If you do say something:
He will be immensley hurt and overreact about how "you all" can't accept him for who he is and the lifestyle that he can't help to live.Something like that is almost unforgiveable.
- exactly why alot of guys who come out the closet are selfish...if you dont agree with their life style you inconsiderate...well hell you shouldnt have beenfronting about who you were form the jump.
Just tell him to not bring his partner. That's not such an awful thing to ask even though it would be easy for him to interperate as a lack of support. Butif he is your brother he will hear and understand why.
That is the most unslefish thing to do...as a matter of fact he shouldnt have to be asked...should just understand its something he should do
What does the groom have to say?
yo...he my frat brother as well, and i talked to the groom and he all **!%#$ up and cant understand it...him and the gay dude were real tight...they ran tracktogether, and the fiance and the gay dude ex are sorority sisters. But the **!%#$ up part about it...i told Ant a long time ago i knew the cat was gay. Yet, ithink the whole coming out thing is he right...but he cant expect people to not have an opinion on it. I think the groom just feels like he been lied to, andthat fact he came out on facebook really makes it **!%#$ up in the grooms eyes...cause now it takes away from his special day.