[/Your Girl having Male friends\]

[capricorn1229]

I just wanna put out there how twitter/social networking has changed the whole "friend" game between men and woman. Your dude can now see your male friends who simp hard at work and can reference to you. You can't even try and disguise it or put your own interpretation on it. It's right there in the tweets or wall posts.

 

[bittersweet]

Originally Posted by Capricorn1229

I just wanna put out there how twitter/social networking has changed the whole "friend" game between men and woman. Your dude can now see your male friends who simp hard at work and can reference to you. You can't even try and disguise it or put your own interpretation on it. It's right there in the tweets or wall posts.

Exactly.

 

[diego]

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

Originally Posted by tvanterpool

weekend girl did u mean mess up as in cheat on ur current bf and do u mean like if he is not checkin up on you your gonna mess up, please elaborate

Yeah, I was unfaithful. Seeing how much pain I caused him made me really put *%#! in perspective. I don't want to lose him and I'm so thankful he gave me a second chance or else I would have missed everything we have experienced in the past year. Sounds corny but he changed the game for me

Hes always going to hold that over your head, even if he never admits to it.
Trust that he will cheat on you, and in his mind he will justify his actions by your unfaithfulness.
This is true 98 percent of the time. As good as you may look (I seen that mass), I doubt youll be exempt from this.

 

[danzinreallife]

Damn

Let me put something out there then.

I'm studying in a specialised field, my classes generally have about 25 people in them. I'm the only girl. Y'all are saying if I had a dude he'd be all up in arms about this? I spend at least five days a week with just guys. *shrugs*

To all of you, would this be a problem if your girl did what I do?

 

[gucci mane]

^^^I wouldn't mind as long as they kept boundaries and she enforced them. However, if because she enjoys the attention it turns into flirting, texting all day etc, then we'd definitely have some problems.

 

[Soleserious]

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

Originally Posted by tvanterpool

weekend girl did u mean mess up as in cheat on ur current bf and do u mean like if he is not checkin up on you your gonna mess up, please elaborate

Yeah, I was unfaithful. Seeing how much pain I caused him made me really put *%#! in perspective. I don't want to lose him and I'm so thankful he gave me a second chance or else I would have missed everything we have experienced in the past year. Sounds corny but he changed the game for me

Hes always going to hold that over your head, even if he never admits to it.
Trust that he will cheat on you, and in his mind he will justify his actions by your unfaithfulness.
This is true 98 percent of the time. As good as you may look (I seen that mass), I doubt youll be exempt from this.

^^This = Truth, this is why i would never take a chick back if she cheated, because i feel if she cheated she wasnt happy with me and took the oppurtunity when it was presented to her to get what she wanted and it might be bringing thoughts in her head to wish to do it again, and the thought of another man being like yea i had that while she was with you would drive me nuts, cheat back on her with his girl or shoot somebody nuts. but hey weekend girl and her dude seems to have gotten over that hump so that good for them, but i will never accept hard card

 

[sreggie101]

Originally Posted by raptors29

Originally Posted by Ziostilon

Money87 wrote:

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cant really stop them from having friends, but i know the intent of the guys. I let any guy who i think is tryan make moves kno that if i here some !#$% im burryn him

y'all just scared they got a backup plan.  if you mess up, she has somebody to run to.

seriously, whats making moves?  chatting, hanging out, facebook interaction.  unless hes layin' hands on her, some of you really need to tone down the testosterone.  your mind is just playing tricks on you, fantasizing scenarios that could occur.

this isn't a battle.  you don't need to always be on alert and neutralize all potential threats.

i can understand if your relationship have just begun.  But if its in a steady state, theres really little need to always be on the lookout

What about if dude keeps texting her saying I wanted you so bad earlier today? 




money and ziostilon are both right in a sense. i can't hold my girl back from having friends even male. it wouldn't be right for her to feel she is in a controlling relationship. she doesn't have many friends at our college to begin with. but with her she is a guy's girl. idk why honestly. she says girls are too much drama (and that is damn true too

). but you look at her from a guys perspective, you see a cute girl is insanely approachable and a dude would instantly get the notion to try to get something more from her. and some dudes have tried in the past, so it really does get annoying.

ziostilon is right, sometimes the possiblity of something that can happen makes ur mind conjour up if's and maybe's. and in my case i have to work through that. but at the same time, a dude is a dude. a single guy who has a great friendship with a girl who is cute (especially a hot girl) is gonna consider taking the friendship further. im betting that this is true 99% of the time.

 

[Mark Antony]

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

Originally Posted by bittersweet

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

He hates me having/going out with my male friends because he's convinced everyone's intentions are to get at me. I limit contact with my male friends now though because I know it bothers him and him/his feelings are more important to me anyways.

This happens with attractive women. My guy is convinced everyone is trying to get at me too.

Originally Posted by trapmuzik617

 

[firenzek16]

lets be realistic here.. all guys want to do is smash 90% of the time. so you must be delusional if you let your girl hang out with guys..


ON THE OTHER HAND... I wouldnt mind my girlfriend hanging out with butthole surfers.

 

[dhart48]

wouldnt allow it or if i did i'd have to be around EVERYTIME she kicked it with them...its always the closest ones you gotta worry about. My ex boy of 5 years invited my girl to smoke, got her blown and then threw some compliments her way and proceeded to sleep with her...might i add only a week ago me and my lady were invited to be in his wedding. he had been with his girl for 4 years knocked her up then decided to marry her. a month after he found out she was preggers he made a random move on my girl(as stated above) him and his girl just got married yesterday, pretty sad because EVERYONE KNOWS he just told her that my girl and him made out, but she a waitress so she doesnt have insurance...what's a girl expecting, with no insurance to do???
So on top of going to school i gotta deal with my girl who swears it meant nothing, and my other best friends who still trying to be my friend and that other losers(which is beyond me) talk about drama

what my friends dont know though is im gonna drop them since they like to sit on the fence and can't choose a side, cant ride wit peeps like that, you dont stand for anything you'll fall for everything, if i ever do have a kid i couldnt raise them around people like that...it hurts but thats the breaks, elevate your style of living
(fyi i never did anything wrong to this guy,in general im a pretty cool person)

ladies you being naive if you think that every guys intentions aren't to get at you....gimme a break, im not like that, i still love my girl to death...but to say i'm not attracted to other mutual friends that are females is a very very big lie, in fact i dread the day i'm with them alone, since all we do(with my girl around or their man around) is smoke and drink....stop frontin

so unless you present, dont let your girl hang with any dudes

 

[so authentic]

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

Originally Posted by tvanterpool

weekend girl did u mean mess up as in cheat on ur current bf and do u mean like if he is not checkin up on you your gonna mess up, please elaborate

Yeah, I was unfaithful. Seeing how much pain I caused him made me really put *%#! in perspective. I don't want to lose him and I'm so thankful he gave me a second chance or else I would have missed everything we have experienced in the past year. Sounds corny but he changed the game for me

Hes always going to hold that over your head, even if he never admits to it.
Trust that he will cheat on you, and in his mind he will justify his actions by your unfaithfulness.
This is true 98 percent of the time. As good as you may look (I seen that mass), I doubt youll be exempt from this.

i can vouch for this personally.

 

[moneymike88]

Originally Posted by dhart48

wouldnt allow it or if i did i'd have to be around EVERYTIME she kicked it with them...its always the closest ones you gotta worry about. My ex boy of 5 years invited my girl to smoke, got her blown and then threw some compliments her way and proceeded to sleep with her...might i add only a week ago me and my lady were invited to be in his wedding. he had been with his girl for 4 years knocked her up then decided to marry her. a month after he found out she was preggers he made a random move on my girl(as stated above) him and his girl just got married yesterday, pretty sad because EVERYONE KNOWS he just told her that my girl and him made out, but she a waitress so she doesnt have insurance...what's a girl expecting, with no insurance to do???
So on top of going to school i gotta deal with my girl who swears it meant nothing, and my other best friends who still trying to be my friend and that other losers(which is beyond me) talk about drama

what my friends dont know though is im gonna drop them since they like to sit on the fence and can't choose a side, cant ride wit peeps like that, you dont stand for anything you'll fall for everything, if i ever do have a kid i couldnt raise them around people like that...it hurts but thats the breaks, elevate your style of living
(fyi i never did anything wrong to this guy,in general im a pretty cool person)

ladies you being naive if you think that every guys intentions aren't to get at you....gimme a break, im not like that, i still love my girl to death...but to say i'm not attracted to other mutual friends that are females is a very very big lie, in fact i dread the day i'm with them alone, since all we do(with my girl around or their man around) is smoke and drink....stop frontin

so unless you present, dont let your girl hang with any dudes

Your boy smashed, but shes still your girl? grow a spine and dump the broad son

 

[Deleted member 38307]

Originally Posted by Boys Noize

The way I feel is, if the girl is going to cheat on you, she'll do it regardless of what you do. So spare the extra effort and just play it cool. If shedoes cheat on you, she wasn't worth it from the beginning and nothing you could do would have prevented her from whoring herself out.

/Thread.

 

[dhart48]

Originally Posted by moneymike88

Originally Posted by dhart48

wouldnt allow it or if i did i'd have to be around EVERYTIME she kicked it with them...its always the closest ones you gotta worry about. My ex boy of 5 years invited my girl to smoke, got her blown and then threw some compliments her way and proceeded to sleep with her...might i add only a week ago me and my lady were invited to be in his wedding. he had been with his girl for 4 years knocked her up then decided to marry her. a month after he found out she was preggers he made a random move on my girl(as stated above) him and his girl just got married yesterday, pretty sad because EVERYONE KNOWS he just told her that my girl and him made out, but she a waitress so she doesnt have insurance...what's a girl expecting, with no insurance to do???
So on top of going to school i gotta deal with my girl who swears it meant nothing, and my other best friends who still trying to be my friend and that other losers(which is beyond me) talk about drama

what my friends dont know though is im gonna drop them since they like to sit on the fence and can't choose a side, cant ride wit peeps like that, you dont stand for anything you'll fall for everything, if i ever do have a kid i couldnt raise them around people like that...it hurts but thats the breaks, elevate your style of living
(fyi i never did anything wrong to this guy,in general im a pretty cool person)

ladies you being naive if you think that every guys intentions aren't to get at you....gimme a break, im not like that, i still love my girl to death...but to say i'm not attracted to other mutual friends that are females is a very very big lie, in fact i dread the day i'm with them alone, since all we do(with my girl around or their man around) is smoke and drink....stop frontin

so unless you present, dont let your girl hang with any dudes

Your boy smashed, but shes still your girl? grow a spine and dump the broad son

lol im gonna SON ive been wit her for 3 and half years, bank accounts phone bill tied together, im getting myself straight and stable before i do it
an eye for an eye

 

[ruxxx]

Originally Posted by moneymike88

Originally Posted by dhart48

wouldnt allow it or if i did i'd have to be around EVERYTIME she kicked it with them...its always the closest ones you gotta worry about. My ex boy of 5 years invited my girl to smoke, got her blown and then threw some compliments her way and proceeded to sleep with her...might i add only a week ago me and my lady were invited to be in his wedding. he had been with his girl for 4 years knocked her up then decided to marry her. a month after he found out she was preggers he made a random move on my girl(as stated above) him and his girl just got married yesterday, pretty sad because EVERYONE KNOWS he just told her that my girl and him made out, but she a waitress so she doesnt have insurance...what's a girl expecting, with no insurance to do???
So on top of going to school i gotta deal with my girl who swears it meant nothing, and my other best friends who still trying to be my friend and that other losers(which is beyond me) talk about drama

what my friends dont know though is im gonna drop them since they like to sit on the fence and can't choose a side, cant ride wit peeps like that, you dont stand for anything you'll fall for everything, if i ever do have a kid i couldnt raise them around people like that...it hurts but thats the breaks, elevate your style of living
(fyi i never did anything wrong to this guy,in general im a pretty cool person)

ladies you being naive if you think that every guys intentions aren't to get at you....gimme a break, im not like that, i still love my girl to death...but to say i'm not attracted to other mutual friends that are females is a very very big lie, in fact i dread the day i'm with them alone, since all we do(with my girl around or their man around) is smoke and drink....stop frontin

so unless you present, dont let your girl hang with any dudes

Your boy smashed, but shes still your girl? grow a spine and dump the broad son

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Constant topic here on NT, Steve Harvey speaks on it

 

[fulltech]

Originally Posted by tvanterpool

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

Originally Posted by bittersweet

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

He hates me having/going out with my male friends because he's convinced everyone's intentions are to get at me. I limit contact with my male friends now though because I know it bothers him and him/his feelings are more important to me anyways.

This happens with attractive women. My guy is convinced everyone is trying to get at me too.

 

 

 

[migit1209]

Originally Posted by FullTech

Originally Posted by tvanterpool

Originally Posted by mondaynightraw

Originally Posted by bittersweet

Originally Posted by Weekend Girl

He hates me having/going out with my male friends because he's convinced everyone's intentions are to get at me. I limit contact with my male friends now though because I know it bothers him and him/his feelings are more important to me anyways.

This happens with attractive women. My guy is convinced everyone is trying to get at me too.

 

 

DEAD

Pics or ducktales

 

[DCAllAfrican]

 

[shorty doo wop]

DC will not be outdone

 

[lil black jean jacket]

Bruhhhh, I miss those pyramid quotes lowkey

 

[6 Rings G.O.A.T.]

I think I remember this thread..

 

[DCAllAfrican]

Bruhhhh, I miss those pyramid quotes lowkey

No.

Those were the WORST .

Absolutely pointless.

 

[lil black jean jacket]

Didn't we have the pyramid quotes up until ezboard and yuku... I feel like every thread before late 07 is erased

 

[retailorbust]

wtf is this