Mature Discussion, though: How do you know if the female likes you or is just being nice?

[larryindiana219]

I can never tell untill I get rejected

. So go with that. Make a move..

 

[cocolicious]

Ok keep it random then.

But like other people said touching, want to see you and hang out with you all the time. If you really want to know just ask her.

 

[18th letter]

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by 18th letter

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Be careful some chicks hate cockiness.

a well placed genuine looking smile here and there will bring down her defenses though...lol

Y'all messin' with these naive ones huh?

I stay givin' these dudes the "N please" look.

they aren't doing it right than!
subtle cockiness/confidence whatever you want to call it + smile (not smirk) + sorta playful =

thats assuming that they are feeling you though

 

[j dilla himself]

Originally Posted by LarryIndiana219

I can never tell untill I get rejected

. So go with that. Make a move..

yea i think its too early to make a move..ita not the rejection i fear, its the awkwardness afterwards, you feel me?

 

[akuratl02]

Originally Posted by IMPORTKING

when she offers you food.

she is a keeper.

Automatic !!!

Dont fear rejection .... You'll know when she DOESNT like you . Until then keep the wheels going !!!

 

[diego]

Originally Posted by cocolicious

Ok keep it random then.

But like other people said touching, want to see you and hang out with you all the time. If you really want to know just ask her.

I dont know why you guys beating around the bush.
Yo Coco, are you feeling Mayor of NYC aka J Dilla Himself????

 

[nyota de la star]

Originally Posted by 18th letter

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Originally Posted by 18th letter

Originally Posted by Nyota de la star

Be careful some chicks hate cockiness.

a well placed genuine looking smile here and there will bring down her defenses though...lol

Y'all messin' with these naive ones huh?

I stay givin' these dudes the "N please" look.

they aren't doing it right than!
subtle cockiness/confidence whatever you want to call it + smile (not smirk) + sorta playful =

thats assuming that they are feeling you though

Nahh I'm just too smart.
I actually find it funny.
All this assuming they are really feeling me of course like you said...

 

[solejunkky]

if she wants you to meet her parents; she probably likes you

 

[westcoastsfinest]

i agree with the touching...but a lot of girls are just touchy like that

 

[cocolicious]

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by cocolicious

Ok keep it random then.

But like other people said touching, want to see you and hang out with you all the time. If you really want to know just ask her.

I dont know why you guys beating around the bush.
Yo Coco, are you feeling Mayor of NYC aka J Dilla Himself????

 

[larryindiana219]

Originally Posted by J Dilla Himself

LarryIndiana219 wrote:

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I can never tell untill I get rejected

. So go with that. Make a move..

yea i think its too early to make a move..ita not the rejection i fear, its the awkwardness afterwards, you feel me?
Ain't no such thing as awkwardness.. to me. What I mean is confidence can go a long way. Hell, if Cam'ron can wear pink and the New Boyscan wear that, what the hell should I ever feel awkward about

.. Confidence is the key.. even if you get shot down, you can spin it intosomething funny and still walk away with your pride intact. Feel me? Now go for it.. %%@* you got to lose?

 

[diego]

Originally Posted by cocolicious

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by cocolicious

Ok keep it random then.

But like other people said touching, want to see you and hang out with you all the time. If you really want to know just ask her.

I dont know why you guys beating around the bush.
Yo Coco, are you feeling Mayor of NYC aka J Dilla Himself????

Sorry Mayor, looks like thats a negative.

 

[dkjordan23]

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by cocolicious

Originally Posted by Diego

Originally Posted by cocolicious

Ok keep it random then.

But like other people said touching, want to see you and hang out with you all the time. If you really want to know just ask her.

I dont know why you guys beating around the bush.
Yo Coco, are you feeling Mayor of NYC aka J Dilla Himself????

Sorry Mayor, looks like thats a negative.

 

[ce0 mal]

even if you get shot down, you can spin it into something funny and still walk away with your pride intact


This.

 

[strongmind3]

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Ask her out. If she says no, she's just being nice.

but what if she says yes just to be nice

 

[larryindiana219]

Originally Posted by CE0 Mal

even if you get shot down, you can spin it into something funny and still walk away with your pride intact

This.

never take an L you don't have to.. just leave that *%*@ rightthere and diddybop out the door like, "And?"

 

[j dilla himself]

@ Diego.

 

[elpablo21]

Originally Posted by cocolicious

Ok keep it random then.

But like other people said touching, want to see you and hang out with you all the time. If you really want to know just ask her.

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Ask her out. If she says no, she's just being nice.

but what if she says yes just to be nice

I think eventually she'll come out with the truth if she isnt feeling you..unless she's trying to use you

gotta ask her out though..if she says yeah...pick her brain...give out subtle flirts...you can tell by her replies and body language if she's reallyfeeling you or not...throw a line and see if she bites it

 

[solewoman]

Originally Posted by StrongMind3

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Ask her out. If she says no, she's just being nice.

but what if she says yes just to be nice

this does happen. i let a guy know im interested by what others have said talking to him on the daily, wanting to spend time with him, subtletouching, and showing a genuine interest.

 

[swoboydehteezy]

Sometimes, I think they like me and they don't.

Other times, I don't think they like me and they do.

#kanyeshrug

 

[j23s]

Originally Posted by StrongMind3

Originally Posted by Nawth21

Ask her out. If she says no, she's just being nice.

but what if she says yes just to be nice

she just wants a free meal

 

[nationaltruckerdave]

Originally Posted by solejunkky

if she wants you to meet her parents; she probably likes you

nah all the times, when i was friendzowned i met some this one girls parents.. L

 

[shaze804]

yall dudes is wild

 

[ksteezy]

if you like her more than just as a friend, tell her....that is if you dont mind losing a friend if she decides to turn you down.

 

[general johnson]

Don't be a simp and tell her you like her as "more than just a friend"...

A woman will give you all the clues in the world if she's feeling you like that. She'll look into your eyes a lot, make unnecessary physical contact,stand close to you, laugh at your corny jokes, get shy when you ask her certain things, etc.

There's really no guess work in finding out if a woman is attracted or not. It's your job to cultivate that attraction into something more by keepingit cool and not coming off as anxious/thirsty.