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You made the right choice, bro.
You might have felt that what you two shared was love but in reality it was neediness & attachment on your part.
Don't be scared of being alone either, dude.
Solitude is a BEAUTIFUL thing & you will learn the most about yourself during this time.
Cry, scream, grieve, do whatever you got to do to get over this break up. However, once you've purged all this weakness out of your system... make sure that there is no turning back.
No attachments.
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@ShoeGamer19
Been on the same boat my dude, I'm 21, & lasted with my hs girl 4 years, its been about 3 years that we broke up and I was miserable, depressed you name it, didn't think I'd ever get out of this funk, just last year I talked to her and she told me she was pregnant and she sounded really happy, and that's when I truly moved on. Five years is tough to let go and move on from, but like everyone else said, its for your own good man. Do you bro.
Been on the same boat my dude, I'm 21, & lasted with my hs girl 4 years, its been about 3 years that we broke up and I was miserable, depressed you name it, didn't think I'd ever get out of this funk, just last year I talked to her and she told me she was pregnant and she sounded really happy, and that's when I truly moved on. Five years is tough to let go and move on from, but like everyone else said, its for your own good man. Do you bro.
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MetalMario
formerly m4riol
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Party like you're Future. After Party like you're The Weeknd. End of story. kthxbye
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dude is Tap, Tapping, and Pulling for NT
She is. Wish her the best.
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Let me throw in my two cents.It's done
@ShoeGamer19 -- you are a sexy dude who doesn't base your well-being and value on another person. I was in your spot before, but I wholeheartedly believe that a guy has to go through heartbreak to become a man. You are lucky that she essentially gave you a reason: she cheated on you with 2 other dudes. Most people don't get that chance of being enlightened with the truth.
You will feel depressed and broken for some time, but the best part is coming soon. The new chapter in your life is starting now and the focus is all on YOU. Those hobbies that you forgot about when you were with your girl? Start them up again and go the extra mile and try new things. The best thing about heartbreak is becoming better and constantly improving. Hit the gym, try out that new restaurant, go to that concert, chill with the homies, meet some new birds, and chase $.
Your "best friend" is a sucker who's chosen temporary yambs over life-long brotherhood.
Everything in your life should be high-yield and add to your life, not take from it. These 2 plebes are wasting your time and making trouble for you. So you cut them off and let them take the L.
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Some real **** right there
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slighted
repped fam. Just saw thisMy actual friend I don't know if I can 100% cut him off yet..20+ year friendship and all that. But I'm def not hitting dude up for anything until he snaps out of it. If he ever does.
The girl I don't really care about. I can tell she resents the fact that I've been happy and having fun without her around. Chick is a drama queen & thirsty for attention. One of those insecure types that get salty & jealous when you're talking to/checking out a female that's not her even though yall aren't dating. Dudes simp for her waaaaay to hard and it's baffling.
Getting too old for this **** man
This winter weather got folks buggin
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Birds always try to find ways to ruin man fun. It's really strange and hilarious at the same time, almost an innate reaction in them. Even more, it kills them inside because we can be happy on our own without them. Word to Patrice O'Neal (RIP).@Slighted repped fam. Just saw this
My actual friend I don't know if I can 100% cut him off yet..20+ year friendship and all that. But I'm def not hitting dude up for anything until he snaps out of it. If he ever does.
The girl I don't really care about. I can tell she resents the fact that I've been happy and having fun without her around. Chick is a drama queen & thirsty for attention. One of those insecure types that get salty & jealous when you're talking to/checking out a female that's not her even though yall aren't dating. Dudes simp for her waaaaay to hard and it's baffling.
Getting too old for this **** manThis winter weather got folks buggin
I'm gonna safely assume that she low-key wants the @Mr DragonFly Jones D and she hates that a) she doesn't phase you at all and b) you don't pander to her like all these other suckers do. It's only a matter of time before your homie gets played.
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My actual friend I don't know if I can 100% cut him off yet..20+ year friendship and all that. But I'm def not hitting dude up for anything until he snaps out of it. If he ever does.
The girl I don't really care about. I can tell she resents the fact that I've been happy and having fun without her around. Chick is a drama queen & thirsty for attention. One of those insecure types that get salty & jealous when you're talking to/checking out a female that's not her even though yall aren't dating. Dudes simp for her waaaaay to hard and it's baffling.
Getting too old for this **** man
Sasha not that bad b...
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Wouldn't surprise me
But I'm good on that. And yeah it is a matter of time
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The only time when I'm petty is
When a pro black person tries to tell me that Jordan invest in the prison system. I usually ask where did they get this info from purposely because I know they don't have anything to even back this claim. They get hot as hell [emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji]
I hate when people try to share knowledgeable info that they are not even sure is even accurate to begin with
When a pro black person tries to tell me that Jordan invest in the prison system. I usually ask where did they get this info from purposely because I know they don't have anything to even back this claim. They get hot as hell [emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji][emoji]128514[/emoji]
I hate when people try to share knowledgeable info that they are not even sure is even accurate to begin with
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Micheal Jordan does invest in prisons though, just not Michael Jordan the basketball player.
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I'm drunk as **** and I need to drive home.
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Dont
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idk if this the right place but gotta vent for a sec
Its been 7 years today & I'm still not over/moving forward after the loss of my lil brother from suicide . To be honest it doesnt even seem like 7 years already. It took me the longest to realize that the world kept spinning after that. I've continued living life I guess (dated, had jobs, etc) but still it seems that I cant let go the circumstance & him not being here as my road dawg. I also realized that I have became distant & let alotta friends go. Haven't even visited his daughter as much as I need to. I guess my biggest fear is watching the memories fade as more time goes by.
I actually was cool today until I started seeing all these posts from my cousins about him , and then my mom called me around noon depressed. She has took it the hardest, from numerous health issues & two OD attempts herself. But I promised him I will take care of her. So I took her out for lunch, just the two of us ,but since then I been thinking about those words I heard that day. Honestly I don't even know how to exactly explain whats going on rn but its whatever.
Anyway Im good, but if anyone has friends/family that seem depressed please talk to them & try to encourage them to get help asap. I've seen a few threads here over the past year about depression/suicide & I know its no joke
Its been 7 years today & I'm still not over/moving forward after the loss of my lil brother from suicide . To be honest it doesnt even seem like 7 years already. It took me the longest to realize that the world kept spinning after that. I've continued living life I guess (dated, had jobs, etc) but still it seems that I cant let go the circumstance & him not being here as my road dawg. I also realized that I have became distant & let alotta friends go. Haven't even visited his daughter as much as I need to. I guess my biggest fear is watching the memories fade as more time goes by.
I actually was cool today until I started seeing all these posts from my cousins about him , and then my mom called me around noon depressed. She has took it the hardest, from numerous health issues & two OD attempts herself. But I promised him I will take care of her. So I took her out for lunch, just the two of us ,but since then I been thinking about those words I heard that day. Honestly I don't even know how to exactly explain whats going on rn but its whatever.
Anyway Im good, but if anyone has friends/family that seem depressed please talk to them & try to encourage them to get help asap. I've seen a few threads here over the past year about depression/suicide & I know its no joke
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^ This is highly coincidental as I've been depressed for a while now.
I've started pulling money from the bank (to leave behind for my brother/parents), finishing up writing letters to my family/homies, and cleaning up as much as possible (e.g. paying off CCs) for a smooth transition.
I've started pulling money from the bank (to leave behind for my brother/parents), finishing up writing letters to my family/homies, and cleaning up as much as possible (e.g. paying off CCs) for a smooth transition.
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None of that is gonna make that transition smooth man.
Imagine in your head your mother sitting down thinking about what went wrong the day after.
I used to think people committed suicide because the idea of heaven/hell or nothing at all was better than their current situation.
But i mean you have a family and they love you.
Thats a whole lot right there.
Alot to live for.
Imagine in your head your mother sitting down thinking about what went wrong the day after.
I used to think people committed suicide because the idea of heaven/hell or nothing at all was better than their current situation.
But i mean you have a family and they love you.
Thats a whole lot right there.
Alot to live for.
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slighted
Have you spoken with someone,anyone about this?I dont wanna say a million cliches but really you probably have a long life to live
Imo its nothing that bad that can make you just wanna give up, besides no matter what we believe in, we dont know whats on the other side.
al audi
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I'm talking about George W. Smith From city council, he ran in '93 Out in Oakland,
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I need to step back and think before I do ****.
