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Nah Fam.
This aint it.
I respect women enough to see them as adults who have the authority to make their own decisions.
I respect women enough to hold them accountable for the decisions they make.
If they make the decision to call into Samuels show making claims and having opinions that aren't based on facts / reality then what's the problem?
The burden of proof lies with the person making the claim.
None of them are victims.
The Ad Hominem fallacy aint working.
We can talk all day long about Samuels delivery but where is the lie?
He provides data, metrics, and numbers that anyone with access to the internet can easily confirm.
We cant claim to respect women one minute and the next create a narrative that they are little girls who cant handle reality.
Creating safe spaces for lies and delusions to divide us is how the black family got so far gone in the first place.
If anything we need more of Kevin Samuels in our communities. He gets on men the exact same way.
Samuels in not the problem nor is he our enemy.
He's actually out here speaking for lots of us and our experiences - including my own.
His "Cut your hair for Corporate America" video pissed me off at first too but after I got out of my feelings I realized he was exactly right.
Hit dogs are supposed to holler.
I'm not arguing any of the concepts being discussed.
None of that has anything to do with the environment in which all these conversations take place. His delivery is completely irrelevant to this conversation I'm addressing the notion that Kevin should be applauded like some hero for talking circles around the women who engage with him.
Who is Kevin Samuels benefitting besides Kevin Samuels is the question here? These livestreams happen for his monetary gain, these women are getting absolutely NOTHING from talking with him. But he is getting the subscribers, ad revenue, more members for his group etc all the benefit.
I'm just calling a spade a spade this man isn't out here to do anything but line his own pockets. I'm not mad at it get your money, I find the interactions entertaining but that's where it ends for me.
Kevin isn't speaking for my life experiences at all. All the black families I saw growing up were strong 2 parent households. I'm a public school teacher, 5'10 according to Kevin's definition I'm not a "high value" man but I have zero issues dating attractive successful women. I know plenty of guys I went to school with that work blue collar jobs labor jobs no college degree some still live with their moms and and date attractive women who make more money than them with no issue.
So which one is it? Are women already settling?
I just see a lot of applause for Kevin from guys who don't get any play and feel like he is their savior or something. It's weird.