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Famb really did though...
I can understand your grandpa having that mindset though...
But not you.
"I've been through so much" people Unnapreciation
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Famb really did though...
I can understand your grandpa having that mindset though...
But not you.
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Bruh
What did I say? How did I marginalize people? How did I compromise myself?
This is exactly what I'm talking about. As far back as I can remember people I know just be throwin me under the bus whenever they feel like it for no real reason, but in the same breath they demand that I feel their plight and be super sensitive of their backstory and applaud them for the accomplishment of having it rough while they make all the assumptions they want to about me and my life story without even wondering about my background.
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Pretty much.
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I assume that it's hard for most of NT to be able relate to people who have been through "so much" like myself.
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Thing I always remember is, there's ALWAYS someone out there who has it way worse and be fortunate that its not you.
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Depends if it's an everyday thing. If so, then I stay far away from people like that.
If the person is going through some rough ****, sometimes it's good to listen. You never know you might be the one who needs someone to listen to your issues one day.
People's moods are infectious, and they have a way of influencing our own moods.
So I try to associate with positive people, and of course everything in life is not peaches and cream, but still I don't like to be around people who kill the mood as soon as they walk in the room.
You know people like that? As soon as they come around it's like a bad spirit just walked in the room.
If the person is going through some rough ****, sometimes it's good to listen. You never know you might be the one who needs someone to listen to your issues one day.
People's moods are infectious, and they have a way of influencing our own moods.
So I try to associate with positive people, and of course everything in life is not peaches and cream, but still I don't like to be around people who kill the mood as soon as they walk in the room.
You know people like that? As soon as they come around it's like a bad spirit just walked in the room.
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Sympathizing for people going through rough times is different than a person saying they've been through too much as a way of self-pity. I think that's where OP is coming from.
It IS annoying. I always try and sympathize with people these days no matter how marginal it may seem to me, but when it becomes a continual crutch for that person and they just repeat the words without action, it becomes more about that person than it does their actual "tribulations."
Being strong is how you carry yourself when you're going through the tough times and how you push yourself through it to become a better person who has learned. It is NOT just going through it that makes you strong in my opinion.
It IS annoying. I always try and sympathize with people these days no matter how marginal it may seem to me, but when it becomes a continual crutch for that person and they just repeat the words without action, it becomes more about that person than it does their actual "tribulations."
Being strong is how you carry yourself when you're going through the tough times and how you push yourself through it to become a better person who has learned. It is NOT just going through it that makes you strong in my opinion.
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I agree, it can be annoying.
Not everybody is "strong" though and some people take longer to develop that mindset. I understand where OP is coming from but I won't just dismiss a person because they aren't as mentally strong as I am. No one comes out of the womb as a perfect person with a 100% perfect personality. We're all learning and improving at our own pace as life goes on.
When I run into these people I understand that they are obviously insecure and I try to look past that. I have my own character flaws that another person could point out as well.
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What's annoying is the people who've "been through so much" because of their own stupid decisions and try to get sympathy like they had no control over their lives.
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Half of the time they aint even been through **** or its self inflicted
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But you tell NT though...
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But you tell NT though...
Is it unfashionable that there are things people would reveal online but not in real life?
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Its not "unfashionable"
Sometimes you want to tell your story and its easier to tell strangers.
But I think your post is exactly what OP was saying he does not like.
Sometimes people tell their story over and over because it helps them deal.
This is NT and has nothing but males.
We all know most males are not good listeners.
Are you still a sex addict?
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This doesn't bother me as much as the lowkey attention hores. The ones that try to nonchalantly flex in pictures, only seem to post self-pictures when they're wearing their "nice" outfit, post pictures they think makes them look cool, but try to add a funny caption, so it doesn't look as egotistical, and of course only posts the cutest baby pictures of themselves for 'likes...'
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this.
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^Word, dudes gramps sounding like
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exactly
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