Maybe its because I wasnt smashing in high school and college like everyone else was but I find it much easier now that my career has taken off and I dont give two ***** about a *****. But I would have to be at least 40 before I even start talking to a girl approaching 30.
That "I now know what I want" ******** dont work with me. To me all that means is "the bad boys I was chasing in my teens and early 20s wouldnt settle with me because they can have any girl they want. Now that my looks are starting to fade I will have to settle for someone with a nice bank account to provide for me and my kids (sometimes from previous relationships)". ******* like that can keep stepping. Find themselves a nice beta provider and get a nice pension plan after the divorce. Never understood why NT called women with kids "damaged goods" until I started dealing with them myself.