going out with a (girl) friend

[bdeazy]

do you let her pay for herself when you go out for lunch? the movies?
or
do you pay for her?

 

[liquid sword chamber]

split it

 

[westroxbury011]

Do not split it.

Pay for everythng.

 

[h4ppytime harry]

usually split, esp. the first time.

 

[dom90]

i usually split it.

 

[h4ppytime harry]

Originally Posted by WestRoxbury011

Do not split it.

Pay for everythng.

sap.

 

[keepzdasneakz]

Originally Posted by WestRoxbury011

Do not split it.

Pay for everythng.

That would misconstrue her beliefs in what you want to do. Let her pay for it. You don't wanna be in the palm of her hand anyway.

 

[joe billionaire]

split it man....if not she gonna think ur some sort of simp and ur gonna pay for everything.

 

[skip2mylou23]

If it's just a friend, split it.

 

[af1pops12]

Pay for it, but if she offers to pay just split it.

 

[mytmouse76]

depending on how often you two go out and how good of friends you are...you could just go back and forth...you pay once...the she pays...but if yall are justfriends i say split it...

 

[bodyfullapolo]

either she pays or we split.

 

[bdeazy]

so it looks like most would say, pay for at the same time and from whatever the total is, ask for her part.

 

[freshproduct]

Originally Posted by af1pops12

Pay for it, but if she offers to pay just split it.

I agree with this, I can't fathom saying "yo we gonna split thisbill" upfront like that

thenagain, it depends on the girl

 

[innovazn2]

get her to pay
do the "i got u next time" bs

 

[wj4]

If I ask a girl to hang out, I'll pay for it. Every time a girl asked me to chill, they always grab the bill first and pay for it.

If it's something like a classmate going to grab lunch some where, it's split usually.

 

[reeceman10]

Split

 

[jdidkc]

i just pay, or offer to pay at least.

 

[bdeazy]

Originally Posted by jdidkc

i just pay, or offer to pay at least.

what if she asks "are you sure"?

 

[1 in a billion]

IF YOU HONESTLY HAVE NO INTENTIONS, THEN DON'T PAY.

IF YOU HAVE INTENTIONS, DON'T PAY.

mob

 

[liljrdn]

agree with this, I can't fathom saying "yo we gonna split this bill" upfront like that

Word.

 

[ghost43t]

its this easy.............

who was the one who asked?

9/10 if i ask a chick out im payin

 

[acbboyz84]

id pay but she can pay me back in bed afterward

 

[la213espg]

Originally Posted by ghost43t

its this easy.............

who was the one who asked?

9/10 if i ask a chick out im payin

Exactly

 

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