Originally Posted by
CurbYourEnthusiasm
Originally Posted by BrOwNiN187
smh @ the sense of entitlement of some folks. how could you even look at yourself in the mirror asking for handouts. its not even a race thing, you're completely riding the self-entitlement angle as an individual.
if youre refering to my post about college admittance
heaven forbid black people feel entitled to a measly 6% enrollment rate, considering before 1960 they werent even allowed, by law, to go to many of these universities.
heaven forbid.
Originally Posted by RufioRufioRufio
LOL SO WHATS THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN SELF-ENTITLEMENT OF MINORITIES AND WHITE PRIVILEGE?
white privilege is a phenomena that has been prominent in american culture since its inception.
you dont have to believe me, besides countless studies and articles
a kid took pills that turned his skin black
he wanted to be black for a month, for a study
after about a week and a half, he stopped taking the pills and refused to go outside
he was on oprah and said
"as a white male, there is a level of respect automatically given to me.....i could tell that respect was completely gone when people saw my black skin. I can see that black people have to constantly prove they're worthy of that same respect afforded to me by default"
so like.......argue against it all you want.
its funny that many many many many other white people can admit to white privilege....but a certain population just cant bring themselves to admit it....its hilarious to me.
whereas this "self-entitlement" you speak of, comes from an oppressive system which "TRIED" to "counterbalance" this idea of "white privilege" with legislation REQUIRING the establishment to "help" black people i.e. welfare, etc.
so, one is a prominent function of an oppressive system put in place by those who directly benefit from it......which is so widespread EVERYONE who is white benefits from it, whether they want to admit it or not
and the other was an oppressive system put in place by those OTHER than those who directly benefit from it, in which they are harmed indirectly, evidenced by the 2 and 3 generations of welfare cases.
like i said, heaven forbid the one kid in the hood expects a minority scholarship considering his mother and grandmother have been on section 8 since the late 70s......a hood that was a product of the very same oppressive system that the original group benefited from.
like, nobody is blaming YOU, specifically...
but facts are facts.
honestly, the determining factor when it comes to white people, for me, is the acknowledgement of white privilege.
you can call that stereotypical, racist or whatever you want
but ive had very extensive interaction with white people.....
and that seems to be the deal breaker for me.
ill tell another story here
i was in a "hip hop in the classroom" workshop for my job.
the lecturer was talking about how children have to live two sorts of lives, what many scholarly works refer to as "dual existance" or "code switching"
where there is a behavior and language expected at home, and a completely different one expected at school
many teachers have no idea this exists, so they cant encourage kids to increase their "school behavior"
just to give teachers an understanding of some of the inappropriate behaviors of inner-city students, and to encourage certain behaviors
one teacher was completely dumbfounded.
she goes "i cant imagine why you would push students to change from who they truely are. ive never had to change how i speak, or how i act, just to conform to society. i think you lose a part of yourself when you're forced to do that"
in her own ignorant way, she eloqently made my argument.
as a white female, her social norms are AMERICAN CULTURES SOCIAL NORMS
why?
BECAUSE SOCIAL NORMS IN THE UNITED STATES ARE BASED ON THE EUROPEAN AMERICAN CONSTRUCT
ANYTHING DIFFERENT IS DEEMED LESSER OR WRONG
you dont have to switch how you talk, white woman, even though you may be just as grammatically incorrect in contrast to "the standard" language as a lil hood booger from harlem, HOWEVER, YOUR grammar mistakes are actually POPULAR CULTURE and AMERICAN CULTURE grammar mistakes...
whereas, if the kid from harlem comes into school, using language and behavior to identify with his culture, WHICH IS SUBVERSE TO AMERICAN, EUROPEAN CULTURE, he is deemed "wrong" or he "sounds stupid", etc.
that's just a tiny example using language.
now is that HER FAULT that her cultural norms just happen to be the AMERICAN norms?
no, its not her fault.
its the fault of the system put in place.
you all want us to ignore the fact that they were white ancestors, and that white americans directly benefited and still benefit today from the system that was put in place
sorry
i hope it does make you feel bad.
that's called white guilt
thats another thing i didnt make up on NT
go research that, too.