How do you look at porn? Great editorial

[deleted]

I got about 3 sentences in before I realized that nothing said within that editorial will keep me from pulling my pud.

 

[finnns2003]

I think pr0n and fapping combos make guys anti-social, some of my friends are like this. I used to be like this. It's definitely a disservice when it's so convenient. After a while, going to make effort to "get some" is extinguished by looking up a bunch of pr0n. Thus, you're selling yourself short.

On the other hand, no chance of babies, disease, etc... Double-edged sword.

 

[WASPS ANDD ASPS]

dudes aint got time to read it cuz they too bizzy jerkin

 

[kickmatic23]

too long to read?

This. I don't need cliff-notes because i assume they would look like this:
-Religion guides my life
-Pron is wrong
-If you fap you will burn in hell
-The End

Tell me if I missed something

 

[teamjordan79]

too long to read?

This. I don't need cliff-notes because i assume they would look like this:
-Religion guides my life
-Pron is wrong
-If you fap you will burn in hell
-The End

Tell me if I missed something

yea you listed everything irrelevant. Go to www.yourbrainonporn.com and school yourself.

 

[Ja's 2¢]

yea you listed everything irrelevant. Go to www.yourbrainonporn.com and school yourself.

thats the site from the NO FAP Nov. thread I was talking about. Great info there on the negative effects.

 

[guzzy]

Stroked while reading.

 

[after the dance]

I lost some respect for the author when he casually noted that he went into a bar to read a thick piece of literature by himself, as if that isn't one of the most blatantly pretentious gimmicks you could ever attempt(and it actually semi-worked? ugh).

Still though good piece, it's hard for me to empathize because I don't understand why so many males are so dependent on porn when it comes to masturbation. When I first discovered porn in my early teens I *was* semi-addicted to it for all the obvious reasons, but even before I got a few entries in the "memory bank" it was never completely vital. If you look at porn cynically enough it's *****ng depressing, and more often than not you end up seeing more close-up shots of testes in a single scene than you'd ever hope to see in a lifetime. 

 

[dauldierce]

I myself am trying to quit. Not just porn. But fapping in general. I actually wanted to make a post on this. I feel like everything in life revolves around a males, "Nut." Sort of like when you are willing to tell a woman anything and everything to get her to do what you want and the SECOND you climax, you forget alllllllla that **** and stare at her like..."****, I just said all that?" I feel like NOT losing that climax, keeps you more motivated for wins in all aspects of your life. Keeps you hungry for success and keeps you thinking "irrationally" in a sense but sometimes you have to be irrational to do something amazing.
I also want to do it to see how it affects me in the gym and my character outside as well.
LASTLY, I feel like porn not only gives a false impression as to what sex really is, (had a girl say "calmmmmmm down. different story) but also it sets you up to last way less. With porn and masturbation you TRAIN yourself to finish as quick as possible. No bueno.
Just my 2 cents.
iLLest!

fouesytube faps

 

[quell]

Phenominal.

Theres a fantastic book (titled) along the lines of the "Multi Orgasmic Man" , it will change your opinion on not only masturbation, but sex as well

 

[00david00]

hmm.. will watch the ted talk on porn later

 

[quell]

I myself am trying to quit. Not just porn. But fapping in general. I actually wanted to make a post on this. I feel like everything in life revolves around a males, "Nut." Sort of like when you are willing to tell a woman anything and everything to get her to do what you want and the SECOND you climax, you forget alllllllla that **** and stare at her like..."****, I just said all that?" I feel like NOT losing that climax, keeps you more motivated for wins in all aspects of your life. Keeps you hungry for success and keeps you thinking "irrationally" in a sense but sometimes you have to be irrational to do something amazing.
I also want to do it to see how it affects me in the gym and my character outside as well.
LASTLY, I feel like porn not only gives a false impression as to what sex really is, (had a girl say "calmmmmmm down. different story) but also it sets you up to last way less. With porn and masturbation you TRAIN yourself to finish as quick as possible. No bueno.
Just my 2 cents.
iLLest!

*slow clap*

 

[00david00]

i suggest everyone checks out the ted talk

 

[jbpkickz]

quit lookin at porn in october, ish makes you lazy about everything

 

[jking0821]

I succeeded in no fap November (0 yambs in November as well). And I guess i can agree with some of these positive side effects. But I think porn and masturbation don't necessarily have to be linked. I do think porn desensitizes you to real women. You see "hot" porn stars all the time doing the craziest things in bed then when you get yambs from normal chicks it is not what you want it to be and you are let down. But i think you can just fap to nothing/normal things infrequently and be fine.

I think the key is to just keep a strong sex drive. And a lot of times porn is the easy and quick satisfaction.

 

[knowledgebones72]

dude said he threw out r rated movies cause he was "high on will power"?

son has bigger issues than not fapping.

fapping is just one way these issues rear their head.

*resumes juelz ventura*

 

[stunnafasho03]

I myself am trying to quit. Not just porn. But fapping in general. I actually wanted to make a post on this. I feel like everything in life revolves around a males, "Nut." Sort of like when you are willing to tell a woman anything and everything to get her to do what you want and the SECOND you climax, you forget alllllllla that **** and stare at her like..."****, I just said all that?" I feel like NOT losing that climax, keeps you more motivated for wins in all aspects of your life. Keeps you hungry for success and keeps you thinking "irrationally" in a sense but sometimes you have to be irrational to do something amazing.

I also want to do it to see how it affects me in the gym and my character outside as well.

LASTLY, I feel like porn not only gives a false impression as to what sex really is, (had a girl say "calmmmmmm down. different story) but also it sets you up to last way less. With porn and masturbation you TRAIN yourself to finish as quick as possible. No bueno.

Just my 2 cents.

iLLest!

Qft

 

[johnnyredstorm]

sex is supposed to be natural, beautiful and a truly cosmic event but porno has made it all about jamming cocks every which way and leaving your woman covered in a cloud of cum. it's a sad distraction that is affecting too many people today.

 

[gatzbygordon]

Spoiler: Warning%3A%20Spoiler!

 

[eiddyfouw]

sex is supposed to be natural, beautiful and a truly cosmic event but porno has made it all about jamming cocks every which way and leaving your woman covered in a cloud of cum. it's a sad distraction that is affecting too many people today.

While I agree with some of what you're saying. Sex isn't always meant to be a truly cosmic event. Sometimes it's meant to be a release of sexual tension. Even some women will tell you the same. It's not always meant to be an amazing passionate love making session. But I do agree that porn has objectified sex in a very weird and sometimes depressing way.

 

[antonlavey]

I myself am trying to quit. Not just porn. But fapping in general. I actually wanted to make a post on this. I feel like everything in life revolves around a males, "Nut." Sort of like when you are willing to tell a woman anything and everything to get her to do what you want and the SECOND you climax, you forget alllllllla that **** and stare at her like..."****, I just said all that?" I feel like NOT losing that climax, keeps you more motivated for wins in all aspects of your life. Keeps you hungry for success and keeps you thinking "irrationally" in a sense but sometimes you have to be irrational to do something amazing.
I also want to do it to see how it affects me in the gym and my character outside as well.
LASTLY, I feel like porn not only gives a false impression as to what sex really is, (had a girl say "calmmmmmm down. different story) but also it sets you up to last way less. With porn and masturbation you TRAIN yourself to finish as quick as possible. No bueno.
Just my 2 cents.
iLLest!

Actually, a lot of people say masturbation and porn leads to delayed orgasms. It doesn't make you orgasm as quick as possible.

 

[jbpkickz]

I myself am trying to quit. Not just porn. But fapping in general. I actually wanted to make a post on this. I feel like everything in life revolves around a males, "Nut." Sort of like when you are willing to tell a woman anything and everything to get her to do what you want and the SECOND you climax, you forget alllllllla that **** and stare at her like..."****, I just said all that?" I feel like NOT losing that climax, keeps you more motivated for wins in all aspects of your life. Keeps you hungry for success and keeps you thinking "irrationally" in a sense but sometimes you have to be irrational to do something amazing.
I also want to do it to see how it affects me in the gym and my character outside as well.
LASTLY, I feel like porn not only gives a false impression as to what sex really is, (had a girl say "calmmmmmm down. different story) but also it sets you up to last way less. With porn and masturbation you TRAIN yourself to finish as quick as possible. No bueno.
Just my 2 cents.
iLLest!

Actually, a lot of people say masturbation and porn leads to delayed orgasms. It doesn't make you orgasm as quick as possible.

this, i used to be fat got no yambs but was always doing the deed like twice a day, when i started gettin actual yambs i couldnt bust for ****, i only have regular sex now no porn, fapping, clearer thoghts too

 

[munnnjee]

Cliffs:
Stop Fapping

+1 

 

[pepperjackchees]

Man wanting a real girl is motivation enough for me to quit. 

 

[$tacy]

I tried the whole no f as pping thing n it last every bit of a week. I dont even fap to porn like that maybe a couple times a month but jus "cold fap" as one b4 called it. I swear it jus give me that yolo attitude and make me not care about ****. And trust me I live with my girl, I smash when ever ifeel like it.