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This is what I just sent to him. He accepted my friend request.
How do I go about apologizing to someone I was a douche to in middle school? (long read)
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Do the latter..
"Or trying to contact him online so we can have a sit down."
"Or trying to contact him online so we can have a sit down."
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Damn it almost sounded like those chain-letter type msgs 
, but the best thing to do is apologize in person. The LGBT community is alot more accepted in the community today, so now is definitely the best option to apologize. It would have been way better to do it back then tho. Become friends with him too. I ain't gay but I don't mind hanging with gay people, they're alot more open and attract the ladies.
, but the best thing to do is apologize in person. The LGBT community is alot more accepted in the community today, so now is definitely the best option to apologize. It would have been way better to do it back then tho. Become friends with him too. I ain't gay but I don't mind hanging with gay people, they're alot more open and attract the ladies.
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Our last names were close together, so we sat right next to each other in woodshop.Damn it almost sounded like those chain-letter type msgs, but the best thing to do is apologize in person. The LGBT community is alot more accepted in the community today, so now is definitely the best option to apologize. It would have been way better to do it back then tho. Become friends with him too. I ain't gay but I don't mind hanging with gay people, they're alot more open and attract the ladies.
After I punched him, he avoided me everyday. Then we went to different highschools.
Also, it would have never crossed my mind to apologize...at that time.
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That was a cool apology but that "making it up to him anyway you can" was a bit much imo.
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He has a bf so I think he's good.
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I commend you on following up on this 7 years later.
Bullying is cruel. People have enough **** to deal with away from school/work that no one but them is aware of. He'll never get the time that he had to endure bullying back, but at least maybe he can heal from that one experience that you two had.
But keep it real OP, you tryna get some pipe, huh?
Bullying is cruel. People have enough **** to deal with away from school/work that no one but them is aware of. He'll never get the time that he had to endure bullying back, but at least maybe he can heal from that one experience that you two had.
But keep it real OP, you tryna get some pipe, huh?
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I see that that line was a bit much, but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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Jokes man.
Had to take a jab since you broke lil' dude's glasses and want that hug now.
Had to take a jab since you broke lil' dude's glasses and want that hug now.
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just tell him ur sorry. real men accept the fact that theyre wrong. now do whats right and say SORRY
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Never too late to make amends for past transgressions.
Hopefully you can share your experiences with others and prevent them from making the same choices.
Hopefully you can share your experiences with others and prevent them from making the same choices.
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Inbox Huey freeman on here. Either him or Deuce King should have good advise in what to message him going further
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You are so lucky that happened so long ago. I think if it happened today, some kid would have recorded it and put it on youtube. Then you would be on CNN as a person that committed a hate crime and you would receive death threats and never get into a college. I'm glad that many of the mistakes I made didn't follow me forever like some of these kids today. Take this as an opportunity to make amends. My advice is to write out a well thought out email/FB message. Just get all of your feeling out and then don't send, wait a day. Next day go back to the letter and edit, try to take out any self-serving comments, anything that inflates your ego. It might not sound like you would do that, but just taking time and getting a fresh look at it make a world of difference. Then once you think you have a respectful and sincere letter, send him a message. At the end of the letter, let him know that if he is up to it, you would like to go grab coffee and catch up. Good luck and props for trying.
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Good for you OP, I bet he really appreciated your apology. It's never too late to make things right.
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Am I the only one who thinks everyone gets made fun of in school?
Props for the apologize though OP
Props for the apologize though OP
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He also has a mouth. ..ohhh yeeahh.....He has a bf so I think he's good.
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Did he accept the apology?
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That Colbert gif is great
iYen hopefully his response to your apology is positive.
iYen hopefully his response to your apology is positive.
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At jordan head,, he hasn't replied yet.
It's been 2 hours now.
It's been 2 hours now.
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I hope he thinks you are trynna holla at him
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Props op, it's nice to see some positivity and empathy on this website every now and then.
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You do know that is the gay equivalency of, "I have a few black friends. I am no racist."
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