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Goin through the same thing homie. I'm black dating a spanish girl and her parents really don't care for me. My family welcomes her withopen arms but her moms and MAINLY her pops just give me theOriginally Posted by OrenthalJames
I'll try to make this short
So I'm black, my girlfriend is Asian (Chinese), and her family HATES me. It's astonishing how ignorant these people are it really is shocking. First off I have NEVER done anything to tarnish my image, I am very respectful, I go to school, and I actually accomplish the goals I set out in my life. They think that I am some hoodlum that is corrupting their daughter just because I am black. Her dad says that I am using her and the relationship won't last...this is coming from a scumbag who had 2 children with his (ex)wife, and cheated her (F'in loser). Her father's mother would rather disown her than to see her be with me. Her OLDER sister (jealous B) thinks that I am forcing her to "rebel". Ok. Her sister who is 22, is so jealous of her sister is ridiculous everyone in the family knows it too. Her sisters track record compared to my girls is basically night and day. Her BF grows and sells drugs, I don't. She gets into trouble with the law, my girl has never been in trouble with police. She got an abortion, My girl isn't that irresponsible. In terms of who looks better ....well I am biased of course, but others have straight up told my girl that her sister got the short end of the stick in the looks department. And her mom, who NEVER sticks up for her daughter, believes that I am only temporary.
It's weird that people are stuck in primitive thinking. There is so much stuff that goes down on a daily basis that its impossible to illustrate it here on NT. Lets just say they have declared World War 3 and are on the brink of disowning their own seed (so despicable). Now on the flip-side, my family LOVES my girl. They would genuinely risk their lives to save my girl if need be. My girl decided to come out and stay with me and my family for a couple days for Xmas break, and NT I wish I could post some of the most hurtful words any FAMILY MEMBER could say to a person. It was insane the amount of backlash my girl took from her father and her sister. Really it was so horrible that I getevery time I think about it.
I'm 19 she is 18 and we have been together for about 5 months. I know we are crazy young but i can honestly say she is the greatest thing to ever happen to me. I was a pretty "bad" kid and she changed me for the better. She has been with me to help with the bad times and I have done the same for her. I would do anything for her, but I am afraid that if comes to a point where she has to choose either me or her family, I will have to break up with her. I know for a fact that she would choose me, and I would not be comfortable knowing that I ripped someone away from their family. Family is ALWAYS over anyone including the ones you love... no matter how ignorant they are.
ehhh I know get a blog. I just needed to vent a little. And trust me I have not properly explained the FULL story about her family or how horrible her family is.
I know there are a few black dudes on here going through the same crap as me.
Cliffnotes:
Asians have a problem with blacks
My girl and I love eachother.
Girl's family is a crew of lames
My family accepts with open arms
Her family is pushing us to the breaking point
No pics (don't even waste your time asking I will NOT be posting pics)
Christmas and New Years was dope though
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