Its probably been 100 pages since I posted in here, but I need some advice. I've been seeing a girl since late December, and things were going good, but then she started moving way too fast. She started talking about relationships, babies, marriage, moving in, all those sorts of things and it started to scare me. So I ended up telling her I didnt want a relationship and it hit her hard, she was crying, and I cant handle tears so of course I took it back and dove right back in with her.
Since that point I've been slowly trying to ease myself away from her becuase I dont want her to get in too deep when my hearts not in it, but she doesnt seem to be getting it. My birthday was last Friday and she got me a gift, then she got me another gift for Valentines Day so I know shes expecting something, but I dont want to get her anything for the simple reason that it gives the wrong impression. I dont feel I should take the gifts shes bought me either because that gives the wrong impression also.
How can I end this in a very nice way. I've already tried putting it all on me, saying things like I'm not ready for a relationship(which I'm not) and I'm not the guy for her (which I'm not), but to no avail. Advice?
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