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How are you NOT paying for the female companion?
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Question. (again). If I booked you at the club, and our first two outting (summer) were to a park and to an outdoor free movie.
What would you think of me. You had a good time with me at those places. Does not spending $ on you make you think any less of me?
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Question. (again). If I booked you at the club, and our first two outting (summer) were to a park and to an outdoor free movie.
What would you think of me. You had a good time with me at those places. Does not spending $ on you make you think any less of me?
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DC for some spending money is secondary to spending time being thoughtful in order to save money, specially if we are talkin 30-50$...to me taking a chick to an outdoor free movie on a first date is a little too much, those are thoughtful dates that I rather save for later on....I guess we have a reverse perception on how to go about dating, I can live with that bro.
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DC for some spending money is secondary to spending time being thoughtful in order to save money, specially if we are talkin 30-50$...to me taking a chick to an outdoor free movie on a first date is a little too much, those are thoughtful dates that I rather save for later on....I guess we have a reverse perception on how to go about dating, I can live with that bro.
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Every bar has a night when they have drink specials/ladies night/ladies drink free. Depending on the specials you could spend maybe less than $5-10 for the "date". Just invite her, have 1 or 2 drinks and close the deal from there. If it doesn't pop off, meet another girl there
. Rinse and repeat.
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Every bar has a night when they have drink specials/ladies night/ladies drink free. Depending on the specials you could spend maybe less than $5-10 for the "date". Just invite her, have 1 or 2 drinks and close the deal from there. If it doesn't pop off, meet another girl there
. Rinse and repeat.
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I wouldn't take anyone to any movie (free or not) on the first outting. I was just giving an example of something free and that was something that came to mind.
Yea I believe in starting out small and then "rewarding" down the line. Not showing a damn water gun at the first go round.
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I wouldn't take anyone to any movie (free or not) on the first outting. I was just giving an example of something free and that was something that came to mind.
Yea I believe in starting out small and then "rewarding" down the line. Not showing a damn water gun at the first go round.
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I feel the same way for the most part. I just like to eat at nice places, try new food and go to events that are fun. When I take girls out, they are all awe struck thinking I'm tricking on em when that's really just how I get down. I'm not gonna eat crappy sub-par food with a chick just because I don't want to come off as a simpOriginally Posted by illwill8710
I feel the same.Originally Posted by Capricorn1229
This is where I was coming from but I got %*@* for it.Originally Posted by ricky409
got a serious question to all those sayin they dont pay for dates and dont drop any bread...
do yall just like doing nice things?
i mean... i just so happen to like going to nice spots to eat, theme parks, gun ranges, jet ski-ing...
more times than not i look at it as "hey, i like to do XYZ... do you wanna come? if not, then i'll most likely find someone else, or do it regardless."
People making it out as a trick bag need to re-evaluate what it means to have class when it comes to dating.
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I feel the same way for the most part. I just like to eat at nice places, try new food and go to events that are fun. When I take girls out, they are all awe struck thinking I'm tricking on em when that's really just how I get down. I'm not gonna eat crappy sub-par food with a chick just because I don't want to come off as a simpOriginally Posted by illwill8710
I feel the same.Originally Posted by Capricorn1229
This is where I was coming from but I got %*@* for it.Originally Posted by ricky409
got a serious question to all those sayin they dont pay for dates and dont drop any bread...
do yall just like doing nice things?
i mean... i just so happen to like going to nice spots to eat, theme parks, gun ranges, jet ski-ing...
more times than not i look at it as "hey, i like to do XYZ... do you wanna come? if not, then i'll most likely find someone else, or do it regardless."
People making it out as a trick bag need to re-evaluate what it means to have class when it comes to dating.
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Maybe things have changed since I been in the dating scene...but at the point where I'm inviting someone out on a date...I've already gotten to know them somewhat by hanging out or talking or emailing...
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Maybe things have changed since I been in the dating scene...but at the point where I'm inviting someone out on a date...I've already gotten to know them somewhat by hanging out or talking or emailing...
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I still wouldn't say it is enough to KNOW that they will be around though. You aren't really getting to KNOW someone off of the interview stage. Talking to someone a few times before going somewhere with them can't be considered "already knowing."
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I still wouldn't say it is enough to KNOW that they will be around though. You aren't really getting to KNOW someone off of the interview stage. Talking to someone a few times before going somewhere with them can't be considered "already knowing."
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lol@Jcrews spokesperson calling everyone cheap... iwuvyouthoK
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lol@Jcrews spokesperson calling everyone cheap... iwuvyouthoK
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eh.. must be my own personal experiences.. I've never gone on 1st dates that didn't already have an inkling of a 2nd date already in mind....save for 1 instance
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eh.. must be my own personal experiences.. I've never gone on 1st dates that didn't already have an inkling of a 2nd date already in mind....save for 1 instance
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So how long did you usually talk on the phone with these people after booking them but before going out on the first outting?
Having the 2nd date in mind doesn't negate the point that I made earlier. You still don't KNOW the person before going on the first date. Hell even the 2nd date, you still don't KNOW the person.
Which is why I asked how much time were you spending on the phone talking to folks.
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So how long did you usually talk on the phone with these people after booking them but before going out on the first outting?
Having the 2nd date in mind doesn't negate the point that I made earlier. You still don't KNOW the person before going on the first date. Hell even the 2nd date, you still don't KNOW the person.
Which is why I asked how much time were you spending on the phone talking to folks.
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this.
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hanging out in group situations
phone convos
email
you can know someone pretty well before going on a 1 on 1 date..
and while it's true.. you don't know if you're truly compatible until a few dates....but I'm not cheap..and I like to go somewhere where I'm going to enjoy myself and the food..the companionship is just icing
phone convos
you can know someone pretty well before going on a 1 on 1 date..
and while it's true.. you don't know if you're truly compatible until a few dates....but I'm not cheap..and I like to go somewhere where I'm going to enjoy myself and the food..the companionship is just icing
