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so she violated her NDA already?
smart girl.
Kobe Bryant's wife files for divorce. **UPDATE** Alleged mistress on page one. **UPDATE**
so she violated her NDA already?
smart girl.
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i just read up that kobe bought the mistress a 3mil$ condo..... geesh throw me something kobe
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Originally Posted by you big dummy
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i aint say throw me something imma set it out. chill out homieOriginally Posted by Brandon3000
at your manhood
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Originally Posted by MILLION DOLLAR STACKS
Originally Posted by you big dummy
Originally Posted by NobleKane
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Originally Posted by MILLION DOLLAR STACKS
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EVERYTIME!
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voodoo, really? So because Kobe gave her a healthy and rich lifestyle, that outweights the cheating? NO. Kids or no kids involved. How about the fact she was by his side providing him support and being there for him?
MUTUAL RESPECT supercedes everything. He did not respect her and treated her like +%!% for cheating. They had a mutual and monogamous agreement to remain faithful to each other. RESPECT is above all the most important virtue to posess in ANY human interaction, without it everything else fails. Shows where some of you put your values and priorities if you believe that money and riches is above respecting someone else.
Gold digging women who put up with their husband's unfaithfulness and infedility lack self-respect and stay just for the money. Tiger Wood's wife and Vanessa FINALLY leaving did it right.
Don't know why some of you feel bad for him. He is the %@@%!@! that signed no pre-nup and couldn't keep it in his pants. Yup, he deserves it.
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Man id keep it a secret - give me $1mil a year for 5 with an option to resign.
You can't blame Kobe's situation - WC athlete, millions of dollars, fame, chics throwing themselves at you. Just got to be smart and respect your marriage/partner. Why get married in the first place?
You can't blame Kobe's situation - WC athlete, millions of dollars, fame, chics throwing themselves at you. Just got to be smart and respect your marriage/partner. Why get married in the first place?
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but i mean when you basically byob (buy your own #*@%@) you figure you can do whatever you want.
and sometimes pre-nups are bad for "good guy images" such as Kobe and the like (pre-colorado) and get pushed into stuff like this.
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He deserved it, he was an idiot (both for not getting a pre-nup and for cheating) but that doesn't mean you shouldn't feel bad for him. If someone close to you was killed in a car accident because he wasn't wearing his seatbelt, would you feel bad? They deserved it, didn't they? Sure... but when bad things happen to people, there's nothing wrong with emphasizing, even if they had it coming.
Also, if mutual respect is so crucial, why didn't she leave him after the Colorado incident? She stayed with him, an alleged rapist, cheaper, scum... was she willing to give him another chance? Who knows... but all we know is she has half his bank account on her side right now for waiting it out. You would have to be completely ignorant to look past the possibility of her having ulterior motives this time.
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Originally Posted by 0cks
I feel like you are reaching like a mugg muggWhen you are in the dating game both sides take risks... STD's, lies, deceit etc. alls fair in Love&War. As a guy yea you never know why a chick is down for you, it could be your money, status, your look whatever, but a female takes on some risk as well. How did she know Kobe didn't just want to get in get out?
He was scheming on her just as much as she was scheming on him, I'm having a tough time understanding how getting roofied involves both parties trying to get something from each other
Um but non of those equate money.And how many ppl get dumped, played etc and get a millionaires lifestyle out of it? How many ppl get played and as a result travel all around the world, live in multi-million dollar homes? He had his fame, his status, his image, his money, his brand, his endorsements, his reputation. And she had nothing to lose and all to game. Say they never married and it was a hit and quit it, she still wins. Ala tiger woods. She could blackmale him. Could hit the tabloids, etc... She wouldve been famous just off the fact she was messing with him ala the kardasians.
As far as scheming goes, im pretty sure kobe, with his name alone not even including his money and other assets could pull some random chick from the hood. I donty think he has to trick and connive some hood bopper.
As far as the roofie thing goes one person unbeknown to them ends upp getting duped and short end of the stick. i mean if kobe only wanted to hit please believe he could get any other random chick from the hood, with little to no effort involved. If he just wanted randoms chicks to smash, he could and it be as easy as sunday morning. So to imply he had ulterior motives is ubsurd. he was looking for a wifey, and she was looking for a comeup.
To say she was with him for him and not the benefits makes no sense. She had nothing, and didnt have anything going for her in life to live the life she currently does with him. So what risk did she take really. Oh the i could get hurt, i could get played. Well im pretty sure she has been hurt and been played waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay before kobe came into the picture. And she wouldve been hurt and played if she never met kobe. thing is she never woulda got played and the results end up her never worked and never have to work a day of her life, and being in a financial situation that 95% of ppl dram of and will never reach.
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How can you compare not wearing a seatbelt and ending up being dead because of it to cheating on someone? One is negligence and irresponsibility and the other is disrespecting someone and doing something hurtful not only to yourself but to your family.
I don't feel bad for a person that does something vile to others and then gets bit in the @!$ for it. You pay the consequences for reaping what you sow.
First time around those allegations came out, doubt that that was the first time he cheated. Again, it is because she loved him over respecting herself to allow him to do that to her. He probably kept begging for her to stay knowing he did not sign that pre-nup. This time, she just finally had enough.
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But if emotions outweight money and riches then why would she or anyone for that matter ask or want money/alimony. You basically said feelings and emotions supercedes finance right? So why would you want or request money. Will money erase what happen....? Will money heal the pain? And as far as money over respect, that ship is sank. You do realize she was a video pro prior to marrying him right? So self-respect over money lol... she gave that up for a few hundred bucks and a chance to meet snoop dogg 2short and the eastsiders.
Its funny ppl say they have all this pride and dignity and respect and money cant buy my principles. Yet have a ideal and figure about how much they want to be compensated for those so call principles.
And as far as being by his side how so? Her involvement and her association didnt make him the man he is today, and it damn sure didnt make him the player he is today. So just spending someones money, being around them 20% or so of the time equals being by their side. You make it seem like he went through rough times and she was his rock. Or he was sick and on his death bed or something and she was by his side. Hell she has a maid live in nanny etc so she isnt even their by the side of her kids, so ......
Cause she isnt in school, she doesnt work, so what really is the purpose need to have someone living with you 24/7 and taking care o your kids for. Im almost willing to bet she didnt really genuinly love him. It was he is nice cause he does nice things for me aka spoil me with money and monetary things, show me a world ive never seen and never would have seen. And is a cool guy so hell ill get with him. Trust if he wasnt who he was and didnt/couldnt provide those very things you said dont really matter, she never woulda gave kobe the time of day.
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Originally Posted by MILLION DOLLAR STACKS
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Originally Posted by NobleKane
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I compare them because they are both conscious decisions people have the ability to make. I can flip the script and say that cheating is irresponsibility and negligence to your significant other while not wearing your seatbelt is doing something hurtful to yourself and your family.
I'm not saying he was justified in his actions. I really don't care about what he does. I don't care what kind of a person he is. If something unfortunate happens to him, I'll sympathize because I never, ever wish misfortune on anyone. We have all done bad things in our lives. None of us are perfect. We've all hurt other people, so when we get hurt, it's only natural to feel sorry for someone. He's only getting what he deserves... but at the same time it's still something I feel sorry for. I would never want half of my net worth stripped from me. Therefore, I feel sorry for him.
Why do you doubt that the rape case was the first time he cheated? Is there something about him that I don't know about? Does being a superstar athlete mean you're a cheating womanizer, or is it just Kobe?
I just find it funny that she'd finally leave him just after the 10 years. So she keeps loving him over herself until finally, she's had enough? Fair enough. But for that to happen just in time for her to nail half his fortune... I can't say everything is clean.
Regardless, I don't care about why she's leaving him. Like I said above, I don't care about him and his wife. But I feel sorry for him, like I would for anyone who would be in his position.
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It's not feelings and emotions, it is VIRTUES. Now tell me, would you stay with a woman that cheats on you constantly, has no respect for you and is not loyal to you? What do you think is your self-worth to allow someone to trample and do that to you? This not only goes for a significant other, but also "friends" that disrespect you. In order to build an actual respectful relationship, if you truly value yourself, you would not put up with disrespect, infedelity, and disloyalty.Just because this man has money and buys her the world, it means his riches supercede him disrespecting her?
So does her being a video extra make her not respect herself? I never said I agreed to her getting half.
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Which just begs the question: if this is the case, then WHY did she stay with him after he supposedly cheated on her and raped someone in 2003?
So does Ms. Bryant have self-respect or not? And don't say she didn't then, but she does now... I'm pretty sure it doesn't work that way.
And what do you define as self-respect? Being a video extra is questionable... you're making money off your physical attractiveness...
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^Why do many women stay in abusive relationships?
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I don't know, why?
Assuming that wasn't a rhetorical question, I'll say it's fear... they don't want to leave and have the guy go crazy and cue even more abuse.
If that is the explanation for why Kobe's wife stuck with him back in 2003... wait... she was afraid of what? I've never heard of Kobe being a wife-beating person. You're going to need to explain yourself on this one.
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Abuse can mean more than just being physical w/ your spouse. There is emotional abuse as well. Cheating could fall under that umbrella (emotional).
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I still don't follow you. So you're saying that she stayed with him back in 2003 in order to avoid emotional abuse from him cheating on her? If she stayed with him, she would be staying with an alleged cheater. Had she left then, there would have been no more opportunities for him to cheat on her.
What was stopping her from leaving him in 2003? That was my initial question to Hazel.
What was stopping her from leaving him in 2003? That was my initial question to Hazel.
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Certain threads really bring out the true character in people, and this is 1 of them.
Its only human nature to feel sorry for someone when they're life is in turmoil, why should Kobe be any different?
He's still human, so what if he's filthy rich.
I felt the same way when a coworker recently got divorced and lost custody of his 3 kids. Its just messed up, I ain't think to myself " well that's what George gets for cheating with a temp from the office".
And if u wanna be upset, Vanessa isn't the problem. Blame the ridiculous divorce laws we have in this country.
Its only human nature to feel sorry for someone when they're life is in turmoil, why should Kobe be any different?
He's still human, so what if he's filthy rich.
I felt the same way when a coworker recently got divorced and lost custody of his 3 kids. Its just messed up, I ain't think to myself " well that's what George gets for cheating with a temp from the office".
And if u wanna be upset, Vanessa isn't the problem. Blame the ridiculous divorce laws we have in this country.
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That's exactly what I'm saying.
People are taking up arms because Kobe is a superstar and has incredible wealth, all of a sudden he is unworthy of empathy. His life is in shambles right now, and people are saying "well he deserved it". Great, he deserved it. Doesn't mean there's no emotional pain for him.
People always forget that everyone makes mistakes. If you were an angel who never once did any wrong, I could see that thought process.
