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Well she's my girl and now it's at the point where she can tell if I do or don't lol but guess I'll just have to hope I do
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I've faked it with a chick once... it was either that or literally fall asleep on top of her....I was wasted and not finishing.. and she was way too in to it...it was like our 6th time that day, 3 a.m. I was done..
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Man so here's the situation, you know how there's that one girl that you know you'll always be perfect with? Yeah she's that girl, let me call her K. So K was in a relationship with some ugly dude for two years, they recently broke up. And the girl of my dreams became available and I thought to myself "this is my chance"
Well I genuinely thought it was, turns out she got back together with ole boy after two weeks of breaking up. It boils my blood because this guy cheated on her and she probably doesn't even know that, because she wouldn't have taken him back.
My question is, Was I too patient? I wanted to give her space after a two year break up, but it looks like I passed up my opportunity. Now I doubt I'll get another chance like that again.
Well I genuinely thought it was, turns out she got back together with ole boy after two weeks of breaking up. It boils my blood because this guy cheated on her and she probably doesn't even know that, because she wouldn't have taken him back.
My question is, Was I too patient? I wanted to give her space after a two year break up, but it looks like I passed up my opportunity. Now I doubt I'll get another chance like that again.
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To be completely honest she probably would've strung you along until ol boy decided he was legit done with her. Two years is an eternity for women, they 'll give dudes every chance in the world to come back. Don't beat yourself up, bruh.
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Yeah I mean I guess why I'm trippin over it is because I've been crushin on her for a long time, and this dude does not deserve her at all. But like you said, I'll try not to get too down on myself.
2 weeks off isn't a breakup in my opinion, chances are that there was still some communication going on between them during those 2 weeks as well.
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2 weeks tells me there was never a serious intention of actually breaking up.
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Yep
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The issue is not about him cheating or doing her dirty..
The real question is why are you chasing behind her.
Yeah she might have showed qualities of your "dream girl" but I guarantee she doesn't look at you that way or your just her emergency Captain Save'm..
Don't stunt your growth sticking yourself in the friendzone. Also you truly have no idea what the dynamics of their relationship is.
You sound salty because old boy was with her but you should be mad at yourself for not shooting your shot when you first met her and you definitely shouldn't have placed yourself in the zone.
Nothing wrong with being friends with women(personally for the 1,000th time, I don't do it) but I definately sense some bitterness in you and you need to clear that up with yourself and move on.
There could be tons of "dream girls" you pass up everyday but you are so worried about one female that you probably don't even know that deeply.
Being friends with a woman and dating/relationship with a woman are two totally different things. Who's to say this young lady and you are really compatible like that?
Dust yourself off and go out there and do you.
She's a big girl and has to live with her own decisions.
I know this is harsh but life is too short(or long) for regrets and dumb-ish[emoji]9996[/emoji][emoji]127999[/emoji]️
The real question is why are you chasing behind her.
Yeah she might have showed qualities of your "dream girl" but I guarantee she doesn't look at you that way or your just her emergency Captain Save'm..
Don't stunt your growth sticking yourself in the friendzone. Also you truly have no idea what the dynamics of their relationship is.
You sound salty because old boy was with her but you should be mad at yourself for not shooting your shot when you first met her and you definitely shouldn't have placed yourself in the zone.
Nothing wrong with being friends with women(personally for the 1,000th time, I don't do it) but I definately sense some bitterness in you and you need to clear that up with yourself and move on.
There could be tons of "dream girls" you pass up everyday but you are so worried about one female that you probably don't even know that deeply.
Being friends with a woman and dating/relationship with a woman are two totally different things. Who's to say this young lady and you are really compatible like that?
Dust yourself off and go out there and do you.
She's a big girl and has to live with her own decisions.
I know this is harsh but life is too short(or long) for regrets and dumb-ish[emoji]9996[/emoji][emoji]127999[/emoji]️
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Was on a nice hot streak...now I'm cold. The life mane smh.
Feel like a microwave 6th man.
Feel like a microwave 6th man.
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Yeah man I get what your saying. But I haven't been dropping chicks cause of her, this just happened out of nowhere and I messed up. I'm not salty it's just that I know this guy, he's a d bag and he takes her for granted. But I think ima just let it go to be honest with you. I didn't think it was harsh at all, I appreciate you being real with me and telling me straight up b.
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tbh what he does to her and if he deserves her is none of your business
2 weeks from year long relationships are break up, if they ever really do break up wait awhile and shoot your shot before you end up being a rebound
2 weeks from year long relationships are break up, if they ever really do break up wait awhile and shoot your shot before you end up being a rebound
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too much real life right here
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I'm cold too smh. Milf never got back to me it's been a week. Kinda dissappointed but not gonna hit her up again. If she's interested she'll get at me. Could be she's just really busy but I think she's flaking. Oh well.
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That's definitely the single life. Would have months where I would smash 10 new ones and months where it would be 1 or 0.
That's why I always tried to keep at least one player on the roster at all times even if she was mediocre.
Then of course now that I'm not single even more girls are bout it
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this one girl i used to chill with all the time, sometimes i would hit her up other times she would, got so mixy out of no where. It was because another guy was in the mix recently. Now me and the girl wasn't in a relationship with a title but off course i was crushing and everyone thought we was something because we would flirt in public and social media. One week in particular for 3 days straight we would agree to do something then she would make up a lie talking about she going out with her friends or going out with her fam. I say whatever thats cool. But Later i would find out she with that other guy doing the same thing we agreed to do 
.(and I'm also cool with her friends and they told me they haven't chilled with her in a while). I confronted her about it and she tried to lie saying i only chilled with him once when my friends that know her said she was with someone else that day. She was like "i don't know what to say". I cut her off after that. Then i knew she was gonna text me soon and two days later she was like ,"you want to play lacrosse (we are both the best lacrosse players on our school team and we practiced together doing that often ) " Like what? After you basically dubbed me for that other dude why would i want to chill with u. I haven't talked other in like 2 months since that. Its crazy cause this girl is also known as the sweetest girl in the school and is like a goody goody girl with no faults. But damn girls can be sooooo foul. All the people I've talked to about this was like yea she's wrong and is just straight up immature and a little kid. Ive found out that she then stopped talking to the boy she dubbed me for and is now kinda talking to her last boyfriend before that cheated on her and she found out . Girls in my town are something else man.
.(and I'm also cool with her friends and they told me they haven't chilled with her in a while). I confronted her about it and she tried to lie saying i only chilled with him once when my friends that know her said she was with someone else that day. She was like "i don't know what to say". I cut her off after that. Then i knew she was gonna text me soon and two days later she was like ,"you want to play lacrosse (we are both the best lacrosse players on our school team and we practiced together doing that often ) " Like what? After you basically dubbed me for that other dude why would i want to chill with u. I haven't talked other in like 2 months since that. Its crazy cause this girl is also known as the sweetest girl in the school and is like a goody goody girl with no faults. But damn girls can be sooooo foul. All the people I've talked to about this was like yea she's wrong and is just straight up immature and a little kid. Ive found out that she then stopped talking to the boy she dubbed me for and is now kinda talking to her last boyfriend before that cheated on her and she found out . Girls in my town are something else man.
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good girls vs bad girls .....lol there are strippers / escorts and then the rest of the world ...unless she a murderer/stripper/escort then shes a regular/good girl , just cause shes not good to you , doesnt make her bad ......
inb4 i didnt make any sense but i understand myself
inb4 i didnt make any sense but i understand myself
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nah lord knows i wanted too lol. But i feel great about the situation I'm in rn. Everyone that is close with her likes me and says she is dumb. I feel like this story isn't over cause the ex that cheated on her is now going to another school and even though i won't be talking to her, she will see me around a lot.vJust going to see what happens. Its kinda like a funny game because i get my fair share so i don't really care about getting back with her anymore but i like to see what she does next. But like its been said all these girls come back.kevi
The "sweethearts" are the worst cause you never know when their evil will show.
I respect that you've stayed strong and didn't cave into her attempt to reconnect.
Females are like ****** these days. Always have a back up in line. All part of the game
In some ways I don't necessarily agree, what's better, the stripper or escort that is upfront with you about what it is, or a woman that lies about what the deal is and would lead you on and cheat?
And I also think a truly good girl will just dump you or not deal with you before treating you bad.
I get what you are saying though.
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Sometimes you just gotta let that ego go, along with that notion of good girl/bad girl. Anyone has the capability to hurt you. Just be you and flourish.
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The way I handle disagreements is pathetic. I just shut down and get quiet I'm an idiot.
I'm an idiot.
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