fella's of NT, do you consider yourself a "stand-up guy?"

[jayhood23]

Originally Posted by VeryAnalytical85

Originally Posted by Hazeleyed Honey

Originally Posted by JayHood23

The chicks that say this are the ones that don't want to be made out to look like gold diggers, %@@%#, nut jobs, etc. Women always complain that there arent any good men out there but when they find them they dismiss him because contrary to what they say they want it still isnt good enough. They will complain about how he doesn't have a bad side which leads them to date the guy without a job, always running the streets, and little to no education. And the cycle repeats itself. They complain find a good man, pass him over, find a scum bag, scum bag dogs em out, they complain and repeat 

This is my theory on why some girls go for the bad boy type. When a good girl goes for the bad boy, she thinks she could be his savior that can change him for the better. They sympathize and want to nurture and care for someone in need. It is that motherly instinct from nature that takes hold. It could also be that they like more of the agrressiveness type and alpha males, and it is that fuel of testosterone they fiend for. A lot of the times, it is the vulnerable girl that falls for these type of men. She can succumb so easily to his manipulative ways. Her love for him makes her go blind. It is usually the girls with a lot of insecurities would for settle for these men.

Sad thing is most of the time these bad boys will never change. They are self destructive. The good girls also become the victims when these bad boys bring them down because of their issues. Not worth it.

Like I say, ladies, never settle for less than you deserve. Know your self-worth. Once these women know their self-worth and that they deserve better, they will go for the stand up guy.

Preach Jayhood.
Hazel, if only... oh well.

Think about it though, how many chicks have us NT'ers met that have fed you the stories about dudes doing them wrong. I bet for every chick that has approached you with that BS has dissed a dude that was genuinely good for them. 

 

[mytmouse76]

Originally Posted by Crook

I don't think having all those traits necessarily makes you a stand-up guy, I think that has more to do with your personality (ie are you really a nice person deep down inside who cares and wouldnt do shady $#+%)

this...

first thing people do to sell themselves is school, work, own spot...all the stuff youre suppose to have/do for YOURSELF

all that is a bonus if you find somone w/a personality you click with and they treat you well/respect you
  

 

[mytmouse76]

Originally Posted by Crook

I don't think having all those traits necessarily makes you a stand-up guy, I think that has more to do with your personality (ie are you really a nice person deep down inside who cares and wouldnt do shady $#+%)

this...

first thing people do to sell themselves is school, work, own spot...all the stuff youre suppose to have/do for YOURSELF

all that is a bonus if you find somone w/a personality you click with and they treat you well/respect you