used Magnum Ecstasy last night

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I mean, honestly I think a condom's a condom unless it's lamb skin, but these were a lot roomier than the Skyns or Trojans that I normally use, and just that simple fact honestly made it feel a lot better. It didn't take me that long to bust after I committed to some power strokes lol. It wasn't like a magnificent O but I got my nut in a decent amount of time.

I might use these from now on


P.S. really wanna try lamb skin but these things are 45 dollars at CVS :x
 
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I remember when I was going 2-3 days between smashing max then me and my ex broke up and I got to day 4 and I was like WTF! Had a great weekend after that tho lol
You think that's hard? try being in a relationship and going 3 weeks with nothing
Wait until you have a common law wife and see how long ..
lol Right now we go as long as about 4-5 days. I got a low sex drive tho. She be catching me when we be sleeping.
Hitting me with this every night -> 
 
So i post up on the Facebook about how me and the lady wen to the mavs game...

damn near one hunnid likes...


I got 2 text messages today...

"Oh.. i see you got a new boo... Have a merry christmas"

:lol :lol

Not sure how i should handle this situation... I know ignoring yambs will almost ALWAYS get a reaction...

So I'm thinking i should address it... so they wont try to flex..

8o 8o
 
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