TAY: thread about yambs...

[suberzat1]

Yea this is some good stuff with the Christmas spirit feeling most of the chicks in your local cities/town with the year coming to a close. Maybe some should set up a goal before leaving the crib on how many chicks you will talk to through out the day to help build your confidence up. I will most likely leave the crib tomorrow  and read my book at the local coffee shop after working out. Can always use practice while school is out.

 

[rocman23]

Me and this chick I'm talking to were suppose to kick it pretty much all day today. She has a kid and he was suppose to not be around today. I'm into this chick, we've been talking for about a month but I don't think I'm ready to meet her kid. What would you guys do? At some point I wouldn't mind meeting her kid, I'm into her and would actually wife her but I feel like it's too soon to meet the kid. I've met her parents and she's met some of my friends but I feel like the kid is a big step. Thoughts?

 

[slicknick951]

How old is the kid?

 

[rocman23]

The kid is 4

 

[slicknick951]

That would be a big step for me ive never been to fond of being a "step-daddy" so to say.


The kid is either gonna hate you cause you are trying to "take his mommy away" or he is gonna bond with you and you will be his new daddy which could get messy if you and the mother don't stay together. Then the kid just have men coming in and out of his life.

I would put it off for as long as possible till im sure that is where i want to be. Then if you are serious about her make your best effort to find a place in the kids life not a friend or a father somewhere in the middle.

Let her know how you feel and be honest she should appreciate the honesty cause it shows you at least put some thought into the situation.

Is the baby daddy around?

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

If baby daddy is around all bets are off cause if he is crazy you got more drama. If he is good with the kid the kid is probably gonna hate you cause he thinks his parents would get back together if it wasn't for you.

Too many variables for me but sometimes you cant pick who you have feelings for.

 

[tdogg2k]

I'm pretty big on no babies, (we had a huge 2-3 pages about it some time ago)
but I'm also a believer in you shouldn't fight against someone you think is good for you.

It's always a sticky situation with chicks with kids. to me the Kids Age is a big part of it. I would say Under 3 is good because if you stick around the kid recognizes you as a care taker in his/her life. but if you don't stick around the kid won't remember you.
(the one execption i made)

Baby daddy's are a whole other beast.
You can't really say anything to dude whether he's a deadbeat or fully in the kids life.
it just sucks and I would personally rather not deal.

I have been in situations where I really liked girl (s) with a kid or 2. but things just didn't work out.

Just be careful man and don't get hurt

 

[JayDean03]

I'm pretty big on no babies, (we had a huge 2-3 pages about it some time ago)
but I'm also a believer in you shouldn't fight against someone you think is good for you.

It's always a sticky situation with chicks with kids. to me the Kids Age is a big part of it. I would say Under 3 is good because if you stick around the kid recognizes you as a care taker in his/her life. but if you don't stick around the kid won't remember you.
(the one execption i made)

Baby daddy's are a whole other beast.
You can't really say anything to dude whether he's a deadbeat or fully in the kids life.
it just sucks and I would personally rather not deal.

I have been in situations where I really liked girl (s) with a kid or 2. but things just didn't work out.

Just be careful man and don't get hurt

And sadly, the BD will always have access to her yambs.

 

[Mark Antony]

I just started talkin to this chick a fw wks.ago and im tryna do somethin wit her on new years eve but neither one.of us go to the club. My homies throwin a party but im not sure if i wana go to it


What do some if yall plan on doing

Clubbing in DTLA with @ecook0808 and a bunch odd my boys from college

Yeah go ahead and take her to the party/club unless she strongly protests. Don't fall for those "I don't party" ******** chicks like to say, because that's exactly how you'll lose her when she starts thinking you're boring.

 

[アミーゴ]

Idk why ur trying to take a girl u just met a few weeks ago out on NYE anyways.

There's 2-3 girls that asked if I wanted to spend NYE with them... Yeah, right I thought.

Great night to meet new Yambs

 

[301216baller]

roc is this the same chick you were talking about months ago that has a kid?

 

[youngdoc]

Idk why ur trying to take a girl u just met a few weeks ago out on NYE anyways.

There's 2-3 girls that asked if I wanted to spend NYE with them... Yeah, right I thought.

Great night to meet new Yambs

I'd only take a serious gf out on NYE.

So many yamb ready to let loose. I've never had a bad time on NYE.

 

[fontaine]

What about Dallas new years Eve...

Any suggestions?

Never did it big on these...

 

[surgev1]

What about Dallas new years Eve...

Any suggestions?

Never did it big on these...

This.....trying to continue the NYE streak

 

[stay lurkin]

Gotta be careful with yambs NT. They can be incredibly distracting. Would be great to get back in the game but I am determined to receive this accounting degree that takes 100% of my attention

Sucks cause when you aren't trying beezys are thirsty. Just can't deal with it man. There is literally no more room my brain. It actually feels good .

I enjoy reading this thread though.

 

[rocman23]

roc is this the same chick you were talking about months ago that has a kid?

Well we've been talking for about a month but yeah it's the same chick.

Went ahead and met up with ole girl and met the kid. He wasn't looking for a daddy type thing and she wasn't expecting that from me anyway. Me and the kid clicked right away. It's just hard to build something with her cause I only see her either when I'm back home or when she comes to visit me. We talk frequently though.

Baby daddy is not an issue, dude doesn't even come around. Kid doesn't even ask about him. He's around but just like a deadbeat. Homie is crazy cause them yambs is fuego

 

[stay lurkin]

Gotta be careful with those types though. There is an incredible upside but most are one push away from going completely over the edge.

 

[awwsome]

Gotta be careful with yambs NT. They can be incredibly distracting. Would be great to get back in the game but I am determined to receive this accounting degree that takes 100% of my attention

Sucks cause when you aren't trying beezys are thirsty. Just can't deal with it man. There is literally no more room my brain. It actually feels good .

I enjoy reading this thread though.

I feel you g, as much I love women sometimes I feel like it just gets to be a waste of time that I could be using to accomplish bigger goals.


At the same time I love the (), **** is a battle

 

[RayCashhhh]

Just came across this girl I go to school with on twitter, and decided to hit her with a dm. Good conversation I feel. So instead of asking for her number, I just ask for her IG and wish her Merry Christmas and tell her I hope to see her around campus. She said of course and wished the same. 

What should be my next move?  We don't go back to school until the twelfth.

 

[keel252]

Why wouldn't you ask for her number?

What was the point of the IG if you already know what she look like, I realize if you dig a chick y'all shouldn't share social media friendships.

 

[usabasketball08]

What about Dallas new years Eve...

Any suggestions?

Never did it big on these...

This.

 

[RayCashhhh]

Why wouldn't you ask for her number?

What was the point of the IG if you already know what she look like, I realize if you dig a chick y'all shouldn't share social media friendships.

Really wanted to be conservative this time, just wanted to see if she was feeling me before I got the digits

 

[stay lurkin]

You are good man. You will see her around. It also helps to seem a little unavailable.

 

[keel252]

Really wanted to be conservative this time, just wanted to see if she was feeling me before I got the digits

Gotcha homie, I'm just a little disconnected in that area. Guess I'm old school with just straight number game.

 

[アミーゴ]

Merry Christmas to my dudes in my favorite thread

To those who don't celebrate, Happy whatever that may be!

Love yall like brothers.

 

[mugen81]

Happy Holidays to all...
From OG's( you know who u are) to lurkers and rookies, even though we may have disagreements or different views, truly the only thread I enjoy(besides the Draya,Fools and Asian Woman Appreciation thread lol)...
Be safe in them streets and remember nothing wrong with taking L's, it's the shots you don't take that will hunt you...