Same guys that don't tip (or tip well) are prob the ones going out with friends, letting them buy rounds then disappearing or "slowing down" when it's their turn. No I don't care but it is noticed and sad, like you need to max the opportunity of others being generous, esp your friends...
No this isn't exactly like tipping because the other person is also doing their job, but you guys don't get it that it's all about reciprocation. Yes the service has to be good to warrant it, but you guys come off like you're taking advantage of the situation. Maybe waiters should just get paid a full wage, prices go up, you pay the higher bill as if you paid the normal price with a decent tip, and everyone goes home happy