Iirc you said the same thing about the SW. Someone oop'd you a pair in your size. Months later they restocked and you hit 3 pairs. The person that oop'd you the pair from the original release asked you to oop another buddy. You sold all 3 and blamed your wife. Just say you're greedy and only care about yourself. Just own it. Don't even bring it up that you want to help him if you're not going to do it.
If you say you're going to try to help someone and have the chance to do it, do it. Don't blame it on your wife. I get wanting to sell pairs for cash. I get it. But if you're always asking for help and tell others you'll help them and then don't when you have the chance, well that's ****ed up.
Not going back and forth, just wanted to get that out there. You can say all the **** you want about me, and that's fine. Just don't jerk
JPS
around. He's a solid dude and doesn't deserve that. If the roles were reversed, we know he'd help you out and there would be no excuses and no blaming it on a woman.