Confessions

[lvjordan238]

So you cared about her, so long as she gave you these 4 sessions? When she offered you this friendship option instead, did you ask for the difference out of your $5000?

Nah I started caring about her well being 7/9 once she told me all the stuff about being suicidal, poor, homeless, abused, raped in the industry, etc. She asked to move in 7/18. 7/20 she says she just wants a friend and she's gonna stop escorting, but still wants to give me the overnight I had booked. 7/28 she offers the 4 "free" sessions. If I were really an ******* I could have gotten the overnight and then kicked her out, but once she started lying to my face I just wanted my money back and her gone.

Also, since she had the 5k and you wanted to help her get a safe space, why didn't you tell her to take the money and go live a motel instead of living with you?

That's what I should have done after the first phone call 7/9. At that point I already had the November overnight booked and I should have just left it at that. Should have just talked her off the ledge and not gotten involved in trying to help her.

 

[tomdiginson]

Nah I started caring about her well being 7/9 once she told me all the stuff about being suicidal, poor, homeless, abused, raped in the industry, etc. She asked to move in 7/18. 7/20 she says she just wants a friend and she's gonna stop escorting, but still wants to give me the overnight I had booked. 7/28 she offers the 4 "free" sessions. If I were really an ******* I could have gotten the overnight and then kicked her out, but once she started lying to my face I just wanted my money back and her gone.



That's what I should have done after the first phone call 7/9. At that point I already had the November overnight booked and I should have just left it at that. Should have just talked her off the ledge and not gotten involved in trying to help her.

So if she were to provide you with the services, would that resolve the issue?

 

[Mark Antony]

Getting love bombed by a pro is next level.

 

[lvjordan238]

So if she were to provide you with the services, would that resolve the issue?

Now **** no! Wouldn't touch her now if she paid me. Soon as she threatened the cops after I called her lies out that option went out the window. Now all that's left is for me to move back to Vegas and try and leverage the truth against her to get my money back. Haven't seen her in person since 8/18 and don't ever plan to again.

 

[ogbobbyjohnson773]

So if she were to provide you with the services, would that resolve the issue?

 

[tomdiginson]

Now **** no! Wouldn't touch her now if she paid me. Soon as she threatened the cops after I called her lies out that option went out the window. Now all that's left is for me to move back to Vegas and try and leverage the truth against her to get my money back.

I think where you went wrong is, on one hand you wanted to save her and wanted the best for her, while on the other, you still wanted to have dirty porn star intercourse with her. Maybe she saw through your facade

 

[lvjordan238]

I think where you went wrong is, on one hand you wanted to save her and wanted the best for her, while on the other, you want to still have dirty adult star intercourse with her.

Yeah it was destined to fail at some point for sure because of the dynamic. If it hadn't been for the lies it just wouldn't have been so quick. Or if she actually treated me with the respect you'd treat a "friend".

Never even got the bolded though. Was vanilla as hell especially the 2 free sessions and as I mentioned the menu was not as advertised.

 

[witnesskb24]

Man’s is clearly still in love if he won’t even post a pic of her

Yikes

 

[ahat]

I'ma need to hear finessence opinion on this

 

[lvjordan238]

Man’s is clearly still in love if he won’t even post a pic of her

Yikes

Or I'm just trying to not end up in jail or physically threatened by her felon friends. I will tell ya'll who it is when I get the house sold. So check back in a month or so. She is dead to me, PERIOD. Last communication with her was her sending me 40 straight texts 8/28 ending with"When I die from the heat of sleeping in my car it'll be your fault","You tragic waste of ****ing life", "You need a tumor" . Her number and socials are blocked and will stay that way until I move.

 

[Mark Antony]

Thank you for your vulnerability and contribution. Do keep us updated, don't feel turned away by the responses.

 

[lvjordan238]

Thank you for your vulnerability and contribution. Do keep us updated, don't feel turned away by the responses.

Nah I'm good. I really need therapy, but this will do for now. I know how it comes off. And trust me I feel like a bigger idiot than anyone else even thinks I am.

 

[WipeMeDown23]

I never even got a kiss or was allowed to go down on her which is the main lie that blew things up.

Why would you wanna go down on a pro?
Boy you down bad forreal

 

[lvjordan238]

Why would you wanna go down on a pro?
Boy you down bad forreal

We were both tested and clean. Why wouldn't you want the full experience, especially when spending that much?

 

[dontsteponmyshoes]

Why would you wanna go down on a pro?
Boy you down bad forreal

I dont know why but out of all the craziness in this story, this stood out to me the most . I get it tho I guess if im paying for the yams i better get to taste them too

 

[ogbobbyjohnson773]

if im paying for the yams i better get to taste them too

 

[dontsteponmyshoes]

JS you dont get the extra sides just stick your fork in and stir em up a little bit

 

[Rootin4EverybodyBlack]

Mannnn. Look I ain’t even gonna make fun of you, cuz it sounds like you really going thru some **** out there. But please, PLEASE don’t ever think you developing some friendship, relationship, whatever with a pro and/or stripper. Get on Hinge, hit up the gym, Whole Foods, Target, whatever and find a decent chick.

She probably did you a favor not letting you go down on her would’ve ended up looking like

 

[tomdiginson]

Yeah it was destined to fail at some point for sure because of the dynamic. If it hadn't been for the lies it just wouldn't have been so quick. Or if she actually treated me with the respect you'd treat a "friend".

Never even got the bolded though. Was vanilla as hell especially the 2 free sessions and as I mentioned the menu was not as advertised.

I hope you learned your lesson, but something tells me you haven't.

 

[pdino]

Best way out of this situation is to post her contact info here so the savages can take her off your hands.

 

[frshstunna]

Now **** no! Wouldn't touch her now if she paid me. Soon as she threatened the cops after I called her lies out that option went out the window. Now all that's left is for me to move back to Vegas and try and leverage the truth against her to get my money back. Haven't seen her in person since 8/18 and don't ever plan to again.

Sounds like you don’t got the juice to get money back from a hooker/sex worker dawg …Leave all this bs alone Take the L as learning lesson and do better, digging any deeper with shorty just gon lead you to more hurt

 

[witnesskb24]

Why were you wanting to go down on an escort is my question?

 

[aepps20]

Now **** no! Wouldn't touch her now if she paid me. Soon as she threatened the cops after I called her lies out that option went out the window. Now all that's left is for me to move back to Vegas and try and leverage the truth against her to get my money back. Haven't seen her in person since 8/18 and don't ever plan to again.

 

[ahat]

Post the he@ux

 

[beh235]

I agree with tr1ll that there was a story before this story. I ain't even gonna laugh or judge because I don't know where lvjordan238 was as a person to even facilitate the decision. We all make mistakes and that's life. I will say he ****ed up by posting it on NT knowing damn well how the reaction would go lol. I truly hope you can fix the situation and leave that woman alone, and please learn from it so you won't be a mark for another one.