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this was the first thing to come to mind to me. Im pretty sure I first saw this posted on NT years back.
When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar & the 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and emptymayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golfballs. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.The students responded with a unanimous "yes."
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between thesand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are theimportant things--your family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions--and if everything else was lost and only they remained,your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car. The sand is everything else--the smallstuff."
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If youspend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that arecritical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always betime to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first--the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is justsand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seems, there's always room for a coupleof cups of coffee with a friend."
When things in your lives seem almost too much to handle, when 24 hours in a day are not enough, remember the mayonnaise jar & the 2 cups of coffee.
A professor stood before his philosophy class and had some items in front of him. When the class began, he wordlessly picked up a very large and emptymayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with golf balls. He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
The professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles rolled into the open areas between the golfballs. He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor next picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up everything else. He asked once more if the jar was full.The students responded with a unanimous "yes."
The professor then produced two cups of coffee from under the table and poured the entire contents into the jar effectively filling the empty space between thesand. The students laughed.
"Now," said the professor as the laughter subsided, "I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The golf balls are theimportant things--your family, your children, your health, your friends, and your favorite passions--and if everything else was lost and only they remained,your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter like your job, your house and your car. The sand is everything else--the smallstuff."
"If you put the sand into the jar first," he continued, "there is no room for the pebbles or the golf balls. The same goes for life. If youspend all your time and energy on the small stuff you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that arecritical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take time to get medical checkups. Take your spouse out to dinner. Play another 18. There will always betime to clean the house and fix the disposal. Take care of the golf balls first--the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is justsand."
One of the students raised her hand and inquired what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled. "I'm glad you asked. It just goes to show you that no matter how full your life may seems, there's always room for a coupleof cups of coffee with a friend."
