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So heres the problem NT, my girl and I have been going out for almost 8months now and there is something that bothers me about her so called 'friends'. It is regarding excessive flirting from her guy friends. I actually know these guys and they are all pretty cool but they seem to insist on flirting with mygirl even though they know me and her are together (in front of my face). And let me explain this flirting is in the form of sexual innuendos (almost always)but never anything blunt such as, hey you look good come over and lets get busy. An example of the flirting though would be such as the following, "heynice ****" or "hey your boobs are awesome" . But sexual innuendos it is, and they bother me quite much. I feel as if there should be a mutualrespect between us men and that if I would not do that to your girl (as in this case flirt heavily) you should not do that to mine. I feel as if this is justa simple form of respect for one another regardless if we are best buds or not. My girl acts as if I am overreacting saying I am sensitive and defends thembecause they are her so called 'friends' and they are just 'words' being said. But like I mentioned I am cool with these individuals I justdont respect how they dont respect my girl, myself, and our relationship. It comes to the point as mentioned, I would NEVER flirt in anyway excessively withmy friend's gf's. I am not Confucious nor Jesus in anyway preaching the golden rule but I feel as though it's just fair to be respectful of otherpeople's women, may it be there GF, mother, or sister.
I know some of my friends might read this lol but its all good and I just want to let this be known and would like some input from NTers as well. So whatshould I do?
P.S. I already mentioned all of this reasoning to the lady already.
I know some of my friends might read this lol but its all good and I just want to let this be known and would like some input from NTers as well. So whatshould I do?
P.S. I already mentioned all of this reasoning to the lady already.