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I'm not saying I'd want my wife to BF for that long but who am I or anyone else to judge.Originally Posted by youngdoc
Not an expert by any stretch but none of the pediatricians I worked with wanted mothers breastfeeding anywhere near that age. I can't cite any studies off the top but that was my n=1 experienceOriginally Posted by SIZE TENS
About the maturity level I expected.
Just to the stir the pot some more...she has an adopted black son she breastfed as well.
Let her do her. Breastfeeding is natural.
Granted, the kids is a bit older but how do all you "experts" know what is right/wrong?
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that infants are breastfed exclusively for 6 months, and receive no milk substitutes till 12 months, and that mothers continue to breastfeed after that for as long as they enjoy it. The World Health Organization recommends that infants nurse, here and worldwide, for a minimum of two years.
Freak ##%+.
Not only that, he is standing up sucking a boob. I mean standing!! Not being held or swaddled. Full on I can run to a boobie, suck and grab the remote and change the channel to Play with Me Sesame.Originally Posted by GRyPR33
Originally Posted by Dropten
Originally Posted by K2theAblaM
Uh... the kid is three years old.
So at what age would you consider sucking on a boob a sexual act then?
It might not be perverted, but different people feel differently about this kind of thing than you do.
It's not on the cover of time magzine because it's cute... I'll tell you that much.
Its not "sucking on a boob". Its breast feeding. You just backed up my statement perv.
I don't think my eyes are deceiving me. I see a boy that is too old to be breastfeeding sucking on a boob.
Breastfeeding is meant to be a good head start on a child's development. After a certain point it's just weird.
How bout you go suck on your moms thenOriginally Posted by SIZE TENS
About the maturity level I expected.
Just to the stir the pot some more...she has an adopted black son she breastfed as well.
Let her do her. Breastfeeding is natural.
Granted, the kids is a bit older but how do all you "experts" know what is right/wrong?
Originally Posted by JordanXI45
The same people who think this is okay are probably the same people who would allow their child to suck their thumb until they "stop on their own". You guys don't understand that these type of things cause a type of "oral fixation" that will follow them for most of their lives. These kids will always want to be breast fed, because they are basically addicted to it. It DOES give the children AND mother a type of satisfaction. It might not be "sexual", but its a type of pleasure/relaxation regardless. They aren't doing it for nutrition.
Originally Posted by BallRN23
Originally Posted by JordanXI45
The same people who think this is okay are probably the same people who would allow their child to suck their thumb until they "stop on their own". You guys don't understand that these type of things cause a type of "oral fixation" that will follow them for most of their lives. These kids will always want to be breast fed, because they are basically addicted to it. It DOES give the children AND mother a type of satisfaction. It might not be "sexual", but its a type of pleasure/relaxation regardless. They aren't doing it for nutrition.
I'm sorry, but
Source?
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic.Originally Posted by Dropten
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????Originally Posted by K2theAblaM
You missed my point...Originally Posted by Dropten
Its not "sucking on a boob". Its breast feeding. You just backed up my statement perv.
"Sucking on a boob" is EXACTLY what you're doing though... at what age is the child going to realize that there are sexual tensions associated with sucking on a boob, whether you're breastfeeding or not.
edit: and before you read to far into this thread, I don't think anyone here is outright saying that's disgusting. People are making note that this is NOT the norm for child raising. It doesn't make them pervs one bit.
If anything, I would question the person that breastfeeds a child well into the 3.5-4 year old range as being "perverted".
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?
Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered.
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
Thank you.Originally Posted by K2theAblaM
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic.Originally Posted by Dropten
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????Originally Posted by K2theAblaM
You missed my point...
"Sucking on a boob" is EXACTLY what you're doing though... at what age is the child going to realize that there are sexual tensions associated with sucking on a boob, whether you're breastfeeding or not.
edit: and before you read to far into this thread, I don't think anyone here is outright saying that's disgusting. People are making note that this is NOT the norm for child raising. It doesn't make them pervs one bit.
If anything, I would question the person that breastfeeds a child well into the 3.5-4 year old range as being "perverted".
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?
Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered.
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met.
On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age.
The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right.
Originally Posted by Dropten
A mother will stop producing milk once its not being used. Some women will continue producing milk regardless, but for the most part milk will produce as long as shes feeding.Originally Posted by RunningFishy
Originally Posted by Dropten
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?
Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered.
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
Agreed to an extent. Our bodies have nerves and a reaction. If the mother continues to allow her son/daughter to keep sucking, then does her body continue to produce milk? I'm not too sure if it does, but nature does and will allow the mother to return to her natural state, and I think this coincides with weening the kid.
But if the mother feels aroused by the act, then it's a sign that sexual tension and sexual innuendo is taking place. NT is filled w/ guys, maybe some girl can chime in as to weather or not, her flood gates open when her son/daughter is being fed. Does sexual orientation matter?
And what is this "sexual tension" people are talking about. You guys are straight horn dogs to think mothers get off from breastfeeding their children. Thats like getting off from giving your child a bath.
Like I said. If you have sexual thoughts from breastfeeding. You a straight PERV. To me thats like getting off watching child birth
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Originally Posted by K2theAblaM
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic.Originally Posted by Dropten
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????Originally Posted by K2theAblaM
You missed my point...
"Sucking on a boob" is EXACTLY what you're doing though... at what age is the child going to realize that there are sexual tensions associated with sucking on a boob, whether you're breastfeeding or not.
edit: and before you read to far into this thread, I don't think anyone here is outright saying that's disgusting. People are making note that this is NOT the norm for child raising. It doesn't make them pervs one bit.
If anything, I would question the person that breastfeeds a child well into the 3.5-4 year old range as being "perverted".
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?
Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered.
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met.
On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age.
The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right.
Originally Posted by RunningFishy
Originally Posted by K2theAblaM
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic.Originally Posted by Dropten
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?
Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered.
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met.
On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age.
The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right.
NOT PROSTATE EXAM.
EVER GOT A MASSAGE from the OPPOSITE SEX in a PROFESSIONAL / NON PROFESSIONAL ENVIRONMENT? I bet your wood would rise as well. It's just a natural reaction.The ONLY WAY TO PREVENT THIS is to get OLD and UGLY WOMAN to MASSAGE YOU, then it'll surpress the WOOD. What if the MASSEUSSE WAS KATE UPTON and COVERED UP and she got her CERTIFICATION IN MASSAGE and was helping your legs and back and groin injury?
HOW WOULD YOU CONTROL THE RISE in the LEVIS? Would KATE UPTON CARE?
If she was your blood and everything was working properly upstairs, she wouldn't "KATE UPTONOriginally Posted by RunningFishy
What if your SISTER WAS KATE UPTON, what if KATE UPTON LIVED w/ her DAD and had no MOM. What if one day, KATE UPTON needed to show her DAD her boob because of a possible LUMP? I bet the DAD would get some revs down there. It's natural, which is why some things are better reserved for their own kind.
wth are you talking about....Originally Posted by RunningFishy
Originally Posted by K2theAblaM
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic.Originally Posted by Dropten
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?
Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered.
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met.
On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age.
The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right.
NOT PROSTATE EXAM.
EVER GOT A MASSAGE from the OPPOSITE SEX in a PROFESSIONAL / NON PROFESSIONAL ENVIRONMENT? I bet your wood would rise as well. It's just a natural reaction. The ONLY WAY TO PREVENT THIS is to get OLD and UGLY WOMAN to MASSAGE YOU, then it'll surpress the WOOD. What if the MASSEUSSE WAS KATE UPTON and COVERED UP and she got her CERTIFICATION IN MASSAGE and was helping your legs and back and groin injury?
HOW WOULD YOU CONTROL THE RISE in the LEVIS? Would KATE UPTON CARE?
Originally Posted by Tr1ll
If she was your blood and everything was working properly upstairs, she wouldn't "KATE UPTONOriginally Posted by RunningFishy
What if your SISTER WAS KATE UPTON, what if KATE UPTON LIVED w/ her DAD and had no MOM. What if one day, KATE UPTON needed to show her DAD her boob because of a possible LUMP? I bet the DAD would get some revs down there. It's natural, which is why some things are better reserved for their own kind.
" She would be your sister/daughter Kate. Thats it. It wouldn't be any physical attraction there.
Oh, I see. So the hunter gatherers that have done this for generations have these problems you discussed. I see!Originally Posted by JordanXI45
Originally Posted by BallRN23
Originally Posted by JordanXI45
The same people who think this is okay are probably the same people who would allow their child to suck their thumb until they "stop on their own". You guys don't understand that these type of things cause a type of "oral fixation" that will follow them for most of their lives. These kids will always want to be breast fed, because they are basically addicted to it. It DOES give the children AND mother a type of satisfaction. It might not be "sexual", but its a type of pleasure/relaxation regardless. They aren't doing it for nutrition.
I'm sorry, but
Source?
Are you serious? Nothing I said seems plausible to you? Do a little research yourself.
Sigmund Freud's Theory - Phallic Stage.Originally Posted by K2theAblaM
This is a great analogy, and I'll point out the flaw in your logic.Originally Posted by Dropten
According to your logic, If im to have a prostate exam, the doctor would be "fingering my butt"?????Originally Posted by K2theAblaM
You missed my point...
"Sucking on a boob" is EXACTLY what you're doing though... at what age is the child going to realize that there are sexual tensions associated with sucking on a boob, whether you're breastfeeding or not.
edit: and before you read to far into this thread, I don't think anyone here is outright saying that's disgusting. People are making note that this is NOT the norm for child raising. It doesn't make them pervs one bit.
If anything, I would question the person that breastfeeds a child well into the 3.5-4 year old range as being "perverted".
Or am I just getting a prostate exam?
Theres nothing sexual about breastfeeding unless you make it sexual. And if you make it sexual then your a perv.
Saying breastfeeding is getting your boob sucked is the same as saying a prostate exam is getting your butt fingered.
Grow up son. Get your mind out the gutter.
We get prostate exams because it's the BEST option for us available at the moment. Yes, it's EXACLY like the doctor "fingering my butt" but it serves a need that would not otherwise be met.
On the other hand, You CANNOT tell me that his mom's milk is the only viable source of nutrition at that age.
The one thing that NTers in this thread are ambiguously called into question is the fact that there's a PSYCHOLOGICAL dependency on either the mom or the boy to breastfeed at that age, not a PHYSICAL one like prostate check up. I'm no expert on either matter but from an outsiders perspective, (a normal, rational one at that) it just doesn't seem right.