TAY: thread about yambs...

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[COLOR=#red]We all pay for the skins...just some pay directly. $40 is a discount compared to that dude who takes his chicks out to eat and to a movie. That can be $80+ easily and no guarantee to smash if it's a first date. That's why I don't judge those who pay directly.[/COLOR]

BS!
cue my post about paying for the P a few pages back.

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Here it is
Just had a random thought and this is the best thread for it:
There's a quick, easy way to negate the "we all pay for pu$$y in some way" thing that people who buy escorts like to throw out (which i hate)
When you pay for something...you are exchanging currency for a specific thing.
When you pay for sex...they are having sex with you because, and only because, you are paying them.
If you take a girl out to eat blah blah blah...you are exchanging money for a specific service: movie, food, etc. for you and said girl.
If she has sex with you it is because she is sexually attracted to you. You didn't pay her to do so. Paying for a date is just a custom.
You can take a girl to dinner and a movie and she not be sexually attracted to you and then y'all don't have sex.
Escorts can't do that. You pay them...they have sex with you.
Y'all can twist it however you want...but you will just be bending the truth and trying to be a smart ***.
 
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yeah getting back with my ex seems like a huge mistake now...

think her sole purpose is just to spite me for things i did years ago.. pretty much just running out the clock now.
Elaborate, please.
extremely protective of her phone.. I'm not the type to browse a girl's phone or anything but the other day I saw it light up and was in the process of handing it to her but before I can turn around I get chewed out. Gets all hype if she thinks I'm looking over her shoulder while texting... Which is really out of character. Reasons all this by saying "you used to be like this".. I'm about 95% sure she's texting her mom.. just the fact she's doing this to raise doubt inmy mind isn't cool


Real immature stuff... Says she's leaving to go to her God brother's great grandfather's funeral... Idk why anyone would go get their hair done and spend bus fare to go to that.
 
yeah getting back with my ex seems like a huge mistake now...

think her sole purpose is just to spite me for things i did years ago.. pretty much just running out the clock now.
Elaborate, please.
extremely protective of her phone.. I'm not the type to browse a girl's phone or anything but the other day I saw it light up and was in the process of handing it to her but before I can turn around I get chewed out. Gets all hype if she thinks I'm looking over her shoulder while texting... Which is really out of character. Reasons all this by saying "you used to be like this".. I'm about 95% sure she's texting her mom.. just the fact she's doing this to raise doubt inmy mind isn't cool


Real immature stuff... Says she's leaving to go to her God brother's great grandfather's funeral... Idk why anyone would go get their hair done and spend bus fare to go to that.

Sounds like she's seeing someone else. Too many of the signs are aligning.
 
I know I'm being unreasonable, but I feel like if I don't get a gf soon, they'll all be gone forever. 
forever
 
yeah getting back with my ex seems like a huge mistake now...

think her sole purpose is just to spite me for things i did years ago.. pretty much just running out the clock now.
Elaborate, please.
extremely protective of her phone.. I'm not the type to browse a girl's phone or anything but the other day I saw it light up and was in the process of handing it to her but before I can turn around I get chewed out. Gets all hype if she thinks I'm looking over her shoulder while texting... Which is really out of character. Reasons all this by saying "you used to be like this".. I'm about 95% sure she's texting her mom.. just the fact she's doing this to raise doubt inmy mind isn't cool


Real immature stuff... Says she's leaving to go to her God brother's great grandfather's funeral... Idk why anyone would go get their hair done and spend bus fare to go to that.

Sounds like she's seeing someone else. Too many of the signs are aligning.
knowing her I really don't think she can balance two dudes.. even a smash buddy. She's too sloppy with it.

Honesty think it's just her being a ***.. either way I'm not for it.
 
Robin just leave, the phone thing is a huge red flag.

Leave before you're hurt, and seems like you're on to something. my ex once admitted to me that she got back with me only to hurt me. She acted like your girl in some ways. Once i left the car to put gas and i walk up to the passenger seat and see her text a guy.

I had the biggest stone face when she looked up.
 
knowing her I really don't think she can balance two dudes.. even a smash buddy. She's too sloppy with it.

Honesty think it's just her being a ***.. either way I'm not for it.

You're a better judge of her character than any of us, but trust your instincts. Her being overprotective of her phone is a really bad sign. She is without a doubt trying to hide something from you. Just try and ask her some tough questions (in a nice and normal way) about where she's going or where she's been. See if she sounds like she's lying or gets defensive. Try and catch her in a lie when she's giving you the "story."
 
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[COLOR=#red]We all pay for the skins...just some pay directly. $40 is a discount compared to that dude who takes his chicks out to eat and to a movie. That can be $80+ easily and no guarantee to smash if it's a first date. That's why I don't judge those who pay directly.[/COLOR]

BS!
cue my post about paying for the P a few pages back.

Edit:
Here it is
Just had a random thought and this is the best thread for it:
There's a quick, easy way to negate the "we all pay for pu$$y in some way" thing that people who buy escorts like to throw out (which i hate)
When you pay for something...you are exchanging currency for a specific thing.
When you pay for sex...they are having sex with you because, and only because, you are paying them.
If you take a girl out to eat blah blah blah...you are exchanging money for a specific service: movie, food, etc. for you and said girl.
If she has sex with you it is because she is sexually attracted to you. You didn't pay her to do so. Paying for a date is just a custom.
You can take a girl to dinner and a movie and she not be sexually attracted to you and then y'all don't have sex.
Escorts can't do that. You pay them...they have sex with you.
Y'all can twist it however you want...but you will just be bending the truth and trying to be a smart ***.

i look at it like im also entertaining myself as well...so im not truly payin for the sex.
 
:lol Who cares if someone pays for sex though? I don't think hunters look down on people who buy their food in the store and say "You're paying for meat"

Everyone lives their lives differently and will place value on different things. If a night of sexual entertainment is worth x amount of dollars to you then so be it. It may not replace an actual relationship with a broad but no one said it had to.
 
i look at it like im also entertaining myself as well...so im not truly payin for the sex.

[COLOR=#red]Whatever makes you sleep better pleighboi. Fact of the matter is this...yall are going out...you are paying for you AND her entertainment. Not like you would keep doing it if she never gave you the skins. But then again I wouldn't be surprised with the level of simperey displayed these days.[/COLOR]
 
yeah getting back with my ex seems like a huge mistake now...

think her sole purpose is just to spite me for things i did years ago.. pretty much just running out the clock now.
Elaborate, please.
extremely protective of her phone.. I'm not the type to browse a girl's phone or anything but the other day I saw it light up and was in the process of handing it to her but before I can turn around I get chewed out. Gets all hype if she thinks I'm looking over her shoulder while texting... Which is really out of character. Reasons all this by saying "you used to be like this".. I'm about 95% sure she's texting her mom.. just the fact she's doing this to raise doubt inmy mind isn't cool


Real immature stuff... Says she's leaving to go to her God brother's great grandfather's funeral... Idk why anyone would go get their hair done and spend bus fare to go to that.

Sounds like she's seeing someone else. Too many of the signs are aligning.
knowing her I really don't think she can balance two dudes.. even a smash buddy. She's too sloppy with it.

Honesty think it's just her being a ***.. either way I'm not for it.
She clearly can't cause she's slipping and you're seeing the signs of it. Time to bounce homie.
 
Whatever makes you sleep better pleighboi. Fact of the matter is this...yall are going out...you are paying for you AND her entertainment. Not like you would keep doing it if she never gave you the skins. But then again I wouldn't be surprised with the level of simperey displayed these days.
I've had a number of situations where I've smashed and never took the girl out.  Or gone out and split the cost.

BUT I do get what you're saying though. Especially since I see some cats out here be simpin to the max on jumpoffs, buying them $50 plates and expensive drinks just to hit 
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  After that you might as well just hit up a escort.
 
i look at it like im also entertaining myself as well...so im not truly payin for the sex.

[COLOR=#red]Whatever makes you sleep better pleighboi. Fact of the matter is this...yall are going out...you are paying for you AND her entertainment. Not like you would keep doing it if she never gave you the skins. But then again I wouldn't be surprised with the level of simperey displayed these days.[/COLOR]

Im not one of them ...

i think youre making a valid point, but i also think theres points to be made on both sides.

I like to go out to dinner, eat good food, enjoy myself with a lady. If i am the initiator (i say "lets get somethin to eat") then i feel no issue paying.

I guess im in a position where i know im getting the P, or have gotten the P with just havin her at the crib that sometimes i wanna break out the house myself and enjoy another venue.

but in all, please dont place me or assume im the simpin type.
 
I need help:

I saw a beautiful Blackanese beauty today on campus, but I think this is the second time I see her. I think she rides my bus to campus. What would be a good intro line? She look a lot like my ex, but I don't think it would be good to open up with that.
 
^ what them juices flow like shawty/ what dat mouf dew/ lemme clap dem *** cheeks



Anyways, the colder it gets here in the Midwest the less and less yams are afoot (-2 degrees btw) :{
 
I need help:

I saw a beautiful Blackanese beauty today on campus, but I think this is the second time I see her. I think she rides my bus to campus. What would be a good intro line? She look a lot like my ex, but I don't think it would be good to open up with that.

Talk to her like any other girl. Initiate a convo. Get digits. Smash in dorm room
 
^ what them juices flow like shawty/ what dat mouf dew/ lemme clap dem *** cheeks



Anyways, the colder it gets here in the Midwest the less and less yams are afoot (-2 degrees btw) :{
Hell yea, this the time of year you better have your roster of yambs solidified and on call, cuz aint gonna be too many new joints out and about when its under 30 degrees :{
 
[COLOR=#red]Dude aren't you like 19? :rollin. Like you have all this experience to base anything relationship/dating wise. Holla back when you can buy a Dos Equis with a legal ID.[/COLOR]

right. i'm 19 but you sound immature. :lol
it's not a matter of age..it's the definition of paying for something.
my post clearly expounds upon that, but whatever. like i said, you can twist it and try to be a smart ***.
and we're not talking about a life lesson...it's a matter of discrepancy in the definition of a certain process: paying for something, therefore
get off of your high horse that you're on just because you got some years on me. it's getting old.
 
EWD got that Riley thought process...

give dat 'oe the money, give me the yambs, and she can go cop some groceries. :lol

BTW...

COPPED MY MEMBERSHIP TO 24 HOUR FITNESS :evil :evil

seen bad biddies walkin in and out of there on the regular...

the front desk dude said the EXACT same thing Patty melts said... homey was like "yeah bruh... been here for a few years... its going to be super duper packed in here for the first few months, then it will slowly trickle off."

i was like "well damb... how can youtell the difference between the dedicated and the ones that are bullspittin?"

he said "you'll see them walking around, taking pictures and what not. they're easier to distract and talk to... they wont look as in shape as the other chicks... shoot them a compliment and you'll be good... just gotta say the right thing at the right time"

i was like

1000
 
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