Are you MOM enough? Vol. I have the weirdest wood right now...

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That should be me sucking that
 
he seems to be pretty big for his age. maybe that extra nutrion is helping him grow. those of you that know you never been breast fed or wasnt breast fed past age one post your height and weight.
 
Originally Posted by youngdoc

Originally Posted by SIZE TENS

About the maturity level I expected.

Just to the stir the pot some more...she has an adopted black son she breastfed as well.

Let her do her. Breastfeeding is natural.

Granted, the kids is a bit older but how do all you "experts" know what is right/wrong?
Not an expert by any stretch but none of the pediatricians I worked with wanted mothers breastfeeding anywhere near that age. I can't cite any studies off the top but that was my n=1 experience
I'm not saying I'd want my wife to BF for that long but who am I or anyone else to judge.
After looking it up there are arguments for both sides.

Lets not forget it was not too long ago that Pediatricians were telling mothers to not breastfeed at all.
 
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that infants are breastfed exclusively for 6 months, and receive no milk substitutes till 12 months, and that mothers continue to breastfeed after that for as long as they enjoy it. The World Health Organization recommends that infants nurse, here and worldwide, for a minimum of two years.


Freak ##%+.
 
Originally Posted by GRyPR33

Originally Posted by Dropten

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Uh... the kid is three years old. 
So at what age would you consider sucking on a boob a sexual act then?

It might not be perverted, but different people feel differently about this kind of thing than you do. 

It's not on the cover of time magzine because it's cute... I'll tell you that much.


Its not "sucking on a boob". Its breast feeding. You just backed up my statement perv.

I don't think my eyes are deceiving me. I see a boy that is too old to be breastfeeding sucking on a boob.
Breastfeeding is meant to be a good head start on a child's development. After a certain point it's just weird.
Not only that, he is standing up sucking a boob. I mean standing!! Not being held or swaddled. Full on I can run to a boobie, suck and grab the remote and change the channel to Play with Me Sesame. 
 
Originally Posted by SIZE TENS

About the maturity level I expected.

Just to the stir the pot some more...she has an adopted black son she breastfed as well.

Let her do her. Breastfeeding is natural.

Granted, the kids is a bit older but how do all you "experts" know what is right/wrong?
How bout you go suck on your moms then
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Originally Posted by JordanXI45

The same people who think this is okay are probably the same people who would allow their child to suck their thumb until they "stop on their own". You guys don't understand that these type of things cause a type of "oral fixation" that will follow them for most of their lives. These kids will always want to be breast fed, because they are basically addicted to it. It DOES give the children AND mother a type of satisfaction. It might not be "sexual", but its a type of pleasure/relaxation regardless. They aren't doing it for nutrition.


I'm sorry, but
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Source?
 
you guys have got to be trolls.

yeah why don't you see if your mom has any milk left when you're 18 and your family can't afford to buy groceries or something.
 
Originally Posted by BallRN23

Originally Posted by JordanXI45

The same people who think this is okay are probably the same people who would allow their child to suck their thumb until they "stop on their own". You guys don't understand that these type of things cause a type of "oral fixation" that will follow them for most of their lives. These kids will always want to be breast fed, because they are basically addicted to it. It DOES give the children AND mother a type of satisfaction. It might not be "sexual", but its a type of pleasure/relaxation regardless. They aren't doing it for nutrition.


I'm sorry, but
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Source?

 
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 Are you serious? Nothing I said seems plausible to you? Do a little research yourself.
 
Originally Posted by Dropten

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by Dropten



Its not "sucking on a boob". Its breast feeding. You just backed up my statement perv.
You missed my point... 

"Sucking on a boob" is EXACTLY what you're doing though... at what age is the child going to realize that there are sexual tensions associated with sucking on a boob, whether you're breastfeeding or not. 

edit: and before you read to far into this thread, I don't think anyone here is outright saying that's disgusting. People are making note that this is NOT the norm for child raising. It doesn't make them pervs one bit. 

If anything, I would question the person that breastfeeds a child well into the 3.5-4 year old range as being "perverted".
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?

Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered. 
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
  
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic. 
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met. 

On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age. 

The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right. 
 
Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by Dropten

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

You missed my point... 

"Sucking on a boob" is EXACTLY what you're doing though... at what age is the child going to realize that there are sexual tensions associated with sucking on a boob, whether you're breastfeeding or not. 

edit: and before you read to far into this thread, I don't think anyone here is outright saying that's disgusting. People are making note that this is NOT the norm for child raising. It doesn't make them pervs one bit. 

If anything, I would question the person that breastfeeds a child well into the 3.5-4 year old range as being "perverted".
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?

Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered. 
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
  
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic. 
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met. 

On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age. 

The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right. 
Thank you. 
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 Someone else gets it.
 
Originally Posted by Dropten

Originally Posted by RunningFishy

Originally Posted by Dropten

According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?

Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered. 
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
  


Agreed to an extent.  Our bodies have nerves and a reaction.  If the mother continues to allow her son/daughter to keep sucking, then does her body continue to produce milk?  I'm not too sure if it does, but nature does and will allow the mother to return to her natural state, and I think this coincides with weening the kid.

But if the mother feels aroused by the act, then it's a sign that sexual tension and sexual innuendo is taking place.  NT is filled w/ guys, maybe some girl can chime in as to weather or not, her flood gates open when her son/daughter is being fed.  Does sexual orientation matter?
  
A mother will stop producing milk once its not being used. Some women will continue producing milk regardless, but for the most part milk will produce as long as shes feeding.

And what is this "sexual tension" people are talking about. You guys are straight horn dogs to think mothers get off from breastfeeding their children. Thats like getting off from giving your child a bath.
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Like I said. If you have sexual thoughts from breastfeeding. You a straight PERV. To me thats like getting off watching child birth 

A lot of people have weird fetishes.  But this is why there is a man and woman.  It's obviously weird if you are the OPPOSITE SEX.  You cannot control SEXUAL TENSION.  The RATIONALE aspect of our brains is what prevents us from incest and the such.

What if your SISTER WAS KATE UPTON, what if KATE UPTON LIVED w/ her DAD and had no MOM.  What if one day, KATE UPTON needed to show her DAD her boob because of a possible LUMP?  I bet the DAD would get some revs down there.  It's natural, which is why some things are better reserved for their own kind.

Would you personally talk to your DAUGHTER about WOMAN ANATOMY or have your WIFE DO IT?

COME ON MAN .. Not directed to you.
  
 
Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by Dropten

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

You missed my point... 

"Sucking on a boob" is EXACTLY what you're doing though... at what age is the child going to realize that there are sexual tensions associated with sucking on a boob, whether you're breastfeeding or not. 

edit: and before you read to far into this thread, I don't think anyone here is outright saying that's disgusting. People are making note that this is NOT the norm for child raising. It doesn't make them pervs one bit. 

If anything, I would question the person that breastfeeds a child well into the 3.5-4 year old range as being "perverted".
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?

Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered. 
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
  
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic. 
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met. 

On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age. 

The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right. 


NOT PROSTATE EXAM.

EVER GOT A MASSAGE from the OPPOSITE SEX in a PROFESSIONAL / NON PROFESSIONAL ENVIRONMENT?  I bet your wood would rise as well.  It's just a natural reaction.  The ONLY WAY TO PREVENT THIS is to get OLD and UGLY WOMAN to MASSAGE YOU, then it'll surpress the WOOD.  What if the MASSEUSSE WAS KATE UPTON and COVERED UP and she got her CERTIFICATION IN MASSAGE and was helping your legs and back and groin injury? 

HOW WOULD YOU CONTROL THE RISE in the LEVIS?  Would KATE UPTON CARE?
 
Originally Posted by RunningFishy

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by Dropten

According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?

Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered. 
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
  
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic. 
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met. 

On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age. 

The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right. 


NOT PROSTATE EXAM.

EVER GOT A MASSAGE from the OPPOSITE SEX in a PROFESSIONAL / NON PROFESSIONAL ENVIRONMENT?  I bet your wood would rise as well.  It's just a natural reaction.  The ONLY WAY TO PREVENT THIS is to get OLD and UGLY WOMAN to MASSAGE YOU, then it'll surpress the WOOD.  What if the MASSEUSSE WAS KATE UPTON and COVERED UP and she got her CERTIFICATION IN MASSAGE and was helping your legs and back and groin injury? 

HOW WOULD YOU CONTROL THE RISE in the LEVIS?  Would KATE UPTON CARE?
 
Originally Posted by RunningFishy


What if your SISTER WAS KATE UPTON, what if KATE UPTON LIVED w/ her DAD and had no MOM.  What if one day, KATE UPTON needed to show her DAD her boob because of a possible LUMP?  I bet the DAD would get some revs down there.  It's natural, which is why some things are better reserved for their own kind.
If she was your blood and everything was working properly upstairs, she wouldn't "KATE UPTON
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" She would be your sister/daughter Kate. Thats it. It wouldn't be any physical attraction there.
 
Originally Posted by RunningFishy

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by Dropten

According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?

Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered. 
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
  
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic. 
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met. 

On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age. 

The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right. 


NOT PROSTATE EXAM.

EVER GOT A MASSAGE from the OPPOSITE SEX in a PROFESSIONAL / NON PROFESSIONAL ENVIRONMENT?  I bet your wood would rise as well.  It's just a natural reaction.  The ONLY WAY TO PREVENT THIS is to get OLD and UGLY WOMAN to MASSAGE YOU, then it'll surpress the WOOD.  What if the MASSEUSSE WAS KATE UPTON and COVERED UP and she got her CERTIFICATION IN MASSAGE and was helping your legs and back and groin injury? 

HOW WOULD YOU CONTROL THE RISE in the LEVIS?  Would KATE UPTON CARE?
wth are you talking about....
 
RunningFishy - Please tell me your age. Because if you're under 18, everything you posted will make a whole lot more sense. Thx.
 
Originally Posted by Tr1ll

Originally Posted by RunningFishy


What if your SISTER WAS KATE UPTON, what if KATE UPTON LIVED w/ her DAD and had no MOM.  What if one day, KATE UPTON needed to show her DAD her boob because of a possible LUMP?  I bet the DAD would get some revs down there.  It's natural, which is why some things are better reserved for their own kind.
If she was your blood and everything was working properly upstairs, she wouldn't "KATE UPTON
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" She would be your sister/daughter Kate. Thats it. It wouldn't be any physical attraction there.

Go into the history books or google and read about incest and why things like that take place.  There is a sexual attraction between the opposite sex.  If humans were as PURE as you believe them to be, there would be no horrific stories by nature in the news!!  The reason why incest stopped was because of birth defects and human rationale.  Think about it.

Like I said, it might be okay giving your child a bath and seeing them naked, but at a certain age, I would not put myself or my child in such a situation that would make them uncomfortable.  Given my example, would Kate Upton actually expose your boob to her dad?  And what would the dad feel?  How would each of them feel?  The point I'm making is, there is a sexual attraction.

What if you fell in love w/ a girl that was your missing cousin?  You wouldn't deny the attraction until you knew it was your own kin. 

Again, THINK ABOUT IT.
 
Originally Posted by JordanXI45

Originally Posted by BallRN23

Originally Posted by JordanXI45

The same people who think this is okay are probably the same people who would allow their child to suck their thumb until they "stop on their own". You guys don't understand that these type of things cause a type of "oral fixation" that will follow them for most of their lives. These kids will always want to be breast fed, because they are basically addicted to it. It DOES give the children AND mother a type of satisfaction. It might not be "sexual", but its a type of pleasure/relaxation regardless. They aren't doing it for nutrition.


I'm sorry, but
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Source?

 
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 Are you serious? Nothing I said seems plausible to you? Do a little research yourself.
Oh, I see.  So the hunter gatherers that have done this for generations have these problems you discussed.  I see! 
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Who decides what age is best to stop BF?  And tell me, how in the hell would they "prove" the stuff you claimed would happen?

Or, is it just an issue of what isn't "normal" to you?  Seriously, if you have any sources enlighten me. 
 
Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

Originally Posted by Dropten

Originally Posted by K2theAblaM

You missed my point... 

"Sucking on a boob" is EXACTLY what you're doing though... at what age is the child going to realize that there are sexual tensions associated with sucking on a boob, whether you're breastfeeding or not. 

edit: and before you read to far into this thread, I don't think anyone here is outright saying that's disgusting. People are making note that this is NOT the norm for child raising. It doesn't make them pervs one bit. 

If anything, I would question the person that breastfeeds a child well into the 3.5-4 year old range as being "perverted".
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?

Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered. 
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
  
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic. 
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met. 

On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age. 

The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right. 
Sigmund Freud's Theory - Phallic Stage.
 
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