TAY: thread about yambs...

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Got flaked on, she's tired and said tomorrow. I prolly won't even hit her up, but that's just lazy yambing. I might just swallow that and hit her up..
 
Bro just blocked me fams. This chick was extra feeling me and my own bro just blocked me. I'm beyond blown right now
 
Alright guys never thought I'd be posting here but need some yamb advice...
Broke up with the gf of 3 years yesterday. I used to have good game/ nice car/ decent shape before so yambs were never a problem but now after being in a relationship for that long I kinda let myself go and I feel like my game is gonna be super rusty. Should I just hit up any chick for the sake of getting the first one out of the way or should I strive for the A+ yambs I really want. Workng two full time jobs right now (already graduated college) so don't have much time to work with overall. Also I matured a lot over the years so my personality is a little different from back then, I can't just mess with hoodies anymore cause we'd have nothing in common. I'm on my grown man **** lol. Give me some ideas bros.
my advice is to first, make it your goal to start up convos with people.

don't care where you are. Try to see if you can get strangers talking about themselves and divulging info to you.

don't ask anyone for a number though ... The reason I say get them to tell you about themselves is because people talk when they are comfortbal. If you can get a yamb to feel comfortable with you, that's half the battle.

then, work on spinning the convo into some vibing type deal. That's really tricky. Turning a convo from nice to waddup with me and you can be tricky. I've found a good way is to sort of lead her into it...

take initiative though. Don't be afraid to say "I want to hit you up" or "we need to kick it sometime. Lets exchange numbers cuz we're vibing"

when you get that thud in your chest, that usually turns guys away. Take it as you stepping into unchartered territory and there's no reason to turn back now.
 
long story short
my girl hung out with trey songz and miguel all night last night, and trey kept lookin at her like he was tryin to smash, he kissed her on the cheek, probably grabbed her ***, my girl calls me sounding giddy as hell
im pretty sure im over reacting, but if im a victim of cuffing a groupy, i want to at least know about it
ive known her for a minute and her track record is clean tho
didn''t expect anything less from mr. steal your girl :hat but what's the story with him and Kevin Belcher
 
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Trey came to my school for homecoming back in like 05 and invited a couple chicks on stage. On chick went backstage and nobody saw her again until almost a week later. :lol
 
@kev its jevon belcher my phone corrected to say Kevin lol...but his girl went to a trey songs concert the night he snapped
 
Jo started acting slick not responding when I hit her *** up and I went off on her and gave her the walking papers. :{
 
U ain't have to dog her but let her know wassup...respect over yambs..but I wouldn't even stress it bro trust me she will be back they all come back atleast once
 
brehs, i was out in san jo last night and met the most astonishing asian at a club/ bar. She was hella pretty and had a down to earth type vibe and charisma but she wasnt coming off the number before i left but she told me to google her. I did and ol girl was a baller at sac state, but i can't find the contact info and it seems she doesnt have a facebook or twitter(huge plus in my book but an inconvenience nevertheless). Should i pursue it? and if so did anybody go to sac state that knew some of the female hornets on the basketball team from 08 to 2011?


pics for the beast, she's on the left
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brehs, i was out in san jo last night and met the most astonishing asian at a club/ bar. She was hella pretty and had a down to earth type vibe and charisma but she wasnt coming off the number before i left but she told me to google her. I did and ol girl was a baller at sac state, but i can't find the contact info and it seems she doesnt have a facebook or twitter(huge plus in my book but an inconvenience nevertheless). Should i pursue it? and if so did anybody go to sac state that knew some of the female hornets on the basketball team from 08 to 2011?

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I was talking to this one chick that I'm trying to bag but she keep throwing these mixed singles. Today I hit her up and she tells me shes sick or whatever so I tell her she needs soup and sleep. She replied by telling me to bring her some so I tell her to give me time to go home and then I'll be on my way. She starts back peddling once I tell her I'll be there in 45 and then she told me that she was gonna just go back to sleep 0]. After she told me that, I told her that I had already bought the ingredients for the soup (never bought said ingredients). At this point, I just hit her with the "lol aight" cause a part of me was disgusted. She wrote back a smiley face and hat was the end. What happened??

I need game bros..
 
I was talking to this one chick that I'm trying to bag but she keep throwing these mixed singles. Today I hit her up and she tells me shes sick or whatever so I tell her she needs soup and sleep. She replied by telling me to bring her some so I tell her to give me time to go home and then I'll be on my way. She starts back peddling once I tell her I'll be there in 45 and then she told me that she was gonna just go back to sleep
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. After she told me that, I told her that I had already bought the ingredients for the soup (never bought said ingredients). At this point, I just hit her with the "lol aight" cause a part of me was disgusted. She wrote back a smiley face and hat was the end. What happened??

I need game bros..
keep it moving
 
I was talking to this one chick that I'm trying to bag but she keep throwing these mixed singles. Today I hit her up and she tells me shes sick or whatever so I tell her she needs soup and sleep. She replied by telling me to bring her some so I tell her to give me time to go home and then I'll be on my way. She starts back peddling once I tell her I'll be there in 45 and then she told me that she was gonna just go back to sleep 0]. After she told me that, I told her that I had already bought the ingredients for the soup (never bought said ingredients). At this point, I just hit her with the "lol aight" cause a part of me was disgusted. She wrote back a smiley face and hat was the end. What happened??
I need game bros..
You were being too accommodating. You're going the extra mile for a chick that's not even yours. Don't waste your time on that sir, move on.

how old are you?
 
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I wish a chick would tell me to google her. I'd probably laugh and walk away. These **** crazy. Lol.
 
Seen this girl I been talking to online around my way but she had her daughter with her..

Was in a weird situation. We both kept looking back. :{ missed one
 
Should i pursue it?

No. If she didn't give you her number, keep it moving. If you somehow get her contact info and do contact her, it will give her the upper hand, boost her ego, and make you look like you want to white knight that bish. IMHO, I never go after yambs that make me jump through hoops just to get her #, if they don't give it up, on to the next one. Too many yambs out there to be stuck on one chick.
 
I was talking to this one chick that I'm trying to bag but she keep throwing these mixed singles. Today I hit her up and she tells me shes sick or whatever so I tell her she needs soup and sleep. She replied by telling me to bring her some so I tell her to give me time to go home and then I'll be on my way. She starts back peddling once I tell her I'll be there in 45 and then she told me that she was gonna just go back to sleep 0]. After she told me that, I told her that I had already bought the ingredients for the soup (never bought said ingredients). At this point, I just hit her with the "lol aight" cause a part of me was disgusted. She wrote back a smiley face and hat was the end. What happened??
I need game bros..

Dude you are trying too hard and you are acting like a major white knight/simp. Leave the soup things for her friends/family to do and not you, doing things like this make you look real weak and sets the foundation of your relationship with her having the upper hand aka the bawse. Doing things like that automatically sets your relationship for the doomed "friend zone" aka "no yambs zone." In this situation, I would have just hit her up with "hope you feel better (or get well soon) and I'll hit you up when you feel better." Whenever a girl starts to talk about her feelings or ask me to do stuff like that, I automatically hit her up with the "we don't have that type of relationship" or I just straight up ignore her behavior. Just like training a pup, the more you react to ***** like that, the more likely they will try to get away with it and the more they will push the envelope until you finally enter the "no fly zone." Always remember to put yourself as the priority and yambs after that, too many yambs out there my dude to be sidetrack by one. Chalk this up to experience and keep fishing.
 
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she told my man to google her, lmao i would of slap her on the butt and told her "you must of forgot that this is a mans world and you are not worth my keystroke"
anyway new years eve is approaching, and i need to wipe my plate clean.
 
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