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Also, y'all are taking some of the posts the wrong way.
Most people aren't saying she can't have some male "friends" if that's what you wanna call it.
And I put friends in quotations because friends can do anything together. So all you dudes saying you don't mind
are giving little, clearly harmless scenarios i.e. lunch date once a month, to the mall, etc.
But FRIENDS don't have stipulations on what they can do. You can go to the movies with a friend, just you and them, at night...no problem,
chill at their house watching tv, talk to them on the phone multiple times a week, even stay over at their house if you're out at the club one night or something
and you're too sloppy to get home....would you let your gf/wife do that with another male? anyone saying yes is laughable. so the moral is...sure she can have male acquaintances and dudes she cool with, but don't act like y'all would let her just have a Tasha and Tyrone day out where they just do everything under the sun and she doesn't come home until 2 from the club w/ him that night (like her and her female friends could do no problem)
Most people aren't saying she can't have some male "friends" if that's what you wanna call it.
And I put friends in quotations because friends can do anything together. So all you dudes saying you don't mind
are giving little, clearly harmless scenarios i.e. lunch date once a month, to the mall, etc.
But FRIENDS don't have stipulations on what they can do. You can go to the movies with a friend, just you and them, at night...no problem,
chill at their house watching tv, talk to them on the phone multiple times a week, even stay over at their house if you're out at the club one night or something
and you're too sloppy to get home....would you let your gf/wife do that with another male? anyone saying yes is laughable. so the moral is...sure she can have male acquaintances and dudes she cool with, but don't act like y'all would let her just have a Tasha and Tyrone day out where they just do everything under the sun and she doesn't come home until 2 from the club w/ him that night (like her and her female friends could do no problem)
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