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This is a great thread.
Im 23 with a solid job (around 50k give or take before taxes) but not doing it anywhere close to some of you guys.
Long story short, i should have a bunch of money saved up from the last few years but instead I have practically nothing and some debt.
This year I plan on attacking the debt head on and eliminating all CC debt. Ill still have my car but it is what it is.
My girl wants to move out around september and i want to too. But this will obviously drastically impact my savings ability so it sucks at the same time.
Was pretty much in the same position as you last year (even down to the age. ) I can't really tell you what I did because I'm still in the process of doing it, but some things for you to consider:
1. Be honest with yourself about your girl. We are both at that age where we have two, maybe three years before we have to decide whether or not they'll be our wives or remain girlfriends. They know this, and regardless of how much she tells you that she won't pressure you into marriage, that is going to be an expectation. If you aren't absolutely certain that she's wife material, you need to start planning for that financially. Having a woman in your life will impact you financially, and it can result in a net loss or a net gain. Be real about it and figure that cost into your budgets.
2. Consider staying at home. My mom and I don't have the best relationship, so staying with her isn't really an option for me. Had it been, I would still be living there and stacking my money. I know the social pressure is telling you that you needed to move years ago, but a LOT of people our age are living at home. Why not knock some debt out of the way and have a 10-15K savings before you move out?
3. Consider buying. Instead of moving into a different rental at the end of my last lease, I decided it'd be better for me to own a home. Depending on your CC debt and savings it might be a stretch, but its worth thinking about. I was paying $1075 to rent a 800 sq ft apartment, not including utilities. My mortgage is $1030, and that includes some other bills. Its nearly $50/mo cheaper for me to own, and I have the added benefit of building equity.
4. Stop putting your lifestyle ahead of your goals. You said in your post that you should have a savings, but instead you have debt. That $50 you dropped at the bar adds up. Add it to the $20 you spent on assorted snacks, the $40 you spent getting fast food, and the $60 you spent on clothes in the last week and you have $170 of money you didn't need to spend. Try to identify all the little ways you leak cash, then limit them. It'll help you save, both now and 15 years from now.