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So guys I'm really hurt right now. On late friday night some $%@# popped off between us. We were still kinda together and this crazy girl was beingextremely indecisive about what she wants in this relationship. The whole week prior to this has just been a mess between us. She's just being extremelyunlike herself, blatantly distancing herself from the relationship, flaking on me when she promises to meet and discuss things, ignoring calls/texts, blatantlygoing out and drinking when she knows I don't like when she does and she agreed to not go get drunk if she wants to be with me. All of these actions are SOunlike her and my dudes it leaves me
to see that the woman I fell in love with has changed so much. Before, she'd do anything to keep our relationship going, drop whatever she'sdoing if I needed her and vice versa.We were in love for 2 years. We broke up once before for a month, and when I asked why she's being so differentrecently she replies by saying "shes afraid that I'm going to leave her and hurt her again" even though she was the one pushing to get backtogether
.
So, on to friday night, we were texting mildly throughout the day and it stopped towards night time. I'll paste a email I sent to my boy the next day afterall the events: Ill change the names just for privacy purposes
***
So...it's finally done, like forever.
She calls me at like 230am, shes at some party. She sounds a little stupid, so the first thing I ask "Jane, did you drink?" her: No...
Me: Did you drink Jane....?
Her: no Nick
Me: well was there a reason you called me?
her: I just miss you and wanted to talk to you
Me: well if you wanna talk you can come over
Her: I can't...
Me: what the %$$+ do you mean you can't
Her: I just can't..i really can't
Me:Why the %$$+ can you not drive here if you call me and wanna see me at 230am.
Her: Fine, I'll come.
So she comes, she tells me when she's outside. Immediately when she pulls up and I walk up and open her door, it reaks like alc. So I say, %+@ you reak....She goes hahah No I don't. Then I smell her breath and she reaks. I say Jane, did you @@@@*%% drink tonight. She goes Yeah. I say wow, what the %$$+ hashappened to you. She goes, what do you mean. I say You've changed, You're not the girl I fell in love with anymore. You can just lie straight to myface.
Then she gets a text message. Her hand is covering half the screen so all I see if dude's first name. Jordan. Didn't see the last name. So I ask, heywho is that.
Her: My friend , Alex.
Me: Jane %+@? who is that.
Her: Its Alex.
Me: Lemme see it.
Her: Really Nick? Youre not my @@@@*%% dad.
Me: Who the %$$+ is that.
Her: Alex!
So I know she's blatantly lying, so I snatch her phone from the its chord, and shes flipping out "OMG gimme back my @@@@*%% phone, you're beingpsycho" crawling all over me to try to not let me see.
I hold her off and flip into her messages. Who do I see. Jordan Gonzales or something . Idk who the %$$+ this dude is, nor do I care. Im not mad at him. Soshes still flipping out on me and Im holding her back as I scroll through what they were talking about. First text I see from her to him "somethingsomething, baby
"
Him: Aw baby, do you need a ride home?
Right when I saw that I throw her phone across the car onto her side's door I get out and start yelling at her "How the %$$+ could you do this to me.How the %$$+ COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME, YOU @@@@*%% LIAR." Now she starts trying to play it off like I hurt her when I snatched the phone. Her: Ow you hurtme!
Complete @@@@*%% +#$#@$#+, shes just trying to hang on to anything for dear life. So I get outta the @@@@*%% car. and walk around. Shes bawling her eyes out inguilt. I go over to her side of the car and open the door in sadness keep saying how the %$$+ could you do this to me.
She goes: Get away from me you hurt me!
I slam the door and storm inside
10 minutes later I get a text from her : You're the biggest @@@@*%% a-hole on this planet
I answer: And to think I bought you that stupid @@@@*%% bangle you wanted.(I bought her this braclet she wanted online, some nelson mandella $%@# I thoughtI'd surprise her with) I cant believe how many times Id defend you to my friends and family. How could I be this blind.
her: %$$+ you. u %##%$$ hit me.
Me: Keep letting yourself believe that. Please, leave me alone forever.
Her: Ur @@@@*%% horrible. U let me bawl my eyes out because u hit me. Ur psycho.
I seriously think this crazy %!$$% is gonna try to get back at me by claiming I chris browned her. Thats so ridiucclous. She @@@@*%% goes to the extremes foreverything to keep me and hurt me. I just want her out of my @@@@*%% life, and to move on and grow from her. She made me depreciate in so many aspects of life.
****
So yeah guys, I'm hurt like hell and shes stabbed me in the back. She's told me she loves me at least 50 times in the last week, but actions speakextremely louder than words. And now, I'm so heart broken, but writing this has helped me feel a little better. I miss her alot, but I realize I miss thegirl she was. Word to song cry, she's gone
. I feel a hugeemptiness in me and unbearable pain. I defriended her on facebook , and a few of my friends have said she's been uploading pics to blatantly try to piss meoff, like having pics being all drunk at parties and kissing dudes on the cheek
. I really don't see how I'll ever get over her, we were so attached, we were damn near married. If any of you guys have gone throughsomething similar, how long did it take to subside, and where did you get your strength from because I'm melting down guys...
Thanks
So, on to friday night, we were texting mildly throughout the day and it stopped towards night time. I'll paste a email I sent to my boy the next day afterall the events: Ill change the names just for privacy purposes
***
So...it's finally done, like forever.
She calls me at like 230am, shes at some party. She sounds a little stupid, so the first thing I ask "Jane, did you drink?" her: No...
Me: Did you drink Jane....?
Her: no Nick
Me: well was there a reason you called me?
her: I just miss you and wanted to talk to you
Me: well if you wanna talk you can come over
Her: I can't...
Me: what the %$$+ do you mean you can't
Her: I just can't..i really can't
Me:Why the %$$+ can you not drive here if you call me and wanna see me at 230am.
Her: Fine, I'll come.
So she comes, she tells me when she's outside. Immediately when she pulls up and I walk up and open her door, it reaks like alc. So I say, %+@ you reak....She goes hahah No I don't. Then I smell her breath and she reaks. I say Jane, did you @@@@*%% drink tonight. She goes Yeah. I say wow, what the %$$+ hashappened to you. She goes, what do you mean. I say You've changed, You're not the girl I fell in love with anymore. You can just lie straight to myface.
Then she gets a text message. Her hand is covering half the screen so all I see if dude's first name. Jordan. Didn't see the last name. So I ask, heywho is that.
Her: My friend , Alex.
Me: Jane %+@? who is that.
Her: Its Alex.
Me: Lemme see it.
Her: Really Nick? Youre not my @@@@*%% dad.
Me: Who the %$$+ is that.
Her: Alex!
So I know she's blatantly lying, so I snatch her phone from the its chord, and shes flipping out "OMG gimme back my @@@@*%% phone, you're beingpsycho" crawling all over me to try to not let me see.
I hold her off and flip into her messages. Who do I see. Jordan Gonzales or something . Idk who the %$$+ this dude is, nor do I care. Im not mad at him. Soshes still flipping out on me and Im holding her back as I scroll through what they were talking about. First text I see from her to him "somethingsomething, baby
Him: Aw baby, do you need a ride home?
Right when I saw that I throw her phone across the car onto her side's door I get out and start yelling at her "How the %$$+ could you do this to me.How the %$$+ COULD YOU DO THIS TO ME, YOU @@@@*%% LIAR." Now she starts trying to play it off like I hurt her when I snatched the phone. Her: Ow you hurtme!
Complete @@@@*%% +#$#@$#+, shes just trying to hang on to anything for dear life. So I get outta the @@@@*%% car. and walk around. Shes bawling her eyes out inguilt. I go over to her side of the car and open the door in sadness keep saying how the %$$+ could you do this to me.
She goes: Get away from me you hurt me!
I slam the door and storm inside
10 minutes later I get a text from her : You're the biggest @@@@*%% a-hole on this planet
I answer: And to think I bought you that stupid @@@@*%% bangle you wanted.(I bought her this braclet she wanted online, some nelson mandella $%@# I thoughtI'd surprise her with) I cant believe how many times Id defend you to my friends and family. How could I be this blind.
her: %$$+ you. u %##%$$ hit me.
Me: Keep letting yourself believe that. Please, leave me alone forever.
Her: Ur @@@@*%% horrible. U let me bawl my eyes out because u hit me. Ur psycho.
I seriously think this crazy %!$$% is gonna try to get back at me by claiming I chris browned her. Thats so ridiucclous. She @@@@*%% goes to the extremes foreverything to keep me and hurt me. I just want her out of my @@@@*%% life, and to move on and grow from her. She made me depreciate in so many aspects of life.
****
So yeah guys, I'm hurt like hell and shes stabbed me in the back. She's told me she loves me at least 50 times in the last week, but actions speakextremely louder than words. And now, I'm so heart broken, but writing this has helped me feel a little better. I miss her alot, but I realize I miss thegirl she was. Word to song cry, she's gone
Thanks