TAY: thread about yambs...

[youngdoc]

I'm trying to start the New Year off right so I'm hoping the liquor doesn't get me too blinded.

I will know a lot of the girls who will be at the club tomorrow so I can use them as a barometer to make sure I'm only getting at quality chicks

 

[suberzat1]

Same goes for me @youngdoc  I get too much liquor in me sometimes talking with these chicks thinking im winning until they come by my crib. I just be like 

what was I thinking and why nobody told me anything.

I need to get it together with spring semester around the corner along with All Star Weekend and Mardi Gras

 

 

[yeezusdisciple]

brahs got a queshtshun bout a situashun

there was dis girl in my class. we sat next to each other and talked and studied together. she would sometimes ask me what im doing like on the weekend or halloween or stuff like that. but i wouldnt really give her much insight or info about my life and kept it mostly about school. since sometimes i just like to shut girls down

she just texted me and asked what i got in our class. class ended like 2 weeks ago. should i try to soo what shes doing for new years and set something up? if so how do i do it? not too good at texting

was thinking of just asking what shes doing and if she says i dunno then ill tell her we should do something together. sounds good in my head but just want advice from u guys

 

[fontaine]

kinfoe...

i swear i think i've found out a foolproof way to secure the on the fence yambs or new yambs...

took some refining... i think i learned it first on here though...

but this aint failed me yet...

Spoiler

the point system ...

 

[36 ounces]

kinfoe...

i swear i think i've found out a foolproof way to secure the on the fence yambs or new yambs...

took some refining... i think i learned it first on here though...

but this aint failed me yet...

Spoiler

the point system ...

Can you expound on that...

 

[tdogg2k]

brahs got a queshtshun bout a situashun

there was dis girl in my class. we sat next to each other and talked and studied together. she would sometimes ask me what im doing like on the weekend or halloween or stuff like that. but i wouldnt really give her much insight or info about my life and kept it mostly about school. since sometimes i just like to shut girls down

she just texted me and asked what i got in our class. class ended like 2 weeks ago. should i try to soo what shes doing for new years and set something up? if so how do i do it? not too good at texting

was thinking of just asking what shes doing and if she says i dunno then ill tell her we should do something together. sounds good in my head but just want advice from u guys

yea be like You probably have plans for NYE already but how about we start the new year right and let me take you for coffee or food.

 

[Coromanti]

 

kinfoe...

i swear i think i've found out a foolproof way to secure the on the fence yambs or new yambs...

took some refining... i think i learned it first on here though...

but this aint failed me yet...
 

Spoiler

the point system ...

Can you expound on that...

Do you mean just tell them what you rate them to their face?

 

[foamtothedome]

i cant get emotionally attached to any girl since my ex

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

Feels pretty good 

 

[oidreez]

 

kinfoe...


i swear i think i've found out a foolproof way to secure the on the fence yambs or new yambs...


took some refining... i think i learned it first on here though...


but this aint failed me yet...

 

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

the point system ...

Can you expound on that...

Do you mean just tell them what you rate them to their face?

I assumed he meant giving them points when they do something good and taking away points when they do something you dislike. (in a playful manner)

 

[youngdoc]

 

kinfoe...


i swear i think i've found out a foolproof way to secure the on the fence yambs or new yambs...


took some refining... i think i learned it first on here though...


but this aint failed me yet...

 

Spoiler: Warning: Spoiler!

the point system ...

Can you expound on that...

Do you mean just tell them what you rate them to their face?

I assumed he meant giving them points when they do something good and taking away points when they do something you dislike. (in a playful manner)

I do that all the time but for some reason I feel like he means something else/more

 

[Mark Antony]

That's more for younger yambs. Some older ones ain't having it with some of those games I'm learning as I transition to old man game. I've been straight up told "I'm not some little girl who'll go chasing after you" after still trying to play that push/pull. You ease into learning that you're the man now, you're the prize, you're the provider, you guide the relationship. Play it straight up and just keep growing as a man. Takes a while to truly get to that stage.

 

[tdogg2k]

I have a list of 10 "Deal breakers" and if they break more than 3 of them I cut them loose.

I feel everyone should do that.

mine are
1. Smoking
2. baby talk
3. Kids
4. excessively loud
5. no motivation to work out
6. Hard drugs
7. non religious (I can deal with it as long as they throw salt on my religion)
8. bad kisser
9. Negative
10. hypochondriac (I've had one they are terrible, they guilt trip you)

This may seem shallow but atleast they get up to 3

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

What about Dallas new years Eve...

Any suggestions?

Never did it big on these...

http://blogs.dallasobserver.com/dc9/2013/12/nye_dallas_best_parties.php

Season finale at Momo's will be the best look--- M. Knight is a cool DJ that attracts a nice sophisticated Talented Tenth crowd

me personally, I'll be at a house party with some close "associates" and my dude. Why pay 50 to go to a crowed club when I can pay 50 and it's going towards a catered affair and drinks.


AND my ***** will prolly have some kush

 

[fontaine]

famb... the point system has yet to fail me.

yall are right... giving them +/- for when they do dope/wack things...

@mark: naw famb... i just used it on a chick ... 28... no kids, doing her own thing.... started up a salon but failed... now she's in the workforce and in school.

Spoiler: This is how i go about it

i always just bring up a negative point first. whenever we're chopping it up and they say something, i throw out

"blah blah blah... -1 point"

they'll inquire, and you let them know... something along the lines of "who doesnt like to get told when they do awesome stuff?" they'll laugh it off, then go from there...

later on, you throw a positive out there... i can say w/ utmost certainty, they're going to ask how many points... i always give them a rundown w/ the positives and negatives...

EX:

+2 points for a cute face
+2 for the nice rump
+1 for being a cool person.
-1 for not sending me a pic
-1 for liking the cowboys

or along those lines...

they will laugh it off, but they WILL remember.

whenever they ask about the point system, you know that you got'em.

whenever they say "i want my points back", you know that you got'em.

whenever they say ANYTHING about gaining/losing points, you got'em.

the thing is... whenever you put a point system on them... it makes you AND them realize that its not about you trying to impress them....

its a mutual thing. we both have to make each other feel comfortable.

i've come to notice that if done correctly, the chicks have WAY more respect for you.

i first learned it from here... and w/ some tweaks, trials and errors... its incorporated into my gameplan...

i dont look at it as a childish game. but moreso lets chicks know that "hey... just cuz you're pretty, doesnt mean i cant be critical of you. you're human, and i recognize that"

i think the respect goes out the roof, and it hasnt failed me yet.

 

[timelessflight]

I've done that point system on some chicks. They get a real good kick out of it and its fun.

 

[Mark Antony]

I used to do the +1 wife points thing with a chick and she just gave a strained, resentful "thanks". Thinking about it we were just overall bad at that point and i didnt notice that's probably why she acted like that.

 

[onthenephs]

That point system seems like a straight failure if I were to try it lol.

 

[gatorbeltsnpattiemelts]

that **** sounds dumb as ****--- but it's a lotta dumb **** that's been working according to ya'll so have it

 

[fontaine]

that **** sounds dumb as ****--- but it's a lotta dumb **** that's been working according to ya'll so have it

if you try to clown a dude b/c he gives you props and and pokes a little fun, then that's more on you than anything.

That point system seems like a straight failure if I were to try it lol.

give it a try famb...

meet a girl... text a couple days and then throw it out there.

dont be scared... again... if a chick thinks your lame for giving her props, then whatever...

9/10... if she likes you, whatever stupid stuff you do, she's gonna get a kick out of it anyway.

 

[yeezusdisciple]

Some girl once told me i just lost a point.

 

[youngdoc]

I'm with you on the points system except I never give points for physical qualities and I don't keep a strict tally

I agree it's a good way to remind them who needs to impress who

 

[rocman23]

I'm gonna try out the point system tonight. I also plan on nit being sloppy drunk, just a nice buzz. I get kicked out of the club last new years. Apparently I grabbed some girls ***, I don't believe it though. It could have happened though I was hella faded

 

[fontaine]

I'm with you on the points system except I never give points for physical qualities and I don't keep a strict tally

I agree it's a good way to remind them who needs to impress who

yeah man...

as far as strict tallies, i dont either... that's good advice on the physical traits...

some girls really like when you acknowledge their bodies... some dont... so its a give and take...

true story... i've had chicks REMIND ME of the points total...

her: how many points is that?
me: 6 (throws random number out there b/c i truly have forgotten and dont care to remember)
her: no! that's supposed to be 8! remember?!
me: oh yeah... my b.

 

[heliumclinton]

if I kept a point system I'm tallying in my head not actually telling a girl "you put cheddar cheese on my sandwich bae +1"

 

[youngdoc]

I'm with you on the points system except I never give points for physical qualities and I don't keep a strict tally

I agree it's a good way to remind them who needs to impress who

yeah man...

as far as strict tallies, i dont either... that's good advice on the physical traits...

some girls really like when you acknowledge their bodies... some dont... so its a give and take...

true story... i've had chicks REMIND ME of the points total...

her: how many points is that?
me: 6 (throws random number out there b/c i truly have forgotten and dont care to remember)
her: no! that's supposed to be 8! remember?!
me: oh yeah... my b.

Hook, line, and sinker

I definitely acknowledge the physical traits because all women like to be made to feel pretty/sexy/hot

I just don't want them to think I'm objectifying them or that they get "credit" for what they were generally given