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this applies to ppl with porno addiction i think.. and i also think dude is a weirdo and naive for thinking he'd go to a bar of all places and look for someone to "have babies with".. how delusional .. when most women these days are sharing themselves amongst men this guy was thinking he'd find a wife at a bar.
second, what are his alternatives for not watching porn (in order to get a nut off)... real relationship(s)? holding off on sex until marriage? because sex outside of marriage is a sin as well (as is just thinking about plowing some hot broad u see on the street. the thought is a sin as well), so that means he's either gona wife some broad out of desperation and his relationship will fail or go years and years dating before he has sex. and how many ppl (women) these days are waiting til marriage for sex?
i used porno sparingly when i got in arguments with my ex and she'd refuse to give me even a tug job... i'd fire up like 19 tabs on my browser, find the best scene and de-stress. a week later i'd be back inside her body and i wouldnt even think about these sites. also i use it during 'down time' when i havent gotten laid in a while and i need to drop a load in order to not be cranky and snapping at people.
there are times where i get tired of porno tho... like it's mating season and i want to hump and i browse these sites and its the same thing over n over.. same boring positions, same dry boxes, same tired 'actresses'... and im not into the sphincter plowing or any of this weird japanese tentacle crap so i just turn it off. what happens next is i end up sinning in another form, by going out and finding a broad to plow.
i guess my take away from this is, if ur gona sin (and u will) its better to be digging in some broads guts in real life than to be raping ur hand.
second, what are his alternatives for not watching porn (in order to get a nut off)... real relationship(s)? holding off on sex until marriage? because sex outside of marriage is a sin as well (as is just thinking about plowing some hot broad u see on the street. the thought is a sin as well), so that means he's either gona wife some broad out of desperation and his relationship will fail or go years and years dating before he has sex. and how many ppl (women) these days are waiting til marriage for sex?
i used porno sparingly when i got in arguments with my ex and she'd refuse to give me even a tug job... i'd fire up like 19 tabs on my browser, find the best scene and de-stress. a week later i'd be back inside her body and i wouldnt even think about these sites. also i use it during 'down time' when i havent gotten laid in a while and i need to drop a load in order to not be cranky and snapping at people.
there are times where i get tired of porno tho... like it's mating season and i want to hump and i browse these sites and its the same thing over n over.. same boring positions, same dry boxes, same tired 'actresses'... and im not into the sphincter plowing or any of this weird japanese tentacle crap so i just turn it off. what happens next is i end up sinning in another form, by going out and finding a broad to plow.
i guess my take away from this is, if ur gona sin (and u will) its better to be digging in some broads guts in real life than to be raping ur hand.
. I also hope he realizes that the internet is used for more than porn, it's not going to bite if you use it again. From what I read, whatever reasons he had for stopping, cool, his choice. I'm guilty of using the internet for this as well. What I don't understand is how people can just watch it all day. Use it to help you in that spot and be gone. Someone made a point that watching it ruins how you approach actual women; I disagree with that. Why would anyone even think porn is like real life situations? If you have half a brain you realize it doesn't go down like that in real life. But, I guess this is what leads to the "I don't wanna put in work" mentality. The reality is, you have to put in SOME type of work even for the easiest chicks in the world. Idk, it wouldn't be fair to assume that every dude is trying to attain "dimes" like in porn movies, even though some do, so I wouldn't blame that mentality on watching it either. I just look at it differently. I think porn is actually silly if you pay attention to it. I think you can be ok with it, if you treat it like every other form of entertainment we are inundated with.
