Weirdest things about America (Indian International students perspective)

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Aniruddh Chaturvedi came from Mumbai to Carnegie Mellon University in Pittsburgh, Penn., where he is majoring in computer science. This past summer he interned at a tech company in Silicon Valley.

During two years in the U.S., Chaturvedi has been surprised by various aspects of society, as he explained last year in a post on Quora.

Chaturvedi offered his latest thoughts on America in an email to Business Insider.

The most surprising things about America:
  • Nobody talks about grades here. 
  • Everyone is highly private about their accomplishments and failures. Someone's performance in any field is their performance alone. This is different compared to India where people flaunt their riches and share their accomplishments with everybody else.
  • The retail experience is nowhere near as fun/nice as it is in India. Because labor is cheap in India, there is always someone who will act as a "personal shopper" to assist you with holding your clothes, giving suggestions, etc. In America, on the other hand, even if you go to a Nordstrom  or Bloomingdales, there is almost nobody to help you out while you're shopping. Shopping in America is more of a commodity / chore than it is a pleasurable activity 
  • This may be biased/wrong because I was an intern, but at least in the tech world, nobody wants to put you under the bus for something that you didn't do correctly or didn't understand how to do. People will sit with you patiently till you get it. If you aren't able to finish something within the stipulated deadline, a person on your team would graciously offer to take it off your plate.
  • The same applies to school. Before I came to the United States, I heard stories about how students at Johns Hopkins were so competitive with each other that they used to tear important pages from books in the library just so other students didn't have access to it. In reality, I experienced the complete opposite. Students were highly collaborative, formed study groups, and studied / did assignments till everyone in the group "got it". I think the reason for this is that the classes are / material is so hard that it makes sense to work collaboratively to the point that students learn from each other. 
  • Strong ethics — everyone has a lot of integrity. If someone cannot submit their completed assignment in time, they will turn in the assignment incomplete rather than asking for answers at the last minute. People take pride in their hard work and usually do not cheat. This is different from students from India and China as well as back home in India, where everyone collaborates to the extent that it can be categorized as cheating.
  • Rich people are thin/ well maintained, poor people are fat. This stems from the fact that cheap food is fatty, rich people don't eat cheap food — they tend to eat either home-cooked food which is expensive or eat at expensive / healthy places. Unfortunately, it is expensive to be healthy in America.
  • Fat people are not respected much in society. Being fat often has the same connotations as being irresponsible towards your body. If you're thin (and tall, but not as much), people will respect you a lot more and treat you better. You will also receive better customer service if you're well maintained. This extends my previous point which mentioned that if you're thin, you're statistically likely to be rich. Reason why I know this is that I went down from being 210lbs to 148-150lbs. The way people started treating me when I was thin was generally way better than the way I was treated when I was fat. As a small example, the Starbucks baristas were much nicer to me and made me drinks with more care / love. 
  • Girls are not very promiscuous, contrary to most Hollywood films
  • Almost every single person in America has access to basic food, clothing, water and sanitation. I haven't been to states like Louisiana and cities like Detroit, but from what I can tell, nobody is scrambling for the basic necessities required for sustenance. 
  • Dearth of African Americans in technical fields. This probably stems from the fact that they aren't given enough opportunity, broken families, etc. I'm pretty sure you can extend upon this if you'd like.
  • It's expensive to have brick houses in America, contrary to India where brick houses are the norm
  • Emphasis on physical fitness / being outdoorsy — this is more of a California thing but I noticed families going on biking trips, boat trips, hiking, camping, barbecuing, etc. Americans take pride in the natural beauty of their surroundings and tend to make the most of it
  • Americans waste a lot of food. It is very easy to buy in bulk because it's so much cheaper and as a result a lot of wastage occurs. 
  • Obsession with coffee — Starbucks, Dunkin' etc is crowded with office-goers and students every morning. I don't understand why they can't drink or make coffee before leaving for work. Such a waste of money! ($5/day * 5days / week * 52weeks/year)!
  • Split families, not having married parents, etc is not seen differently than the contrary. 
  • Support towards the LGBT community — it's fairly normal to be part of the LGBT community; it's not considered a mortal sin if you like someone in your own gender or if you aren't comfortable being male/female/etc. Proof of this is the LGBT Pride Day held in every city etc. 
  • Smoking weed is seen the same as smoking cigarettes. 
And here are some more things he found surprising about America, excerpted from his post last summer on Quora  :

The way that stores price their products  makes no apparent economic sense, and is not linear at all.

For example, at a typical store: 
 - 1 can of coke : $1.00
 - 12 cans of coke : $3.00
 - 1 Häagen-Dazs ice cream bar : $3.00
 - 12 Häagen-Dazs ice cream bars : $7.00

The return policy on almost everything: None of my friends back  in India believed me when I told them that you can literally buy anything, including food, and return it within ninety days for a full refund even if you don't have a specific reason for doing so (most stores actually have a "Buyer's Remorse" category under Reason for Return options while returning the product).

The pervasiveness of fast food  and the sheer variety of products available: The typical supermarket has at least a hundred varieties of frozen pizza, 50 brands of trail mix, etc. I was just astounded by the different kinds of products available even at small gas station convenience stores. 

Soda being cheaper than bottled water: It makes no sense that carbonated and flavored water with HFCS are cheaper than regular water, but hey, that's just how it is.

The fact that there are full service rest stops with decent chain restaurants and big supermarkets every couple of miles on interstate highways  

Fruit and vegetable prices, as compared to fast food prices:

- Bag of grapes : $6.00
 - Box of strawberries : $5.00
 - 1 lb tomatoes : $3.00

 - McChicken : $1.00
 - [McDouble] : $1.00

Unlimited soda refills:

The first time (and one of the last times...) I visited McDonalds in 2007, the cashier gave me an empty cup when I ordered soda. The concept of virtually unlimited soda refills was alien to me, and I thought there was a catch to it, but apparently not. 

Slightly digressing, I've noticed that the typical fountain machine has a huge selection, including Pepsi, Pepsi Max, Sprite, Sprite Zero, Hi-C, Powerade, Lemonade, Raspberry Lemonade (and/or their coca-cola counterparts)... The list goes on. This may not seem like much, but it is actually a lot more compared to the 3-4 options (coca-cola, sprite, fanta, limca) that most Indian soda fountain  machines have. 

Serving Sizes: American serving sizes are HUGE! I've noticed that entree sizes are huge as well. I am by no means a small eater, but it usually takes me at least 1.5 meals to finish the entree. 

US Flag displayed everywhere: I was surprised to see that the US flag is displayed in schools, on rooftops of houses, etc. India has very strict rules governing the display and use of the national flag. Also, something that struck out to me was how it was completely normal to wear the US flag or a US flag-like pattern as a bikini. 

Over-commercialization of festivals: I'm not denying that festivals like Diwali and Eid aren't extremely commercialized in India, but America takes it to a whole new level.  Black Friday, Cyber Monday, etc., and an almost year-round sale of Christmas, Halloween, Easter, etc. items.

An almost-classless society: I've noticed that most Americans roughly have the same standard of living.  Everybody has access to ample food, everybody shops at the same supermarkets, malls, stores, etc. I've seen plumbers, construction workers and janitors driving their own sedans, which was quite difficult for me to digest at first since I came from a country where construction workers and plumbers lived hand to mouth. 

Also, (almost) all sections of society are roughly equal. You'll see service professionals owning iPhones, etc. as well. This may be wrong but part of it has to do with the fact that obtaining credit in this country is extremely easy. Anybody can buy anything, for the most part, except for something like a Maserati, obviously. As a result, most monetary possessions aren't really status symbols. I believe that the only status symbol in America is your job, and possibly your educational qualifications.

I completely disagree with "classless society". Your thoughts NT?
 
He's coming from India where there's the caste system so it's logical that America would seem classless. Sure there's significant inequality in america compared to other high income industrialized countries. However compared to some poorer countries and compared to the up and coming BRIC type nations america is a lot less divided on class lines.

It's good to see that he brought up America's higher education system. Despite affordability issues, the quality of postsecondary education isn't matched by any other country
 
As many problems as the US has, I would not rather live in any other country.

That being said we do need nationalized health care, the end of the drug war and the end of car dealerships.
 
i am indian and let me tell you, being indian is actually a great thing. we have beautiful people and we have ugly people. just like any race. I for 1 am a great person, have great friends, and i take care of every one that is in my life and i am glad to do it, and for that i have people that love me around me. also, indian parents are one of the best parents you can have. sometimes they can be really strict, but they will take care of you no matter what, and they will buy you what ever it is that you need. as long as your not a selfish ****head. Also, we all have great jobs, lots of money and a family that we all love and take care off
 
"Smoking is the same as smoking cigarettes.."

He must've met me somewhere..
 
i am indian and let me tell you, being indian is actually a great thing. we have beautiful people and we have ugly people. just like any race. I for 1 am a great person, have great friends, and i take care of every one that is in my life and i am glad to do it, and for that i have people that love me around me. also, indian parents are one of the best parents you can have. sometimes they can be really strict, but they will take care of you no matter what, and they will buy you what ever it is that you need. as long as your not a selfish ****head. Also, we all have great jobs, lots of money and a family that we all love and take care off

What does this have to do with this thread?
 
I don't need a personal shopper holding my clothes for me and I find Nordstrom to be one of the nicer department stores with really helpful employees.
 
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i am indian and let me tell you, being indian is actually a great thing. we have beautiful people and we have ugly people. just like any race. I for 1 am a great person, have great friends, and i take care of every one that is in my life and i am glad to do it, and for that i have people that love me around me. also, indian parents are one of the best parents you can have. sometimes they can be really strict, but they will take care of you no matter what, and they will buy you what ever it is that you need. as long as your not a selfish ****head. Also, we all have great jobs, lots of money and a family that we all love and take care off


:lol: I remember this from the other thread.
 
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He's coming from India where there's the caste system so it's logical that America would seem classless. Sure there's significant inequality in america compared to other high income industrialized countries. However compared to some poorer countries and compared to the up and coming BRIC type nations america is a lot less divided on class lines.

It's good to see that he brought up America's higher education system. Despite affordability issues, the quality of postsecondary education isn't matched by any other country

It's not like India still implements a Caste System, bro.

This is 2013, not 1613 :lol:
 
Girls are not very promiscuous >D












:rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

That part had me like :smh: Wanted to hit him with the Lee Corso, "Not so fast my friend"


Interesting though. I was in India earlier this year and I can see how our culture would be interesting coming from Mumbai. One thing I noticed over there was that men hold hands and touch each other more than you'd think appropriate, and its not considered the slightest bit odd. Call me naive but I also did not know they still had arranged marriages over there. Also, the McDonalds has vegetarian options.

That curry chicken at KFC tho :pimp:
 
It's not like India still implements a Caste System, bro.

This is 2013, not 1613 :lol:

Actually they do. I had an Indian coworker tell me that depending on where you are in the caste system your grades in school have to be higher to be considered equal. For example, if Caste X is higher in status than Caste Y, Caste member X has to get a 95 on a test to be considered and "A" whereas, Caste member Y may only need a 90 for an "A." Maybe the Indian guy here can expound on that if it needs more clarification.
 
Nobody talks about grades here.
Just like how much you make per year, no one really cares and you could run the risk of embarrassing someone. When your friend's parents pull him out of school because he had slightly above 1.0, it comes as a shock because no one said anything.
Everyone is highly private about their accomplishments and failures. Someone's performance in any field is their performance alone. This is different compared to India where people flaunt their riches and share their accomplishments with everybody else.
The latter part of this statement is especially true. As a West Indian, I see this a lot among my family members who flash their jewelry at every family occasion.
Girls are not very promiscuous, contrary to most Hollywood films
Don't think he spent many of his weekends out partying.
An almost-classless society
Has he done much traveling in the city he goes to school in? Not that I would recommend just wandering off, but in a metropolitan city like Pittsburgh, you can see the class disparity. Even more so in college towns based off of who uses public transportation and who doesn't.
Smoking weed is seen the same as smoking cigarettes.
No the hell its not
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. Some people are very casual about marijuana and drug use while others would never touch it.
US Flag displayed everywhere
Despite everything that may divide us, Americans are very proud people.
This may be wrong but part of it has to do with the fact that obtaining credit in this country is extremely easy.
Why so many people and the country itself is riddled with debt.
As a result, most monetary possessions aren't really status symbols. I believe that the only status symbol in America is your job, and possibly your educational qualifications.
Not exactly true. Jewelry and expensive cars can be viewed as status symbols. Depends on what your job is. Blue collar work isn't viewed in a positive light by some because you have to get your hands dirty which has historical connotation. Education is another that I don't see as a status symbol. Education is more attainable than anywhere else in the world.
 
Some of the points in here are not all that weird and can be said about most countries.
 
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Real talk it seems like over the years the more I learn about India the more I think India sucks.
I had a few indian friends in university and dudes were weird. They didnt understand north american way of life in so many ways, theres certainly a huge culture clash so im not surprised by this guys comments about women and food and stuff like that. 
 
i am indian and let me tell you, being indian is actually a great thing. we have beautiful people and we have ugly people. just like any race. I for 1 am a great person, have great friends, and i take care of every one that is in my life and i am glad to do it, and for that i have people that love me around me. also, indian parents are one of the best parents you can have. sometimes they can be really strict, but they will take care of you no matter what, and they will buy you what ever it is that you need. as long as your not a selfish ****head. Also, we all have great jobs, lots of money and a family that we all love and take care off

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I remember this from the other thread.
Man I was reading it like "I swear i've read this before"
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Why is this a thread?

Because people find his perspective interesting.




I thought i was going to read something highly informational. Instead, I got a bunch of pointless and obvious observations by an Indian virgin.


Then you're dumb. 

Please, only an uneducated person would find his perspective "interesting."

Almost everything he's saying should already be known if you're aware.
 
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