quick question.
- chick seems interested. we have fun conversations at work. peeps me while im at work , saw me conversing w a girl and kept sneaking looks, glaring.
now am i wrong to assume shes interested ? im unsure now w a big IF because w all that couple times shes casually asked "wheres your friend (guy coworker i chill w at work) . that seems like the interest is there instead
Don't **** where you eat brethren.
Messing your money up in any capacity for a female is not worth it.
Now if you are not ready to learn the lesson I'm trying to bestow then this is what you do..
Next time you two are chopping it up..
"You know it seems you always ask about my mans' for some reason.
Are you into him?"
Either she will be direct and yes or get defensive and hit you with..
"Does he talk about me"
In a sly tone and then you play it by ear and if she's not interested in your mans, shoot your shot.
No matter if this is just a temporary gig or beginning of a career be very careful with office romances and if you two do proceed, you have to learn how to keep ish discreet.
You absolutely can not be smashing and telling your boys and vice versa because that's how your spot gets blown. Have a conversation with ole girl(if she likes you).,
"Look I'm trying to keep this on the low. We don't know who is watching us, so when we are at the job, try to keep interaction to a minimum and let's do the damn thing when we are off"
Office smashing/relationships are a beast and have too many variables and factors and can bring you more headaches then fun.
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