If a Black Girl says she only dates White Dudes does that make her a #@*! ?

[hymen man]

You degrade yourself.

 

[|A-Man|]

Originally Posted by BasedOMG

Originally Posted by chickencurry4eva

Originally Posted by ATGD7154xBBxMZ

Still lost on what the censored word is.

This. 

What does it rhyme with?

I think he said it was S1ut .

If it that's word

Aint gonna lie I associate that word with white ppl. All a %!$$ is to me  is another word for vagina and I'm lost on it's offensiveness to women. Like should men feel some type of way if somebody called them a **** or a %#!@, etc. Never hear black ppl say it unless it's to make fun of the fact that ppl use it as an insult.

Don't see how this would make this black girl a %!$$ or w/e that's suppose to mean but it makes her a whole lot of other things. Don't really matter though.

 

[41239]

Originally Posted by Nowitzness41

Originally Posted by BadKarma

Originally Posted by thekryptonite

Because funnily enough you are allowed to do this. If she only dates one race then who cares? There are millions of other girls who will happily date a guy regardless of their race.

I don't care who she dates , it's none of my business .
I asked how do Black Guys view Black chicks who only dates white guys .

hmmm, it sure sounds like you do care.

Im white, and ive only met one white chick that i actually cared to bone who only liked black guys, so in that instance- i found it annoying. The current chick Im dating (yep, actually exclusively dating somebody now- gave up the slizzles for the time being) is half black and half white- and shes only dated hispanic guys in the past, Im the first white guy- and she doesnt like black guys- and DAMM she is FINE (looks like that pron star whyhellothere always has as his avy

)

....... You're a novelty tho

 

[basedomg]

OP to answer your question, I think it's because of the way the media portrays Black males . They're viewed more bigger and masculine than White men making them insecure . The only Black girls that i've ever seen with White guys are those emo / valley girl types , most of the ones with "dat mass" usually dates Black or Hispanic guys, well from my experience .

 

[hand2handking]

Racism On Dating Apps Made Me Regret Trying Tinder & Bumble At All — Here's Why

When I Tried Dating Apps For The First Time, Men's Racist Comments Drove Me Away

For years, I avoided online dating. Why would I subject myself to this vicious cycle of validation and rejection just to get ghosted? Instagram was already doing a great job of satisfying my millennial need for approval. But a few months ago, after a breakup, I turned to Tinder and Bumble as a temporary bandage for my wounded heart (and, let's be honest, ego). After four months of swiping, I found myself worse off mentally than when I began. Were other women having similar experiences with racism on dating apps, and, if so, why wasn't anyone talking about it? I had underestimated the number of racist micro-aggressions that would come my way.

One of my first matches, a guy who had moved from Minnesota to Los Angeles a month earlier, sent me the opening line, “Ever dated a white guy before?” As if white men are somehow a rare demographic. Over the next month, I received at least 10 different variations of that question, each one more maddening than the last.

Some men used a more subtle approach to their internalized racism. There was one conversation, in particular, that was especially disappointing. He was an East Coast native, as well, and the conversation was going great. We had so much in common, and then…it happened. I sent him a selfie, to which he replied, “Damn. You’re so pretty for a black girl.” I couldn’t decide what was more upsetting. Was it the flagrant micro-aggression? Or was it how pleased he seemed to be with what he thought was a unique compliment? He couldn’t understand why his remark triggered eyeball emojis instead of a humble, "Thank you!" Still, I maintained hope.




During a conversation with another guy about immigration at the U.S./Mexico border, he asked what I thought of Black Lives Matter. A little off topic, I thought, but finally! A man who, although he didn’t appear to be a POC, seemed interested in having intellectual discourse with a marginalized member of society. In response, I typed up a detailed reply explaining the movement the best I could. I even included links to think pieces I found relevant to his inquiry. My impassioned reply was met with, “I gotta say, BLM seems pretty toxic to me,” about a minute later. At this point, my patience had been worth thin. I felt like the people I met on dating apps pushed me to answer for and defend an entire race constantly. When I challenged this guy on his opinion, the interaction immediately turned hostile. He said that I was a "somewhat intellectual person" but that I had allowed my opinion on certain issues — like the border wall or the Black Lives Matter movement — to be clouded by identity politics. He told me I should "work on letting race go as an impacting factor." Needless to say, it wasn’t a love connection.

My most disappointing date was with a guy we'll call Josh*. We seemed to hit it off and exchanged numbers after only chatting in the app for a few days. I didn't see any red flags. We both happened to be binge-watchingBrooklyn Nine-Nine and we bonded over our love of Asian cuisine. At Josh’s suggestion, we made plans to have our first date at a local Thai restaurant. Despite a promising start, Josh was not only 15 minutes late, but had, unfortunately, decided that his big opener would be running his hand through my newly-done braids and saying, “Oh, I forgot, I’m not allowed to do that, am I?" I realized the "nice," "chill" guy I had been chatting with online had clearly never had a conversation with a black woman before. And if the underhanded racism wasn’t enough to make me deactivate my account, this guy reminded me that some men still view women in an overly sexualized way. He thought he had license to touch me before our first date even started.

I won’t condemn dating apps entirely, but I now see them as a necessary evil. Encountering this kind of underhanded racism was unnerving, and as a WOC, its imperative for me to take a break from them every now and again. I’ve gained a new appreciation for organic interactions. These days, I’ve been making a conscious effort to spend more time with friends and doing things I genuinely enjoy. I may re-enter the dating app fray someday, but for now, I'm good.

 

[AZwildcats]

Never thought I'd see this thread again

 

[SupremeBeing5]

Yes.

 

[Nouss]

Soo many cringeworthy posts in this joint. Only 7 years ago too.

 

[Coromanti]

Only times I hear that are from jaded women. Perhaps got cheated on, made fun of for being too 'white', made fun of for being too dark is what I have heard.

Some people keep perspective and get through their issues fine. Other do not. Just hope one day they see how they let their past hurts affect their present.

 

[trynafeelmink]

all i know living in NYC, for wateva reason all the black women who date white men always seem to have a specific aesthetic

 

[KHUFU]

 

[cardiak]

all i know living in NYC, for wateva reason all the black women who date white men always seem to have a specific aesthetic

Isn't that everywhere lol? Same can be said for white females that only date black men.

 

[icysoles718]

Thought this was a thread about Zoe Saldana for some reason...

 

[sneakaprince]

hand2handking bro this is actually a good topic. You should make a separate thread though.

 

[m boiz]

That girl is lame as f. If you don't know that majority of dating apps are full of bs and guys wanting to bang then you gonna learn the hard way.

 

[mister doitnice]

What I’m wondering is when was tinder ever marketed as an app for people who are looking for love/relationships? I know that it has happened in certain instances. However, Tinder has been a hookup since it’s inception. If you want love better hit eharmony or some ****. The wolves are out here on these apps.