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I very rarely talk to my dad about my personal life. Something had come up and in passing i was like yeah me and this girl went there. Then my dads girlfriend asked me who it was so i gave a name and said she is cool. So saturday my dads gf asked me how me and the girl were and i said the same thing she is cool. Asked me a few things about her i told her where she worked (retail store) that was about it. Little did either of them know that me and this female are actually dating. So Sunday rolls around and i come to find out that they stopped into her store asked for her and met her. She calls me from work like...uhh just met your dad and his gf. I was like what????
Not even by accident like rolled into her job and asked for her. She had no clue what he looked like or anything. They were like "there is an older gentleman here asking for you". She was like who in the hell...Then everyone in the store was like who was that....now everyone of her friends that she works with prob thinks my dad is super creepy showing up out of the blue like that without even knowing her or knowing anything between us was actually going on.
When you hide things about yourself from people, they get to making **** up.
If you do indeed rarely talk to your pops about your personal life, he was probably making sure she was real and you're straight. Srs.
Bruh im 27 years old 28 in a few months. I think my dad knows im straight . He desperately wants to be in my business i just didn't realize he would go to this extent. My girl was cool about it she was like "my last bfs parents hated me...so i guess it could be worse?" i was like yeah i guess. I couldn't apologize enough to her though. Its not a good look for a grown man's dad to go about stuff like that. Looks terrible on me. And i won't even say anything to my dad because we aren't' even close like that (divorced house raised by my mom didn't even talk to my dad until post college really so we are not really close). I just don't know who in their right mind would think thats ok. Like if i want her to meet my family i will bring her around. You don't get to bypass that step by just jumping the gun.
But i def agree with your first point
Had me heated all day yesterday but what's done is done can't go back now
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