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lol, im not in the that industry, tell them to do it. in the mean time, they should try looking for a new job, instead of complaining bout tips.Get started on that crusade then, fam. Until they get paid full wages, tip your server or eat at McDonalds.
No it's not. He gets paid a full wage. Servers in restaurants do not. I'm not saying you have to leave them a 50% tip, but if you can't afford at least 15% tip, then stay home and cook up a Totino's pizza with your hard earned, miserly wages.
Just my two cents,
People don't choose waiting jobs because they are stupid or incapable of finding a better paying jobs, they choose it because they actually pay pretty good if people do what they are supposed to do and tip them. Tips are good money for waiters.
People in here with the mindset that tipping is not a social norm, something optional that you shouldn't have to do if you don't want are thinking about it all wrong or were taught wrong. You tip, thats what you do, it's not a personal preference. It's like holding the door for someone behind you or opening the door for the elderly. Yeah, you don't have to do it if you don't want but why be an a-hole? Sounding like a five year old with all that "I shouldn't have to if I don't want to or no one is gonna make me" nonsense. Act like an adult.
That said, some people really can't afford to tip good or tip at all. That $2 some suburban high school waiter looks down on might really mean something to a single mother of 3 who wants to go out to dinner on occasion. Lot of people don't really know what it's like to HAVE TO stretch some measly dollar bills. Considering whites are generally more well off than blacks in this country, it shouldn't be a surprise. Some of yall waiters might got it 10x better than the folks you look down for no/low tipping.
For the record I tip 15%-20% regardless. When I was an unemployed kid I may have left a dollar or two or less if I was broke. Now days if the bill is $31 and all I have is 2 $20's I'll just leave it and go unless the service was absolutely horrible. I'm black/white if it matters.
Just my two cents,
People don't choose waiting jobs because they are stupid or incapable of finding a better paying jobs, they choose it because they actually pay pretty good if people do what they are supposed to do and tip them. Tips are good money for waiters.
People in here with the mindset that tipping is not a social norm, something optional that you shouldn't have to do if you don't want are thinking about it all wrong or were taught wrong. You tip, thats what you do, it's not a personal preference. It's like holding the door for someone behind you or opening the door for the elderly. Yeah, you don't have to do it if you don't want but why be an a-hole? Sounding like a five year old with all that "I shouldn't have to if I don't want to or no one is gonna make me" nonsense. Act like an adult.
That said, some people really can't afford to tip good or tip at all. That $2 some suburban high school waiter looks down on might really mean something to a single mother of 3 who wants to go out to dinner on occasion. Lot of people don't really know what it's like to HAVE TO stretch some measly dollar bills. Considering whites are generally more well off than blacks in this country, it shouldn't be a surprise. Some of yall waiters might got it 10x better than the folks you look down for no/low tipping.
For the record I tip 15%-20% regardless. When I was an unemployed kid I may have left a dollar or two or less if I was broke. Now days if the bill is $31 and all I have is 2 $20's I'll just leave it and go unless the service was absolutely horrible. I'm black/white if it matters.
I'm sorry if I offended anyone with my South Park reference. I will now leave this thread.
I'm sorry if I offended anyone with my South Park reference. I will now leave this thread.
Didn't even watch past a minute and a half. This is what you get when you watch a "documentary from Thatswatsup entertainment.
But son, was that waitresses name PISTACHIO?
I'm sorry if I offended anyone with my South Park reference. I will now leave this thread.
I'm pretty sure your username is going to be leaving Niketalk as well pleighboi
That makes no sense.I'm sorry if I offended anyone with my South Park reference. I will now leave this thread.
Delete that post before you do.
That makes no sense.I'm sorry if I offended anyone with my South Park reference. I will now leave this thread.
Delete that post before you do.
People quoted it, so it will never be fully deleted from the interwebz.That makes no sense.I'm sorry if I offended anyone with my South Park reference. I will now leave this thread.
Delete that post before you do.
It doesn't make sense to delete that racist post you made that offended a ton of people in here?
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I have been a server for 10 years. I have two college degrees and still work as a server because I have yet to be offered a job that pays me as much as I make waiting tables. If you are good at it you can make great money. I make enough to pay my car note, do what I want, pay my bills, and support my sneaker habbit. I can tell you if a table is going to tip me before they even sit down. I know this is going to sound bad, but I used to hate to wait on certain black tables. Just like I used to hate to wait on rednecks.. And teenagers.. And groups of nurses... Now, I treat everyone the same because I don't care anymore. Usually, someone will make up for the bad tables. It is not stereotyping to say that black people usually do not tip as well. Like I said, I have ten years experience doing this. Also, I am not mad or bitter about it. I can say this as a 100% fact. When I was still in school for extra credit in a sociology class me and another friend who was also a server went listen to a professor present his doctorial thesis. He did it on the stereotype that blacks get poorer service because they do not tip. We completely tore up his whole argument. By the end he was so frustrated that he asked us to stop so he could finish. Mind you, he was asking for feedback as he was speaking. This also took place at a historically black institution. Like I said, I am not even mad. I treat everyone exactly the same when I wait on them. I have gotten many, many, many great tips from black tables. But, the problem with black tables is not that they don't tip. Like I said, there are several "groups" that are notorious to servers for not tipping. I am a heterosexual male, but I could care less to wait on a table of hot girls. They are not great tippers. But, the problem is that a lot of black tables come in with a chip on their shoulders. They come expecting things to be wrong and looking for things to complain about. It gets to the point that you cannot please them. I think that is more of a problem than the not tipping. Serving is a hard job, so coming in and just making someone's job harder than it already is is a problem.
Repped. This is a waiter I can respect.I have been a server for 10 years. I have two college degrees and still work as a server because I have yet to be offered a job that pays me as much as I make waiting tables. If you are good at it you can make great money. I make enough to pay my car note, do what I want, pay my bills, and support my sneaker habbit. I can tell you if a table is going to tip me before they even sit down. I know this is going to sound bad, but I used to hate to wait on certain black tables. Just like I used to hate to wait on rednecks.. And teenagers.. And groups of nurses... Now, I treat everyone the same because I don't care anymore. Usually, someone will make up for the bad tables. It is not stereotyping to say that black people usually do not tip as well. Like I said, I have ten years experience doing this. Also, I am not mad or bitter about it. I can say this as a 100% fact. When I was still in school for extra credit in a sociology class me and another friend who was also a server went listen to a professor present his doctorial thesis. He did it on the stereotype that blacks get poorer service because they do not tip. We completely tore up his whole argument. By the end he was so frustrated that he asked us to stop so he could finish. Mind you, he was asking for feedback as he was speaking. This also took place at a historically black institution. Like I said, I am not even mad. I treat everyone exactly the same when I wait on them. I have gotten many, many, many great tips from black tables. But, the problem with black tables is not that they don't tip. Like I said, there are several "groups" that are notorious to servers for not tipping. I am a heterosexual male, but I could care less to wait on a table of hot girls. They are not great tippers. But, the problem is that a lot of black tables come in with a chip on their shoulders. They come expecting things to be wrong and looking for things to complain about. It gets to the point that you cannot please them. I think that is more of a problem than the not tipping. Serving is a hard job, so coming in and just making someone's job harder than it already is is a problem.