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I will say that my confidence level has gone up. It's weird, I'll just look a chick dead in her eyes with the "I'll give you the hammer look" if you come any closer. :lol: it's nuts. It hasn't even been a week.
 
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^Yup, so far so good. But I think it's really going to hit me next week.

Still in it though :smokin

It's not as bad when you tell yourself that "You're just not going to fap. It doesn't matter. You're just not going to fap." None of that "I'm gonna try, and I hope, etc." none of that. Be definite, and your urges won't be as bad.

exactly this

and I'm glad the "you're a disgrace b" was helpful to at least one person :lol: :lol:
 
I'm going to restart on my own doing, not to be put on the list, just because I don't want to wait until November to start again. 

No Fap New Years for Sir Charles. Starting today.
 
one thing I've realized about the dropouts, they always have a post right before talking about how they're struggling and mention a specific name that they're thinking about

fellas, if you see yourself wanting to write a post like that, tread lightly
 
Day 8.


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I'm so ******g mad at myself
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Was NOT worth it.

Starting again though.
Should've never pm'd my dude
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people may see this challenge as lame or OD... but cats literally cant go a few days w/ out fapping... this is a real problem, famb...

like... seriously. i hope people can grasp how serious this stuff can be...

self control is a stepping stone to greatness...

i truly believe that the peoplethat try to downplay this NF months are chronic fappers themselves... and just dont think its a problem...

no way in hell that these are the only few dudes that cant go a week w/ out fapping... there's defintely more out there... and the ones that try to make fun of us are a part of that group..

IN MY OPINION....
Yeah I think it has to do with addiction. Ive been studying the " 5 stages of grief " in psychology and I think if someone is addicted to something like fapping they go threw these stages: denial anger, bargining, depression and then acceptance.

Like some guys are in the denial phase where they think "oh fapping isnt that bad for you" or "I can quit watching porn anytime" These are people that think they cans stop fapping but they never do

Also I think when it come to fapping people go through a "bargaining stage" where they think " Ill just watch only 5 mins of that Spicy J" But then they end up watching the whole thing

Then theres the depression stage where people feel like depressed from not fapping and they think that fapping will make them feel better so they do it.

The last stage in 5 stages of grief is Acceptance.I believe when someone stays in a challenges like this no fap challenge theyll  eventually reach this stage This is when a person finally admits to themselves that their watching porn is harmful and theyll be better without it. When you come to this point it becomes easier to not want to fap and watch porn and to want to get real yambs instead. 

I think the reason must guys get out is because they go through one of these phases and dont know how to deal with it. But what most peopel have to realize is that these are just temporary and that you just gotta persist through the challenge and eventually everything will be good. Yeah its hard but that why its called a challenge
 
Just got out the shower...it almost got real in there but I turned the water on cold and got my mind back right. These urges are coming on and off but they're becoming more constant
 
I'm going to restart on my own doing, not to be put on the list, just because I don't want to wait until November to start again. 


No Fap New Years for Sir Charles. Starting today.


Should be everyones goal IMO


coming into this thread is what is messes people up. The thought of it all day.

Come (lol) in this thread while you're at work or an enviroment where giving in is nearly impossible.
 
I'm still going strong..definitely got smashing on my mind everywhere I go though...was at the game last night and I could smell every woman that walked by. was even ready to take down the walmart girl (big **** and tongue ring)
 
still in. I slept late then made a list of stuff I had to do (getting organized, clean apt/bathroom, grocery shopping) and when I finish it all I reward myself with playing dead space 3.

WhatsLosinLike :smh:

we lost a another one.
 
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