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Originally Posted by kidKiDd
"A relationship without trust, is like being in a car without gas.. You could stay in that mother @#%$&* for as long as you want, but that $@%# ain't goin nowhere"
Originally Posted by kidKiDd
"A relationship without trust, is like being in a car without gas.. You could stay in that mother @#%$&* for as long as you want, but that $@%# ain't goin nowhere"
Originally Posted by el cuco
Honestly OP if you can't forgive and forget, whatever it is she did will always be hovering in the back of your head. Six years is alot of time, but theres no sense in being in an unhealthy relationship, maybe you should just be straight up with her and tell her how you feel?
Originally Posted by el cuco
Honestly OP if you can't forgive and forget, whatever it is she did will always be hovering in the back of your head. Six years is alot of time, but theres no sense in being in an unhealthy relationship, maybe you should just be straight up with her and tell her how you feel?
Originally Posted by NikeTalker23
Originally Posted by SneakerFr
How amazing is she if the lie that she told you was so bad that it's tearing you apart inside? You can do better for yourself, bro.
Nobody is perfect, and like I said we all make mistakes. To think that there is a girl out there that will be honest 100% of the time is unrealistic IMO. In this case what she lied about wasn't cheating, but lying is lying. I'd never forgive cheating. I actually did break up with her over it, but after a few weeks I decided I wanted to move on and be with her knowing she was genuine about being sorry and admitting her mistake. With that said, ever since I got back with her, the lies will pop into my head causing me to resent her for what she did and in turn I get angry with her and start fights. It's not healthy. I just want to move on and rebuild what we had for 6 years.
Originally Posted by NikeTalker23
Originally Posted by SneakerFr
How amazing is she if the lie that she told you was so bad that it's tearing you apart inside? You can do better for yourself, bro.
Nobody is perfect, and like I said we all make mistakes. To think that there is a girl out there that will be honest 100% of the time is unrealistic IMO. In this case what she lied about wasn't cheating, but lying is lying. I'd never forgive cheating. I actually did break up with her over it, but after a few weeks I decided I wanted to move on and be with her knowing she was genuine about being sorry and admitting her mistake. With that said, ever since I got back with her, the lies will pop into my head causing me to resent her for what she did and in turn I get angry with her and start fights. It's not healthy. I just want to move on and rebuild what we had for 6 years.
Originally Posted by Deuce King
Originally Posted by NikeTalker23
Originally Posted by SneakerFr
How amazing is she if the lie that she told you was so bad that it's tearing you apart inside? You can do better for yourself, bro.
Nobody is perfect, and like I said we all make mistakes. To think that there is a girl out there that will be honest 100% of the time is unrealistic IMO. In this case what she lied about wasn't cheating, but lying is lying. I'd never forgive cheating. I actually did break up with her over it, but after a few weeks I decided I wanted to move on and be with her knowing she was genuine about being sorry and admitting her mistake. With that said, ever since I got back with her, the lies will pop into my head causing me to resent her for what she did and in turn I get angry with her and start fights. It's not healthy. I just want to move on and rebuild what we had for 6 years.
NikeTalker23, you my boy and everything so I'm going to be as honest with you as possible. You need to put her on ice for awhile and judge by her words and more importantly actions if she is/was truly sorry and see how she makes it up to you. You don't actually have to tell her that you two need to break up but sometime this week sit down and have a face to face conversation with her, let her know how you feel without being to wimpy about it (guys have a tendency to do that, SMH) and let her know that you want to take some time to get your head right from this situation. If she seems taken back by that conversation and somewhat devastated then that's a good thing, shows she cares a little at least. If she acts like that doesn't phase her then I say drop her unless your married to her.
Life if too short to not be happy and trustworthy with somebody your with. No need for you to suffer any longer champ. Not to mention it's spring season so you should be seeing alot of lonely chicks on the prowl out here that are looking to be a member on some dudes team. Keep in mind that if it were you that was in the wrong and got caught most likely your girl would put you threw hell most likely so I say why not do the same in return. Females have to learn that they also have to work in a relationship to, it shouldn't just be you doing all the work and the one and only one to apologize when wrong.
Originally Posted by Deuce King
Originally Posted by NikeTalker23
Originally Posted by SneakerFr
How amazing is she if the lie that she told you was so bad that it's tearing you apart inside? You can do better for yourself, bro.
Nobody is perfect, and like I said we all make mistakes. To think that there is a girl out there that will be honest 100% of the time is unrealistic IMO. In this case what she lied about wasn't cheating, but lying is lying. I'd never forgive cheating. I actually did break up with her over it, but after a few weeks I decided I wanted to move on and be with her knowing she was genuine about being sorry and admitting her mistake. With that said, ever since I got back with her, the lies will pop into my head causing me to resent her for what she did and in turn I get angry with her and start fights. It's not healthy. I just want to move on and rebuild what we had for 6 years.
NikeTalker23, you my boy and everything so I'm going to be as honest with you as possible. You need to put her on ice for awhile and judge by her words and more importantly actions if she is/was truly sorry and see how she makes it up to you. You don't actually have to tell her that you two need to break up but sometime this week sit down and have a face to face conversation with her, let her know how you feel without being to wimpy about it (guys have a tendency to do that, SMH) and let her know that you want to take some time to get your head right from this situation. If she seems taken back by that conversation and somewhat devastated then that's a good thing, shows she cares a little at least. If she acts like that doesn't phase her then I say drop her unless your married to her.
Life if too short to not be happy and trustworthy with somebody your with. No need for you to suffer any longer champ. Not to mention it's spring season so you should be seeing alot of lonely chicks on the prowl out here that are looking to be a member on some dudes team. Keep in mind that if it were you that was in the wrong and got caught most likely your girl would put you threw hell most likely so I say why not do the same in return. Females have to learn that they also have to work in a relationship to, it shouldn't just be you doing all the work and the one and only one to apologize when wrong.