What would make a guy interested in a girl he was not initially interested in? Vol. Keepin' it rea

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by Nktran001

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

But she comes from what seems like a decent amount of money. What woman you know is gonna downgrade from that?

I actually know a few.

I actually know a LOT, I went to a school with students with very wealthy parents.......many women with REAL wealth do not seem to be as concerned with this as CERTAIN type of women.

How do you know what kinda money she comes from.....because she graduated law school and hangs out in pizza shops? Are you serious? Some people here have a false sense of "self-worth".

   Did they marry those people, though?

I never said my parents were rich, but we are comfortable.  I purposely wanted to be a lawyer so I could continue to live the comfortable lifestyle, so I don't need a man for that.  Why can't I just like the guy, because I like him.  All the other things he has going for him are extra.  As I'm sure he feels the same way, because when he started talking to me, all he knew was that I was a server.

Yes, yes they did. Certain women don't go for men with marriage into high status in the back of their head. Certain women need to step away from this mindstate if they're every going to get married. Marriage isn't a GAME to see how successful a man you can pull........certain women who are less open minded about their approach will be alone FOREVER.

 

[lesfamilia]

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

cuz she listed all that stuff about her dad...lol


people with real wealth generally run in circles with other people of real wealth also...of course money isn't gonna seem to be as big of a deal

I'm glad she has a friend in you, Mouse. 

From your interpretations of what she's trying to get across to us, I'm starting to see where her questions are coming from, but overall I don't think this whole thing warrants further discussion.

In the end Shanique, every guy thinks differently.  Maybe your friend looks more appealing or attractive to the guy in question than she did before, or maybe he was talking to another girl at the time he first came into contact with her.  Who knows?

 

[l silky johnston l]

[h2]Question: What would make a guy interested in a girl he was not initially interested in?[/h2]
Answer: $

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by Nktran001

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

But she comes from what seems like a decent amount of money. What woman you know is gonna downgrade from that?

I actually know a few.

I actually know a LOT, I went to a school with students with very wealthy parents.......many women with REAL wealth do not seem to be as concerned with this as CERTAIN type of women.

How do you know what kinda money she comes from.....because she graduated law school and hangs out in pizza shops? Are you serious? Some people here have a false sense of "self-worth".

   Did they marry those people, though?

I never said my parents were rich, but we are comfortable.  I purposely wanted to be a lawyer so I could continue to live the comfortable lifestyle, so I don't need a man for that.  Why can't I just like the guy, because I like him.  All the other things he has going for him are extra.  As I'm sure he feels the same way, because when he started talking to me, all he knew was that I was a server.

Yes, yes they did. Certain women don't go for men with marriage into high status in the back of their head. Certain women need to step away from this mindstate if they're every going to get married. Marriage isn't a GAME to see how successful a man you can pull........certain women who are less open minded about their approach will be alone FOREVER.

Well, if you must know, my last boyfriend was a male gold digger.  I did not go for him with "status" in the back of my head, but I think that's what he saw in me, well, that and money.  I paid for myself on the first date, but after that experience never again.  He'd never had a girlfriend but all of a sudden he just had to have me as a girlfriend.  He was excited about the vehicle my dad drove.  He was always talking about money, what kind of car he could have had had his parents not divorced or even if his dad had paid child support, how much money he was going to get from female members of his family before and after death, telling me to make S up so that my dad would give me more money.  He knew that I had my dad's debit and credit card, and he would urge me to use them to benefit him.  I already talked about how he signed me up for a cellphone plan behind my back.  At one time I had a bank account that did not have a debit card, so he would use his card when we went out.  Then I'd write him a check.  Oh, he was so giddy to get those checks.  It came to a point that whenever I got my bank statement, there would be one check for rent, and ALL the other checks were written to him!  I had to reevaluate what I was doing and why I had to pay for so much stuff!  I don't mind spending my own money, but I don't want to be taken advantage of either. 

He would tell me stories of how he would run scams on his mother.  He would call the porno hotline, run up a bill for hundreds of dollars and then tell her he was calling about video game codes.  Once she lost some jewelry, and when he found it she gave him some money.  So, this dummy started purposely hiding his mom's jewelry so that he would get paid when he miraculously "found" it.  He would be teling me this stuff, and I'd be sitting there like, "You could never have gotten away with that in my house.  Someone would have told on you!"  I guess that's what happens when you are an only child, and your mom lets you get away with everything, even terrorizing your little cousins.  He was someone I considered marrying, but in the end he was HORRIBLE!  I could never see myself in a lifelong relationship with someone like him.
  

 

[diego]

Originally Posted by KUPRELLI

SShanique mytmouse

 

 

[mytmouse76]

Why is he shaking his head at me?

 

[diego]

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Why is he shaking his head at me?

Why you cosigning this "chick"?
She may tell a good tale about all the land that her father owns, but why on earth would she work at a restaurant when she could be working on one of the many properties that he owns?

I dont even believe shorty is in law school. If she is, RIP to whatever fool she defends in a court of law.

 

[mytmouse76]

All I'm cosigning is the being attracted to sucess. I don't co-sign gold digging if that is what's she's doing. All I said was women notice that or the potential for it. Any one disagreeing would be lying.

I don't know why she doesn't wok for her dad. I never thought about it. That's why I couldn't be a NT detclective. I suck at putting the pieces together.

 

[frostythepoptart]

I need to make some wild e-persona apparently its still hot in the streets since '99

 

[renarene]

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

All I'm cosigning is the being attracted to sucess. I don't co-sign gold digging if that is what's she's doing. All I said was women notice that or the potential for it. Any one disagreeing would be lying.

I don't know if it's so much being "attracted" to success, it's more of an evelauation of potential if you are measuring him up as a long term mate.

If he's THAT guy aesthetically, personality wise, and is able to support himself and not a feeloader, I don't know if him being a "Balla"  would make any difference in how much any female is "attracted" to a dude. If it does then that is a gold digger trait.

 

[frostythepoptart]

why wouldn't u want someone with success? its a great added perk. the only problem when it becomes the focus of attention.

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Why is he shaking his head at me?

Why you cosigning this "chick"?
She may tell a good tale about all the land that her father owns, but why on earth would she work at a restaurant when she could be working on one of the many properties that he owns?

I dont even believe shorty is in law school. If she is, RIP to whatever fool she defends in a court of law.

What am I supposed to do, work in one of the houses as a maid?  That doesn't even make sense.  I don't even live in the area and the fact that I worked in a restaurant when I didn't even have to, should tell you that I am humble and not any kind of gold digger!  I didn't even go out on a date with Pauly D!  If I were a gold digger, I would have been like EFF my education, I want a ride in your Mercedes, boy!

I'm not in law school.  I finished already. I am traveling and looking for a job with all this free time.  I don't know what you have against me.

 

[sshanique]

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

All I'm cosigning is the being attracted to sucess. I don't co-sign gold digging if that is what's she's doing. All I said was women notice that or the potential for it. Any one disagreeing would be lying.

I don't know why she doesn't wok for her dad. I never thought about it. That's why I couldn't be a NT detclective. I suck at putting the pieces together.

It's just something he does on the side!  His real job is at Georgia Power.  Look it up.  He uses the rental property business so that he can have a tax write off because of the tax bracket he is in.  Like I said, practically his entire family has lived off of him, so I wouldn't expect he makes that much money from it.  Anyway, it takes him to explain it.  Diego trying to make it seem like I said he owns Trump Tower or something.  

  

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by AntonLaVey

Originally Posted by Nktran001

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

But she comes from what seems like a decent amount of money. What woman you know is gonna downgrade from that?

I actually know a few.

I actually know a LOT, I went to a school with students with very wealthy parents.......many women with REAL wealth do not seem to be as concerned with this as CERTAIN type of women.

How do you know what kinda money she comes from.....because she graduated law school and hangs out in pizza shops? Are you serious? Some people here have a false sense of "self-worth".

   Did they marry those people, though?

I never said my parents were rich, but we are comfortable.  I purposely wanted to be a lawyer so I could continue to live the comfortable lifestyle, so I don't need a man for that.  Why can't I just like the guy, because I like him.  All the other things he has going for him are extra.  As I'm sure he feels the same way, because when he started talking to me, all he knew was that I was a server.

Yes, yes they did. Certain women don't go for men with marriage into high status in the back of their head. Certain women need to step away from this mindstate if they're every going to get married. Marriage isn't a GAME to see how successful a man you can pull........certain women who are less open minded about their approach will be alone FOREVER.

Well, if you must know, my last boyfriend was a male gold digger.  I did not go for him with "status" in the back of my head, but I think that's what he saw in me, well, that and money.  I paid for myself on the first date, but after that experience never again.  He'd never had a girlfriend but all of a sudden he just had to have me as a girlfriend.  He was excited about the vehicle my dad drove.  He was always talking about money, what kind of car he could have had had his parents not divorced or even if his dad had paid child support, how much money he was going to get from female members of his family before and after death, telling me to make S up so that my dad would give me more money.  He knew that I had my dad's debit and credit card, and he would urge me to use them to benefit him.  I already talked about how he signed me up for a cellphone plan behind my back.  At one time I had a bank account that did not have a debit card, so he would use his card when we went out.  Then I'd write him a check.  Oh, he was so giddy to get those checks.  It came to a point that whenever I got my bank statement, there would be one check for rent, and ALL the other checks were written to him!  I had to reevaluate what I was doing and why I had to pay for so much stuff!  I don't mind spending my own money, but I don't want to be taken advantage of either. 

He would tell me stories of how he would run scams on his mother.  He would call the porno hotline, run up a bill for hundreds of dollars and then tell her he was calling about video game codes.  Once she lost some jewelry, and when he found it she gave him some money.  So, this dummy started purposely hiding his mom's jewelry so that he would get paid when he miraculously "found" it.  He would be teling me this stuff, and I'd be sitting there like, "You could never have gotten away with that in my house.  Someone would have told on you!"  I guess that's what happens when you are an only child, and your mom lets you get away with everything, even terrorizing your little cousins.  He was someone I considered marrying, but in the end he was HORRIBLE!  I could never see myself in a lifelong relationship with someone like him.
  

-YOU WANT A COOKIE?

It's the year 2010, pay for ya own damn self

-Put the shoes on the other foot, why should a guy consider marrying a girl who is obsessed with business ownership and cars? I'm not saying marry a bum who has 3 baby mama and play videogames all day. But there's nothing wrong with a man who may not make as much but works very hard and makes an honest living.

 

[diego]

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Why is he shaking his head at me?

Why you cosigning this "chick"?
She may tell a good tale about all the land that her father owns, but why on earth would she work at a restaurant when she could be working on one of the many properties that he owns?

I dont even believe shorty is in law school. If she is, RIP to whatever fool she defends in a court of law.

What am I supposed to do, work in one of the houses as a maid?  That doesn't even make sense.  I don't even live in the area and the fact that I worked in a restaurant when I didn't even have to, should tell you that I am humble and not any kind of gold digger!  I didn't even go out on a date with Pauly D!  If I were a gold digger, I would have been like EFF my education, I want a ride in your Mercedes, boy!

I'm not in law school.  I finished already. I am traveling and looking for a job with all this free time.  I don't know what you have against me.

You have yet to tell people what law school you went to.
Youre a troll. Everything about you is a lie.

You dont have the common sense or life experience to be a lawyer.

 

[shaze804]

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Why is he shaking his head at me?

Why you cosigning this "chick"?
She may tell a good tale about all the land that her father owns, but why on earth would she work at a restaurant when she could be working on one of the many properties that he owns?

I dont even believe shorty is in law school. If she is, RIP to whatever fool she defends in a court of law.

What am I supposed to do, work in one of the houses as a maid?  That doesn't even make sense.  I don't even live in the area and the fact that I worked in a restaurant when I didn't even have to, should tell you that I am humble and not any kind of gold digger!  I didn't even go out on a date with Pauly D!  If I were a gold digger, I would have been like EFF my education, I want a ride in your Mercedes, boy!

I'm not in law school.  I finished already. I am traveling and looking for a job with all this free time.  I don't know what you have against me.

You have yet to tell people what law school you went to.
Youre a troll. Everything about you is a lie.

You dont have the common sense or life experience to be a lawyer.

 

[capricorn1229]

I'm not in law school.  I finished already. I am traveling and looking for a job with all this free time.  I don't know what you have against me.
So when did you finish law school?

Originally Posted by SShanique

Okay, this is how it all went down. I walk for graduation in May. I'm not sure what we're supposed to wear but I presume a black dress. Anyway, my family is going to be there, and I plan to take them to eat afterward. Hopefully, I will have a job by then. I will either go to the restaurant where I worked or the Italian guy's restaurant. Either way, I need a dress! I searched online and found one. It's sold out, but I requested that they e-mail me when they get another P/S in. It's from the Kardashian line. Then after much thought, I pretty much decided this is not a graduation dress!!!  I think it would definitely say, "Trying too hard."


This weekend I found a cheap but cute dress, tried it on and liked it.  I bought it.  I also bought shoes to go with it.  This is the dress.  I don't think this is a graduation or after-graduation dress either.  Do y'all think this would be appropriate for the occassion?  Of course, I would be wearing a cap and gown during graduation.

Why would you be just now walking for graduation in May? Why would you go to the restaurant where you work for your graduation dinner?

If you have money why are into such cheap clothing? People of means are into quality. I mean everybody loves a deal but you are perpetrating like no other. Not to come off as superficial BUT like I said something in the milk ain't clean. I know people with money that are well traveled and they don't say half of the stuff that you say about yourself to paint a picture of who you are. Yeah they[these people of means] are at times elitist jerks but there are some things they don't say because it's the norm for them. That "you are humbled by working in a restaurant" will only go so far as a defense for why you aren't a gold-digger. Success is one of the most fleeting things ever in business. It's more of a trait that a person has of resilience.

These extra details that you are disclosing about your family and personal life are very unnecessary and making you much more transparent than you were before. You going to law school has no standing on your class/financial standing because there are a lot NON working lawyers out there right now.

If you have the money like you say you do OR your people do you wouldn't even be talking about it to be honest.

 

[shaze804]

Originally Posted by Capricorn1229

I'm not in law school.  I finished already. I am traveling and looking for a job with all this free time.  I don't know what you have against me.

So when did you finish law school?

Originally Posted by SShanique

Okay, this is how it all went down. I walk for graduation in May. I'm not sure what we're supposed to wear but I presume a black dress. Anyway, my family is going to be there, and I plan to take them to eat afterward. Hopefully, I will have a job by then. I will either go to the restaurant where I worked or the Italian guy's restaurant. Either way, I need a dress! I searched online and found one. It's sold out, but I requested that they e-mail me when they get another P/S in. It's from the Kardashian line. Then after much thought, I pretty much decided this is not a graduation dress!!!  I think it would definitely say, "Trying too hard."


This weekend I found a cheap but cute dress, tried it on and liked it.  I bought it.  I also bought shoes to go with it.  This is the dress.  I don't think this is a graduation or after-graduation dress either.  Do y'all think this would be appropriate for the occassion?  Of course, I would be wearing a cap and gown during graduation.

Why would you be just now walking for graduation in May? Why would you go to the restaurant where you work for your graduation dinner?

If you have money why are into such cheap clothing? People of means are into quality. I mean everybody loves a deal but you are perpetrating like no other. Not to come off as superficial BUT like I said something in the milk ain't clean. I know people with money that are well traveled and they don't say half of the stuff that you say about yourself to paint a picture of who you are. Yeah they[these people of means] are at times elitist jerks but there are some things they don't say because it's the norm for them. That "you are humbled by working in a restaurant" will only go so far as a defense for why you aren't a gold-digger. Success is one of the most fleeting things ever in business. It's more of a trait that a person has of resilience.

These extra details that you are disclosing about your family and personal life are very unnecessary and making you much more transparent than you were before. You going to law school has no standing on your class/financial standing because there are a lot NON working lawyers out there right now.

If you have the money like you say you do OR your people do you wouldn't even be talking about it to be honest.


...you were able to be taken advantage of by a guy with weak game? A own-mother-scamming-phone-porn guy. And you could see yourself marrying that guy? You probably came off as if you had more than what you actually do (like you do on here).  And karma got you. Hence your current overcompensation of finding a "successful" man or whatever.
That does not exhibit the level of common sense I would expect from anyone that's attended any school of law. You even went as far to post that situation...further damaging your facade. Your passport doesn't have any stamps. Traveling where? You do not sound worldly. 
Even Harvard law school students are not receiving job offers...I hope you get a job (if u are who u say u are) but until then you should refrain from trolling and spend more time on the hunt... 




http://tinyurl.com/yeeoc64

 

[me4u2night]

SShanique wrote:
Well, if you must know, my last boyfriend was a male gold digger.  I did not go for him with "status" in the back of my head, but I think that's what he saw in me, well, that and money.  I paid for myself on the first date, but after that experience never again.  He'd never had a girlfriend but all of a sudden he just had to have me as a girlfriend.  He was excited about the vehicle my dad drove.  He was always talking about money, what kind of car he could have had had his parents not divorced or even if his dad had paid child support, how much money he was going to get from female members of his family before and after death, telling me to make S up so that my dad would give me more money.  He knew that I had my dad's debit and credit card, and he would urge me to use them to benefit him.  I already talked about how he signed me up for a cellphone plan behind my back.  At one time I had a bank account that did not have a debit card, so he would use his card when we went out.  Then I'd write him a check.  Oh, he was so giddy to get those checks.  It came to a point that whenever I got my bank statement, there would be one check for rent, and ALL the other checks were written to him!  I had to reevaluate what I was doing and why I had to pay for so much stuff!  I don't mind spending my own money, but I don't want to be taken advantage of either. 

He would tell me stories of how he would run scams on his mother.  He would call the porno hotline, run up a bill for hundreds of dollars and then tell her he was calling about video game codes.  Once she lost some jewelry, and when he found it she gave him some money.  So, this dummy started purposely hiding his mom's jewelry so that he would get paid when he miraculously "found" it.  He would be teling me this stuff, and I'd be sitting there like, "You could never have gotten away with that in my house.  Someone would have told on you!"  I guess that's what happens when you are an only child, and your mom lets you get away with everything, even terrorizing your little cousins.  He was someone I considered marrying, but in the end he was HORRIBLE!  I could never see myself in a lifelong relationship with someone like him.
  
Wait wait, hold up
Didn't you say you had one BF your entire life???

And when you first appeared on NT didn't you thread about getting back together with him???
If this was the simp then you definitely do not have a clue 

 

[calibeebee]

OP I'm sure you've heard this a thousand times but.....niketalk is not for you. please go back to the JJB

 

[mytmouse76]

I'll agree with Renea. My idea of a sucessfull guy isn't necessarily a "balla" tho mmaybe that's where some of the gold digging confusion came from.

 

[me4u2night]

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Why is he shaking his head at me?

Why you cosigning this "chick"?
She may tell a good tale about all the land that her father owns, but why on earth would she work at a restaurant when she could be working on one of the many properties that he owns?

I dont even believe shorty is in law school. If she is, RIP to whatever fool she defends in a court of law.

What am I supposed to do, work in one of the houses as a maid?  That doesn't even make sense.  I don't even live in the area and the fact that I worked in a restaurant when I didn't even have to, should tell you that I am humble and not any kind of gold digger!  I didn't even go out on a date with Pauly D!  If I were a gold digger, I would have been like EFF my education, I want a ride in your Mercedes, boy!

I'm not in law school.  I finished already. I am traveling and looking for a job with all this free time.  I don't know what you have against me.

You have yet to tell people what law school you went to.
Youre a troll. Everything about you is a lie.

You dont have the common sense or life experience to be a lawyer.

Yea I kinda want to see the the litigator experience you claim to have.
I'm not calling you a liar, but you're getting chewed up here and you're not doing a good job at defending yourself.

Something I'm curious about is how did you manage to graduate a semester early yet you're unable to secure a job?

If you graduated early, I would imagine you're at the top of the class and firms would have recruited you.

Just my two cents...

 

[ag 47]

Originally Posted by IMPORTKING

Originally Posted by SShanique

I know this girl who regularly posted mindless information about the guys in her life for several months to no avail. I'm wondering why she continues...

Me too.

 

[antonlavey]

Originally Posted by Me4u2Night

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by SShanique

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by mytmouse76

Why is he shaking his head at me?

Why you cosigning this "chick"?
She may tell a good tale about all the land that her father owns, but why on earth would she work at a restaurant when she could be working on one of the many properties that he owns?

I dont even believe shorty is in law school. If she is, RIP to whatever fool she defends in a court of law.

What am I supposed to do, work in one of the houses as a maid?  That doesn't even make sense. I don't even live in the area and the fact that I worked in a restaurant when I didn't even have to, should tell you that I am humble and not any kind of gold digger! I didn't even go out on a date with Pauly D! If I were a gold digger, I would have been like EFF my education, I want a ride in your Mercedes, boy!

I'm not in law school. I finished already. I am traveling and looking for a job with all this free time. I don't know what you have against me.

You have yet to tell people what law school you went to.
Youre a troll. Everything about you is a lie.

You dont have the common sense or life experience to be a lawyer.

Yea I kinda want to see the the litigator experience you claim to have.
I'm not calling you a liar, but you're getting chewed up here and you're not doing a good job at defending yourself.

Something I'm curious about is how did you manage to graduate a semester early yet you're unable to secure a job?

If you graduated early, I would imagine you're at the top of the class and firms would have recruited you.

Just my two cents...

 

[diego]

One more thing. You say you were working in a restaurant even though you didnt need to work while going to law school. You claim to have done it to stay "humble" since you come from a well to do family.

A real smart person who did not need to work would have spent that extra time doing some type of internship at a law firm, getting her feet wet. Not looking for Italian restaurant owners with tattoos on their arms, who in all reality would not give you the time of day.

Everytime you mention that he must like you cause he invited you to a party, it reminds of of that scene from 500 days of summer where the guy really thinks he has a shot based on a simple invitation.

SMH @ myself for remembering the garbage that this troll writes.