You ain't lying. Lmao, if I'm at a party, I'm more talk with my boys than anything lol. I NEVER know what to say to girls, so I rarely put myself out there. Sad, I know
As others said, no need to be sad breh. I use to be like that too. Until I started doing things that made me uncomfortable. It helps you learn so much and helps you to adapt to different situations.
If your at party where you don't know anyone. The BP table is a great place to meet people.
Grab one homie and ask to get the table. Introduce yourself to the opponents doesn't matter if they're male or female.
If you win or lose doesnt matter try to make talk after the game. Take some shots with them,who they know,ask how they got good.Questions that'll have talking about themselves.
Use the BP table as a supplement, a catalyst, not a crutch.
I see too many dudes use the BP table as a crutch. They stay there for the entire length of the party.
To me thats the equivalent to the wall flower and the dudes who talk amongst themselves.
It's not bad, but they're not meeting anyone.
Another way is to ask people to take shots with you. This is how I meet some girls, I was afraid to do this at first,but with practice, you get use to it.
Treat them like you're not trying to get at them.
If they say no,no biggie. Keep it moving and ask another female.
Great way to find out what they like and dislike.
Or round up your homies and the hosts and get a big as group of ppl to take shots.
Try be solo at one point too. Every time I arrive at a place, I leave my group and go scouting the place. Learn where everything is.
Try to talk to people.
My mentality is I want to have fun. Thats my priority. Everything else is extra. Make sure your enjoying yourself, a must.
Its always a hit or miss with females, its not when your having fun.
Take baby steps. Try to be comfortable being uncomfortable.
Yupp....the thing I focus on the most.
When it comes to talking to strangers, if you're unable to do it, obviously you're lacking confidence. How can you build that confidence? By practicing and getting consistent results. Practice making eye contact, smiling, and speaking loudly and clearly. Practice your manners. Good manners will make people love you.
QFT
she was cute but she wasn't that cute
Not just females either. Today at the gym, one of the d-bag trainers who NEVER takes care of his weights left the squat rack a complete mess with weights still racked at 5'6" level. There are signs all over the gym about taking care of your weights, he works there and doesn't... I was about to confront him but I couldn't work up the nerve to do it. I'm 6'5" and this dude is MAYBE 5'7".... 
