So many opinions and stereotypes being thrown around as fact in here. Gotta love NT, where dudes in their early 20's are able to dissect, understand and define the inner workings and intricacies of this thing called life and human nature. And not just for themselves--for everyone!
i could give you facts...
single mother fact one.... 3 outta 5 single mothers who had a child before the age of 18...1. dont have formal education/graduate highschool
2 outta 5 have another kid by another father before the age of 25
82% had kids out of wedlock...and has never been married.
74% had their first sexual encounter before the age of 15...
69% were raised in a single parent home themselves...(basically a product of young mother not wed, multiple baby daddies aka generational curse.
SO Somewhere around close to 30% (not even 30%) who dont have multiple kids by multiple men before the age of 25, are women who were married and/or long term relationship...wasnt out having sex on a regular basis at like 13/14... finished highschool, have some sort of post secondary education...and a steady job.
Thats a very small number..considering other factors...such as do you find her attractive, do you like her personaility, does she have mental pyschological problems/unresolved issues...etc that any person may have...regardless of having a kid etc...
So why would a well off well to do man, fish thru a line of women, which at best 3 outta 10 might be suitable for dating...although realistically maybe 1 possibly 2. When he has another line of women where his odds are easily 2/3 times greater in finding a suitable companion?
End of the day the odds of a single mother who aint got multiple baby daddies, was in a long term relationship and/or married...has a degree, head on str8...wasnt being promiscous in middle school, wasnt a product of a young single mom who went thru the same thing is slim to none. So why go thru all that unwarranted hassle...just to say i get the priviledge of taking care of someone elses kid, and cleaning up some womans mess of a life?